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Archived questions from: 9 September, 2009 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

It was like the fairytale ended...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5551 days ago

9 September 2009 (F) - I just broke up with my bf of 8 months because i have been having weird thoughts of getting back with the father of my child, but i feel like thats not what my heart wants. I feel that is the right thing to do for my child but we broke up after our ...

Why is she playing me around saying she wants to be friends with me and next moment not wanting to be friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5551 days ago

9 September 2009 (M) - Help me out i'm in a situation and don't know what else to do. I've tried my hardest yet it just gets thrown back in my face. Me and my long term girlfriend of nearly three years split up just over a month ago. It was relatively mutual with no ...

I miss my ex boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

9 September 2009 (F) - Okay so Im in this new relationship I really care about this guy lets call him jay, and my ex I still think about now that im a senior. I really just want to be over him like I cant help but think about him and everything we did and used to do I ...

He used to be smart and no-nonsense. Now he's a manchild.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

9 September 2009 (?) - I am clueless what went wrong with this guy I dated for a year. He used to be very sensible and even if I wasn't so attracted to him, his being rational, smart and level headed made me fall in love with him thinking I found a man who is unique. He ...

Ex wants to be friends after our break up but does he mean it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

9 September 2009 (F) - my boyfriend of just about 2 years broke up with me about a week ago. no matter what i do, i just can't seem to get over him. when he broke up with me, he said it was because he couldn't see himself with me in the future and because we have nothing ...

When I asked if we'd marry he broke up with me saying he couldn't commit!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

9 September 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and we were about to buy a house together however when I asked if he will ever marry me he has ended our relationship as he said he can not commit. Will he ever come back to me?...

My girlfriend has just disappeared! It's been a week now, how long should I wait before moving on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

9 September 2009 (M) - My girlfriend has dropped off the map for a week now and i have sent online messages, texts, and left voice messages, but she did not respond to any of them what so ever. I did however get a response from her cousin that said that she had left the...

She told me she wanted to be with me again, but then had a one-night stand.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

9 September 2009 (M) - My mind is torn. I have dated a girl for three years. I went through a lot and was emotionally closed off for a long time. She finally reached her breaking point and left. It took her leaving me to realize the dark place I was in. While ...

How can I be strong about this and move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

9 September 2009 (F) - did i do wrong in looking in my boyfriends phone? i looked at his text messages.. he texted this one chick i always thought he was screwing around with. told her to get some rubbers, im speechless. i dont wanna think about it. im the saddest girl on ...

Should I tell my ex boyfriend I am having worries after we slept together or should I just ignore them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

9 September 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend of 2 years split up around 3 weeks ago due to stupid things and my boyfriend feeling like he was under pressure from other sources. We have stayed in contact and over various discussions he has told me that what he did was a ...

I want him to WANT to spend time with me, not because I forced him to do it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5551 days ago

9 September 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been going out for a year and a half now. once the end of the year comes, we'll be going to different countries to study uni and we have both decided that we have to go our seperate ways. we're both 18. the problem is, i ...

Will writing my feelings down help me get over my ex or will it bring back all the memories?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

9 September 2009 (M) - My ex-girlfriend broke up with me about 3 months ago and I'm still getting over it. I'm wondering if writing things down will either help me get over it (by letting some stuff out on the paper) or it will make me reminisce and think about all ...

Should I fight for our 7 year relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

9 September 2009 (M) - Ok heres the layout.... Me and my wife has been together for 7 years sept 13 we have been married for the last 2 of the 7 we have a beautiful son that is turning 1 year on oct 1 i am really excited and for those of you wandering he was planned not a ...

We agreed that we'd break for the summer -- I'm a mess waiting for official word

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

9 September 2009 (M) - Myself and my girlfriend broke up about 3/4 months ago and i dont think im over it yet. we agreed to be friends, speak on the phone once a week and just try to get on as if nothing's happened, just minus the kissing, sex, closeness etc. ...