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writes:Hi everyone. I'm in a 2yrs long distance relationship with this guy never met him, although the time I would have met him wasn't convenient because of my exams and he traveled back bcos of work. we chat everyday, he tells me he loves me n can't wait to see me, can't wait to make me a mama and he wants baby. we exchange pictures of ourselves. lately he's been asking for my pic in bra an pant, or sometimes my boobs. I refused to send it because I'll be crossing my boundaries of which he knows. But he keeps on asking for it and I refused. he sent his dick to me deteled it and ask me to send my boobs or he'll keep sending his dick to me. At this junction I'm confused, just need ur advice thanks
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (23 August 2018):
 You don't even know this man in real life, you are basically in a relationship with your phone. You know it is wrong what he is doing so why are you continuing to talk to him? You don't know this man at all, and it sounds like he is just wanting some naked photos. I could almost bet you are not the only girl he is talking to.
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reader, N91  +, writes (22 August 2018):
 How can you be in a relationship with someone you’ve never met? Don’t you realise how stupid that sounds? You’ve wasted two years of your life speaking to someone and you don’t even know it’s who they say they are.
DO NOT send the pictures and don’t waste any more of your life speaking to this guy. You could of been in a relationship with someone for the past 2 years with someone you can see on a regular basis instead you’ve been talking to someone behind a computer. Find a real person.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2018): Hate to break it to you, but it is impossible to be in a relationship with someone you have never met in real life, nor spent time with in real life. This man could be anyone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2018): Thank u sooo much your advice will be of great help to me love u all??
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2018): Simple! If he wants to see you nude; hurry-up and make this LDR are real relationship. Then he can see live nudes anytime!
No nudies over the internet...EVER!!! You don't know who they will be shared with, or where they will end-up. If you breakup, you won't get them back.
He's sending dick-pics and offering to impregnate you?
Girlfriend, when will this guy finally cross the line with you??? Don't you have limits and standards? He's totally disrespectful!!!
It's stupid sending naked pictures of yourself to some guy over the internet. Even if it's your husband! What if he lost his phone, or someone cloned it? They'd have your pic, IP, and personal-information like your phone number. It's very difficult and rare; but people with savvy computer skills can!
They could not only find you but identify you on-sight! People think it's cute and trendy? Well killing yourself and others on video, and sharing it over the internet is considered trendy these days!
This guy has very little respect for you, and doesn't have any class. He's a scumbag!
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reader, IAmBigFoot  +, writes (18 August 2018):
 Dump the relationship and get on with your life! If you bend over I will give you a virtual kick to move you along into reality instead of romantic day dreams!
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reader, Youcannotbeserious +, writes (18 August 2018):
 The rule of thumb regarding sending pictures is, don't send anyone any picture you would not be happy with all your friends and family seeing. I am guessing that will include nude/semi-clad pictures for you.
Someone who keeps sending you pictures of his penis against your wishes (I assume you have asked him to stop?) is not a nice person and certainly not someone you want to get involved with properly.
All you know about this man so far is what he WANTS you to know. He COULD be genuine and just inept socially and a bit of an idiot (best case scenario) or he could be a large scale scammer who wants pictures of you so he can blackmail you.
Either way he is not an attractive prospect as a future boyfriend and/or husband.
In your shoes I would tell him you don't think it is a good idea to keep in contact, then block him so he can't contact you again. Hopefully you have not given him any personal details like your home address.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (18 August 2018):
 Do you think his behavior is appropriate?
Yes or no?
If no, then why are you with him? Why invest so much time in a guy that you haven't even met!
I would tell him that if he sends another dick pic you will block his number and move on.
YOU DO NOT owe this guy ANY nude photos. YOU DO NOT owe him ANYTHING.
I think you are "seeing" the real him now and it's not a nice fellow at the other end. It's a manipulative disrespectful man.
I think you have to decide if you want to waste ANY MORE time on this guy or not. Because you ARE wasting time on a guy who in 2 YEARS haven't been able to meet up. You aren't having exams all year around, right?
And all this talk about knocking you up... that isn't love, OP. Or loving behavior.
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