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female
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30-35,
*lly922
writes:Me and my boyfiend have broken up after going out for a couple of months. We weren't in love but I could of fallen for him. The start of the relationship was brilliant i felt safe and that it would work and I would be very happy. He was caring and wanted to please me. However, after the summer he changed. He became lazy and didn't try as hard to impress me, he would also make stupid comments to wind me up. I thought this just meant that the honeymoon stage was over and that we would have to try a little harder. I confronted him about how I felt and he accepted what I said and said things would get better. But they did'nt and as things got worse, i could tell that his feelings for me aswell as mine for him were fading. I confronted him again and we decide to end it as he wasn't ready to be serious and he new I was and he didnt want to hurt me. He was so kind and sat with me while i cried and he cheered me up. Once he left i broke down as I really thought we could make it. We are still going to be good friends and im glad cause he is such a good person but just isn't mature enough to have a relationship. We are both still attracted to each other and since we have ended our relationship it is as if a cloud has been lifted and that there is no more pressure. Our conversations are much better and he is still a little flirty. However this confuses me as a little part of me still thinks we might get back together, and I would love to give it a second chance but I dont know what to do to get him back. My friends tell me to act cold and make him realise what he has lost but some of my male friends tell me to make him jealous. I am not sure what to do, so if anyone has any opinions then I would be very grateful. Thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2009): Give it a little time. Maybe some time apart might do you both some good.
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