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He needs time, what does he mean?

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Question - (14 September 2009) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female Netherlands age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I had a fight with my boyfriend he broke up with me and he switched off his phone for 2 days. He finally picked up the phone yesterday. I tried to get him back. He wanted to break-up with me. Says he's doing fine without me and doesn't want a relationship. He was in tears during the whole conversation. So I decided to wait outside his house to give him breakfast(he used to do that for me all the time) He saw me outside and texted me this:

Why are you doing this? I know that u love me and doing the best you can. We will talk another other time but I really don't wanna continue with u, the way it is right now. I really appreciate what you do, but give me/urself some time to think. We can be friends in the meantime(we are collegues as well) please give me time. I won't forget what you've done for me. But I really don't need it right now. pls understand.

He seemed very happy to receive the breakfast and gave me his coat cuz I felt cold standing outside. But he was also distant:didnt want to hold me/hands. He was smiling all the way untill he left. After that, we met at work. He just acted normal, like a friend.

I called him to ask how much time he need. He says he doesn't know. I told him that I will give him a few days cuz i don't want him to leave me tangling. He says I can do whatever I want in the meantime even dating other guys! He knows I won't! And he says he still loves me?? That he won't use this time to meet girls??

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