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writes: i am a guy who is in a relationship, that is six years old, and recently my girlfriend told me that she had enough of me, she wants to break up with me, because of all the abuse and painfall things that i have said to her in the past, and it is actually true that i have abused her and said painfall words, i have made her to make abortion twice, i beaten her, i have insulted her, called a bicth, slut, idiot all the painfall things you can imagine, and i have done that for the past two years, and now i can really see that she has actually tried to do everything in her power to change this relationship. and i still holded back, i have apologized to her and told my mother that i havent been a good boyfreind and that i regret been like that, apologized to her sister.i have accepted that i was wrong, and all of these things i did them because in 2005 she was cheating on me, she told me and asked for forgiveness. i forgave her, but i didnt accept the fact that she slept with someone. now i am ready to move on with my life with her and start afresh, but i dont know what to do beacause she told me that she wants some space. i gave her space, just not sure if she wil come back to me. i really love her and want to spend the rest of my life with her. and reallizing all the efforts that she made in this relationship it hurts so bad. what to do now? and what to do when she came back to me. cause i feel ashemed by the things that i have done. i love so much and wanna make it uop to her for ever. i am ready to start afresh, just dont know what to do know, iam confused.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni really appreciate all the answers i have recieved so far, and believe me, when i say i feel really bad about this, that i am even thinking of backing up on this relationship, because i have so much pain. but the thing is i love her so much and i want to make it up for her. and i believe that i can be a better man for the future, i love her and dont wanna loose her. cause she brings out the best in me. and i have promised her that i will always be with her no matter what we going through.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2009): The best thing you can do for her is to leave her alone. If you did have her back you will only do the same bad things to her again. Work on yourself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2009): I would suggest counselling before you go forward with any relationship ever again. Abuse is not ok and you need to address these serious issues before you damage another being.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2009): Dude, just back off. You cant beat a woman, and expect her to love you back. I have no idea why she stayed with you. I think you have ruined her life enough. Either change your ways, or never date again.
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