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Archived questions from: August, 2018 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

After I broke up with my ex I began seeing one of his friends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2033 days ago

31 August 2018 (F) - Rite long story... me and my ex where together for 6 years. 1 little boy age 4. we split just about a year ago and it was a nasty split after we broke up i started seeing his friend to which after months he fell in love with me. i know i hurt ...

I don't know what to say. I just feel lost and alone.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2253 days ago

28 August 2018 (M) - My relationship is ending. I feel like I'm losing my best friend, my person. I know I should "man up" but the grief is overwhelming right now. A 7+ year relationship is ending and I don't see any way that I can ever move on. The woman I fell...

He's messing around with that other girl, he's the one that moved out leaving me paying all the bills when I'm unemployed and yet somehow I'm at fault?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2275 days ago

27 August 2018 (F) - Hi guys, this will be a long one so please bear with me... I moved abroad around 3 years ago for work. Two years in, I met Jay who I thought was, as tacky as it sounds, the one for me. I had never had this connection with anybody before and there...

They look so happy on their photos and get so many likes on them and I can't help feeling like I despise them both

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2281 days ago

23 August 2018 (F) - My ex and I broke up at the start of February after 5 years together. We shared a house, was talking about getting engaged and starting a family etc but I left. I realised I wanted to fulfill my dream of getting a degree which he didn't approve of. ...

Leaving a married man is more painful than staying

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 2280 days ago

22 August 2018 (F) - So I ended my A over a month ago. I felt like a huge weight was lighted off my shoulders that I finally off the roller coster ride of emotions. I started wanting more than he can give He would always make excuses to come to my place go to your p...

Do people change? He wants me to accept he has and wants to have another baby!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2283 days ago

20 August 2018 (F) - After years of my husband being very neglectful , toxic, drunkard and bullheaded.. i decided to stop caring and do my own other things.. Now that he has realized that i might leave the relationship...he says he agrees with me about everythi...

Should I continue to see both my girlfriends or just one?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2283 days ago

20 August 2018 (F) - I have 2 girlfriends, A and D. I have been in an open relationship with A for 4 months and D for a little more than 2 months. Both know about each other and I am in love with both of them. D is older and married to a man and the marriage is open. ...

He sucks! Why am I not good enough?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2281 days ago

20 August 2018 (F) - Hi! I’ve been married to my husband for 7 years now. Prior to him I had a couple long term relationships that ended on “good” terms, by that I mean it wasn’t a bad break up. Kinda like we knew it was done when it was done. Anyway:... I’ve never been ...

How do I get closure after he broke up with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2281 days ago

19 August 2018 (F) - I have been dating this guy for about a month now and we did make it official. We hang out on weekends because of our schedules, but haven’t seen each other the past 3 weeks. We made plans to hang out, but he ended up falling asleep and we didn't ...

I feel very betrayed and hurt.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2283 days ago

19 August 2018 (F) - Hello, So I’m writing this because me and my boyfriend a we’re having trouble and he broke up with me. However, he said he would give me a chance to work on things and see whether we would get back together or not. I thought we were working on ...

After 28 years of marriage I just feel sad.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2282 days ago

18 August 2018 (F) - M Y husband and I have been married for 28years. We have 3 children. We had our own cleaning business which went bankrupt. Whilst working in our family business I also had a 4 day a week external job. He now has a casual care taker job. He works ...

He has a gambling problem and sneaks around. I’m pregnant and wondering if I should just leave him now?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2282 days ago

18 August 2018 (F) - My husband and i are newly married for a year. I just know that he has a very bad personality and character. He lied a lot before since i know him but i brushed it off just because i love him. Now we are married i just know that he has gambling ...

I always find some flaw in men, am I a full-blown lesbian?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2286 days ago

18 August 2018 (F) - Hi, I am 32 and reevaluating my life. I have noticed a pattern of freaking out from liking the same sex. I must admit that I think I'm definitely into the same sex because I am attracted to them physically. I haven't yet gone on a date and don't k...

He keeps asking for nude pictures!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2282 days ago

17 August 2018 (F) - Hi everyone. I'm in a 2yrs long distance relationship with this guy never met him, although the time I would have met him wasn't convenient because of my exams and he traveled back bcos of work. we chat everyday, he tells me he loves me n can't wait ...

Should I continue to try this relationship or end it early? She's great but I find myself wanting more

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2282 days ago

17 August 2018 (M) - I'm a 36 year old working professional and have been with my girlfriend for a little over a year, she's 24 and had just graduated college and recently gotten a job (a decent one too). Like any relationships, at the beginning it was all sweet he...

She likes slaps and I like kisses. We have a baby girl but I don’t see how this will work!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2287 days ago

16 August 2018 (M) - More than a year ago, I started dating a girl who I was exactly smitten by but wanted to see how things would progress. I was introduced to her via a friend so I really wanted to see where things would go. During the first few weeks, we got on ...

My husband lies and the trust is gone.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2287 days ago

16 August 2018 (F) - I just recently found out that my husband has been in touch with an old girlfriend .. email.. and had sent her $200 for her birthday and $400 last Christmas .. and he refuses to put my name on his bank account... I saw all of this on his email .. ...

My body turned him off ... he preferred to watch porn.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2283 days ago

15 August 2018 (F) - I split up with my boyfriend of 10 years a few months ago and he's really effected my self esteem. He said quite hurtful things about my body, I'm just looking for some opinions from guys about what kind of imperfections would really put you off. ...

I can't seem to let this attached man go?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2288 days ago

13 August 2018 (F) - I've been the other woman for a year and I now finally ready to leave but I can't seem to get that last bit of strength to send that break up text. Our affair is purely sexual and I want more. I don't find a relationship that is based on sex sat...

How do I get past this abusive false relationship and move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2289 days ago

12 August 2018 (F) - I left an emotionally abusive relationship. I thought we were head over heels in love but it was just false. He lead me on and tried to use me financially and to help him with his kids. I fell for it for about 2 months. Tried to work things out but ...

How do I change myself so I don’t get cheated on again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2289 days ago

12 August 2018 (F) - I dated a guy for 2 weeks.And I find him very weird and complicated.Sometimes I even suspect of him having any mental illness.I came from north Indian family.My family is looking groom for me.They arranged this guy to date and see how far things ...

He said I am an extraordinary woman, but ended things because I live far away.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2292 days ago

11 August 2018 (F) - Hello my dear Aunts! I hope you are doing well. I met a man online who is someone I would like to be with. We talked on the phone several times and texted constantly for about a month before we met in person. He lives about 4 hours away from ...

Is there any chance she will come back to me?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2270 days ago

11 August 2018 (M) - There is a girl who was friend with me since 2 years. She was so close to me and trust me that she sends her pics to me to ask that which one she should make her DP. We talk everyday on texts for 2-3 hours. within 5 months our chats counts reached ...

She’s a good wife and a good mother, but did she break me too much? Will I ever forget what she put me through?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2296 days ago

8 August 2018 (M) - My current wife and I dated from 2011 till now. I never had any reason to think she was ever unfaithful, but she talked a lot about ex boyfriends, and she had cheated on a number of them. We got engaged in 2014. And were supposed to get married i...

My ex who's also my colleague has ended the relationship in a really nasty way and I'm heartbroken!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2299 days ago

4 August 2018 (F) - Sorry this is a long one but I'd really appreciate some advice please. My boyfriend and I had been together almost five months but have known each other for about a year. We work in the same place but in different departments. There'd always b...

What's a healthy approach to make sure I never end up forgetting about me along the way when I meet a guy again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2301 days ago

2 August 2018 (F) - I broke up with my long term boyfriend about 3 months ago now and I genuinely have lost all form of sex drive whatsoever. I used to have a really high sex drive during the relationship, masturbated, etc and now I couldn't think of anything worse. R...

Should I leave my boyfriend because of my phobia?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2301 days ago

1 August 2018 (F) - I have a really bad phobia of medical procedures, needles and childbirth. I’m receiving counselling and it is getting better, very slowly, but my boyfriend is desperate to start a family and I am absolutely terrified at the idea. He keeps ...

This breakup has me confused and baffled as to what to do! Advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2302 days ago

1 August 2018 (F) - I was in a violent relationship with a man who was controlling. I then started an affair with a man from work in December 2016, who seemed to whisk me off my feet (although never asked me to leave my boyfriend). I then in June 2017 left him and ...