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writes:I just broke up with my bf of 8 months because i have been having weird thoughts of getting back with the father of my child, but i feel like thats not what my heart wants. I feel that is the right thing to do for my child but we broke up after our daughter was born cuz he would constanly emotionally abuse everyday and make me cry even when i was pregant and i ended this like 2 years ago and decided to be single. Now i got involved with this guy who is the man of my dreams when we first met we connected so fast and got along so well until and issue about my past came up which i tld him before we went out so he made a big issue about that and this went on for 3 months but i i loved him a lot so i tried to make it work with him but he kept on making new problems up it was like i could never make him happy. It was like the fairytale ended. But he has never disrespected me in anyway like the father of my child and he always been there and he just cries at the thought of me leaving him. Whne im with him i feel like i wanna be with my childs father but when im not i wanna be with the other guy. Im so torn between the two and i dont know what i should do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2009): I really dont think you should get back with your child's father, he sounds like a disgusting moron to be treating you like that and emotionally abusing you. I know it sounds right so your child can have both its parents, but it wont be a good situation and environment for you too live in and especially not a good one for your child. The other guy sounds like he really cares about you and wants to be with you. Its good he doesnt abuse you, but you need to work out your issues with him. The person you love needs to always lift you up, make you feel good about yourself, and make you always want to be around them. If he doesnt do that either, then you need to move on. Just be open with him and see if you can work out your issues and get back to the way things were. You need to put your emotions, your health, and your child's health above all else.
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