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writes:I recently spent sometime away with my b/f to savage our relationship. Out of the 14 days - I saw him for 3.He has been back 7 days in the UK and I have not seen him. He called and I called back a few days later - he was ill.I feel its time to call it a day. I want to talk to him as I am planning on giving up everything int he UK to emigrate as I am so unhappy.I have family here but they are so bitchy and just hurt my feelings all the time. I have never met his family despite us having a 6 year old child together. I hate the UK and have always loved the US or Caribbean. I just feel like I want to run away. I teach but my job takes over my life (16 - 19 year olds). I turned down the job as cabin crew with BA as I cd not afford a drop in salary as I was doing my house up - I really regret that as I feel that's what I needed - a change.I formed a crush on this guy who hairdresses for his family business and recently found out on the internet that he is developing prostrate cancer. It really upset me. Its been a long time since I last had a crush. A sign that I need to move on.Any advise welcomed.Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2009): I think you have given plenty of evidence that you have already made your mind up to leave. I say you only have one life, its not a dress rehearsal. Following your heart and your instincts and go where you need to. You didn't before (not taking the job at BA) and regretted it. Don't live with regrets.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2009): what is the question?It's hard to understand what you are trying to say. How is it you never met his family, what about grandparents, don't they want to see their granddaughter?You do sound unhappy, but it's a lot of facts you're giving, and it's hard to understand what advice are you looking for. Sorry.
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