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Archived questions from: 14 September, 2009 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

My LONG story and current situation!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

14 September 2009 (M) - Right this is a VERY long one.. Back in October last year i was seeing another girl casually, i had been single for a long time and well we began talking and a few things lead to another we never slept together though i told her i didn't want sex,...

I broke up with him and I want him back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5547 days ago

14 September 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfiend have broken up after going out for a couple of months. We weren't in love but I could of fallen for him. The start of the relationship was brilliant i felt safe and that it would work and I would be very happy. He was caring and ...

Advise please on if I'm being "unreasonable"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5546 days ago

14 September 2009 (F) - Hi I'm looking for some insight into whether Im being stupid or not....my boyfriend of three years has decided that when i go to univesity next year he will split up with me. this is extremely summarised because it is a long and complicated problem ...

Why did he have sex with me, when he knows he's dumping me?

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14 September 2009 (F) - my boyfriend.. he'd been soo distant for quite a while now so i confronted him and he started yelling at me callin me a nag.. but we made up after the argument..cos he said sorry he was just angry and begged me to forgive him..we made love.. i...

He left how do I get him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5547 days ago

14 September 2009 (F) - he left for another!i know he loves me but has gone to her for sex,cause im one of those who'll wait to get married... how could i make him come back begging to get back with me? ...

He was newly separated when we got together, and his stories to me don't mesh with what his wife tells me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5547 days ago

14 September 2009 (F) - dear cupid i need your help, i been with a man who is seperated for over 2 years its been a really rocky ride as he didnt tell me the seperation was fresh when i met him and i was thinking the divorce was nearly through. anyway last yaer i had a ...

He needs time, what does he mean?

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14 September 2009 (F) - I had a fight with my boyfriend he broke up with me and he switched off his phone for 2 days. He finally picked up the phone yesterday. I tried to get him back. He wanted to break-up with me. Says he's doing fine without me and doesn't want a ...

I'm to weak to brake up with her what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5546 days ago

14 September 2009 (M) - Hi. I have a humungus problem i need help with. I´ve been together with a girl for the last two years. However, we became together when I was in the height of my puberty, so I aimed for the first and the best. (If you dont understand, I mean that ...

I really believe we are meant to be together; has anyone got any advice on how I can show her how great we can be together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5547 days ago

14 September 2009 (M) - My fiance ended our 3 year relationship last month. We had the most fantastic relationship. Yes, we had little bumps along the way (as everyone does I'm told). However, this year I let her down in areas that are most important to her. I'm talking ...

He called off our wedding, should I give him time to clear his head, or is he stringing me along?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5546 days ago

14 September 2009 (F) - My fiance broke up with me 3 months before our wedding. He said 90% of our 3yr relationship is great but there was this 10% of uncertainty. He left the country for 1 month to 'sort out his thoughts'. When he came back,started calling and told me ...

Should I break up with my fiancee before I go to Iraq?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5547 days ago

14 September 2009 (M) - so i suppose i'm here because im just at the end of my rope. i recently got out of boot camp and just got notice that i am going to iraq next week on tuesday. and i am aware i will be a different person if i make it back home . so i want to know, ...

Anxiety problems...

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14 September 2009 (F) - I suffer from anxiety and have done for the majority of my life, I have spent a lot of time worrying! I have been on anti-depressants for a long time of my life and they have never done me much good, and recently after a relationship break up (4 ...

I was terrible to her and now she wants space but I want to make things right!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5547 days ago

14 September 2009 (?) - i am a guy who is in a relationship, that is six years old, and recently my girlfriend told me that she had enough of me, she wants to break up with me, because of all the abuse and painfall things that i have said to her in the past, and it is ...

Relationship had to end but she's heartbroken!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5546 days ago

14 September 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and me have had to end our relationship today, as I am going back to university, and neither of us want to continue our relationship in long distance circumstances. We both knew this day would come, however, she's really upset and so ...

Wife had an affair, I'm considering divorce and now she's threatening to harm herself!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

14 September 2009 (M) - A few months back my wife confessed to having an affair with a married man after almost three years of stubbornly denying it. She only confessed after my doctor told her it would delay my recovery from a mental breakdown i had over her affair. ...

How can I achieve the closure I need from this relationship and move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5547 days ago

14 September 2009 (F) - i recently split from the bf. it was my choice, i didnt feel like i had any other. he was flirting with another girl and got caught out. i just felt it was disrespectful to me. he didnt deny anything was going on, and argued back with me. dont g...

I feel restless and want to move on!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5547 days ago

14 September 2009 (F) - I recently spent sometime away with my b/f to savage our relationship. Out of the 14 days - I saw him for 3. He has been back 7 days in the UK and I have not seen him. He called and I called back a few days later - he was ill. I feel its time...