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Archived questions from: July, 2020 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

How can I help my long distance boyfriend with his self esteem & self body shaming?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1614 days ago

27 July 2020 (F) - My boyfriend and I are both 27. He is the most wonderful man I have ever met. He is so loving, empathetic, humorous, caring, and interesting. He is my best friend. I am extremely attracted to him. However, he has low self esteem when it comes to his ...

Do I expose a cheater?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1613 days ago

26 July 2020 (F) - As i write this down i realise how stupid it all sounds and how much of a massive idiot i’ve been. Just over a year ago i went to a 20 year school reunion, i don’t live in the town anymore but i have a lot of friends there and my parents sti...

How do I change being judgemental?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1617 days ago

25 July 2020 (F) - I discovered that I’m judgmental. Maybe not in all situations, bit as it turned out in this one, I am. How do I change this? I find it really hard to change the opinion I have. I’m 43 years old and so is my best friend whom I’ve known since kinderga...

Would you forgive parents who made your life so miserable?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1617 days ago

22 July 2020 (F) - Hello, I've been raised in a really abusive family. Both my parents are mentally and physically abusive. I have deep hatred towards both of them. Although I have a more closer relationship with my mom, yet she's abusive and manipulative as heck. We ...

Are women equally as shallow as men?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1457 days ago

21 July 2020 (M) - Shallow men only go after attractive women. Would it be fair to say that shallow women only go after bad boys? I notice that bad boys tend to have more "alpha" personalities and therefore higher status in society. Perhaps men are wired to seek ...

How do women maintain their self worth as they age when everything is about looks?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1617 days ago

21 July 2020 (F) - Scrolling through my general forum I see many interesting topics but every few posts there’s young women’s pictures posted in bikinis or even just in normal clothes with comments on their attractiveness ( or not ) I don’t see any such images of men ...

What is this man up to?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1619 days ago

19 July 2020 (M) - I'd be interested on others views and opinions on this, please. A man living in a neighbourhood for two decades starts to look at a single, female neighbour who has lived there for the same time. They do not know each other but are of a similar ...

How do I stop talking so much?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1623 days ago

16 July 2020 (M) - I talk to much. It is a habit I always had. Any advice on how to break this habit?...

I don't have friends and I don't feel like I fit in anywhere

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1631 days ago

10 July 2020 (F) - I didn't know where to go to ask this question. I go onto many forum sites but no one answers correctly, I needed some advice and wisdom from the lovely users on here who have consistently helped me with my relationship problems xox I'm not sure i...

We dated, I wasn't ready, we became friends, she got a boyfriend and now I love her.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1633 days ago

8 July 2020 (M) - I’m struggling with my feelings for one of my female friends. Two years ago I met her and we started dating. However, it only lasted a month. I had just got out of a relationship a few months before and although I initially thought I was ov...

My daughter doesn't want to spend the whole access weekend with me.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 1599 days ago

7 July 2020 (F) - I am feeling so hurt and crushed right now. I had phone call exchange with my daughter who is ten years in age and lives with her dad at a hundred miles distance. My daughter has decided that when she comes to my home next fortnight, she o...

I have issues I need to discuss with my boyfriend, please help me clarify them.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1634 days ago

7 July 2020 (F) - I've been known my "boyfriend" (we're not official, at least he hasn't communicated that to me, but we act as if we are) since December of last year and finally met in person for the first time this June since COVID-19 sent me back home as I go to ...

I keep dreaming about my attractive neighbour who has a girlfriend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1635 days ago

7 July 2020 (F) - Dear all, I am not sure why this is happening to me but I keep dreaming of my neighbour of who I fancy a lot. He is handsome and a good neighbour who is always helpful BUT has a girlfriend. We only talk as neighbours, not even as friends but my f...

How can I tell if my husband is physically attracted to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1634 days ago

7 July 2020 (F) - How would a wife know her husband is physically attracted to her ? If she asks him and he just nods or is evasive or doesn’t ever compliment her. Is the fact he has sex with her a way she should assume means he’s attracted even though he also gets ...

On and off ex just married somebody else.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1634 days ago

6 July 2020 (F) - ex and i were doing the on/off thing for YEARS. it went on too long, i still had feelings, he apparently didn't because he was always hesitent to get back together. he had a cycle of hoovering and discarding me over and over again. i foolishly ...

My boyfriend masturbates to porn after we have sex.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1634 days ago

6 July 2020 (F) - HI Mymy relationship with my Bf of over 1 year has on the whole been v good. We are quite compatable and enjoy life ,so I am very happy . But he has always had this man urge to masturbate. It is getting to be a habit after we have make love he is li...

I had a quick fumble with husband's friend, he wants to carry it on, I want it to stop!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1633 days ago

5 July 2020 (F) - Hi everyone, I have done a really terrible thing and I just need some help or advice on where to go and how to deal with my emotions. I have been married for nearly 3 years now and my marriage hasn't always been the most easiest. Around 6 months ago ...

My boyfriend was aggressive to my son over football

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 1635 days ago

5 July 2020 (F) - Hi. Today there was an incident with my son and Bf in front of my family whom we are down to viait for a few days. My Bf is an avid football supporter and my family support the rival team but they are not really into football they just have a few ...

I don't understand online friend's behaviour

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1636 days ago

4 July 2020 (F) - Firstly, I'm not looking to get criticized, I am aware that this is online but I am merely looking to learn about this type of behaviour so I can avoid it and pick up on it in the near future. Three months ago I picked up online gaming again and...

My boyfriend of seven months has anger issues.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 1635 days ago

3 July 2020 (F) - Hi all, hoping for some advice: I’m divorced, in my 40s, and have recently moved country. Shortly after moving, I met my now boyfriend (of 7 months) For some time now, I have not been able to make sense of my his anger issues. He is highly-edu...

Sex in my new relationship is awful, maybe I need therapy!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1635 days ago

2 July 2020 (F) - Hey Aunts and uncles I have been seeing this man for 3 months now. He is kind, considerate and good to me. We have had sex a couple of times now but only recently. I made him wait until I was ready, which he was fine with. My problem.... the s...

I've been offered a job that would take me out of my comfort zone.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1639 days ago

2 July 2020 (F) - I have worked in the same small (30 people) company for 10 years. I enjoy my work and I like my colleagues. It can be stressful from time to time but I don’t have formal targets and I know I can do my job well. I am one of the most senior people ...

Am I a bad friend for wanting to distance myself?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1638 days ago

2 July 2020 (F) - My former best friend and I developed strange relationships with food around the same time. We’re still fairly close and text talk frequently, but we trigger each other whenever we see each other in person. She’s hospitalized at the moment, and has ...