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Archived questions from: April, 2019 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

Whenever we disagree he brings up everything that has ever made him mad!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2035 days ago

30 April 2019 (F) - Well, my boyfriend and I have been dating 20 months. He said God brought us together but this relationship has been emotionally draining. He has such a quit temper that even when I say things that are right I'm still wrong. He is not a person that ...

What rules/boundaries/routines to set out when finding a housemate/flatmate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2032 days ago

26 April 2019 (F) - Hi all, simple questions really, but still needs detailed thought and I’m struggling to think of everything. When finding a housemate/flatmate what am I supposed to look for? Also, what are the rules/boundaries/routines/etc to set out? Do you set ...

Do you believe in reincarnation or soulmates?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2033 days ago

26 April 2019 (F) - Do any of you believe in reincarnation or soulmates? My partner and I have such a deep connection that was so instant that it was like we've known each other for years. So I was just curious if anyone else has experienced anything similar. ...

I'd really like a hobby. Should I take a comedy course?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2036 days ago

26 April 2019 (F) - i often put myself down but i can give at least a list of ten things i like about myself and for any of the other cupid users i hope this doesnt come across as big headed but i do think i am naturally a funny , witty creative person . in the pa...

Is it possible that a man could be so nervous that he can't stop shivering around women?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2038 days ago

26 April 2019 (F) - I've been seeing this man for about 2 months, everything was going great but I'm not sure how can i make him more comfortable around me whenever we are on a date. I have more experience with men but he claims that I'm the first girl who went on a ...

I have trouble when living with someone on how to go about getting them to pay part of the bills

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2038 days ago

25 April 2019 (F) - Hello. I am a thirty year old parent of 2 who has had a few short term relationships over the last ten years, but for the most part have lived by myself. It seems that once things start to progress into living together, that i really struggle ...

I don't think he's over his ex yet. What should I do now?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2034 days ago

23 April 2019 (F) - To cut a long story short...A guy I’ve dated previously (but never been in a relationship with) and someone who remained a friend for about 5 years suddenly exited his toxic relationship of six months. I hadn’t seen this friend in a year or so but ...

Despite all the nonsense I still wanted him but the "Facebook relationship" woman he's never met in real life reaps all the benefits

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2042 days ago

22 April 2019 (F) - He is a typical Mr Unavailable. We were close once and we’d text all the time. I was coming out of a destructive relationship and soon our involvement became romantic. Despite his advances and “promises”, he was just unable to commit to a ...

What's wrong with me? I've always been conditioned to want certain things out of life but none of them fit my idea of my most honest self

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2043 days ago

21 April 2019 (F) - How can I accept who I am? for the last 30 years all I have been conditioned to want is 1. Get married 2. Buy a house 3. Make babies and compete with your neighbor to show who is happier - fancier - richer etc . My family is quite dysfunc...

It looks like he's lost interest after we had sex. How do I get him interested in me again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2040 days ago

20 April 2019 (F) - I met a guy a couple years ago (let's call him Adam), and it was immediately clear he liked me, but I had a boyfriend. We hung out a handful of times over the next 2 years, but I kept it friendly. I recently broke up with my boyfriend, so Adam and I ...

How would you feel if your doctor hugged you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2043 days ago

20 April 2019 (F) - My medical doctor started giving me hugs at the end of our regular appointments. The first time he just initiated a hug; the second time he said "I hope you don't mind me hugging you. I have been working with him for about a year. How would you ...

Does my post break up regret suggest we should stay together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2048 days ago

17 April 2019 (F) - Hi guys, I feel at a dilemma here. I have been in a relationship with my current BF for 5 months now. I am 26, he is 26. I have asked questions about this relationship on here in the past, basically not wanting to deal with his issues. Most ad...

Should I tell my former professor how I feel about him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1954 days ago

17 April 2019 (F) - its been about 6 six years now since I left college and I got along really well with my maths teacher and I started to develop strong passionate feelings towards him , I was aware it was not appropriate so I have never told anyone or him . just...

Does anyone have a short sharp way of dealing with work place bullies?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2047 days ago

15 April 2019 (F) - Does anyone have a short sharp way of dealing with work place bullies? I have approached my employer and he says he does not see it. I am ridiculed about my age my appearance, my unmarried status and shockingly having children out of marriage and ...

I have read some horrible things about a singer I loved. Should I stop listening to his music?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2047 days ago

14 April 2019 (F) - I have really enjoyed listening to this person's music ever since I was around 10 , I danced to all his songs and sung them on karaoke at weddings and bought his albums . I have a full bookshelf full of all his greatest hits . He is not alive ...

I don't know whether to ask my father for financial help or go overseas for further studies

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2052 days ago

14 April 2019 (F) - Dear Cupids, I have a life dilemma. I am 31 and still living with my parents. I am an intuitive person and I understand its time for me to move on to my own apartment. Unfortunately though the salary i make per month cannot sustain me into ...

I get dates but then I think there might be somebody better so I ghost them

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2051 days ago

13 April 2019 (M) - Hello everyone, I am looking for some help and would be grateful for your opinions. I'm single and looking for a woman, and I've had 13 dates so far this year. I'm not a fussy guy and I liked 9 of them. With 7 of these 9, I have had second or th...

I have neve wanted children, husband is being pressured to adopt his orphaned nephew

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2051 days ago

13 April 2019 (F) - My husband and I are both 29 and child free by choice. His sister and her husband, both 40, passed away in a car accident two months ago. They left behind a 9 year old who is currently living with my husband's parents. Long story short, his paren...

Am I being paranoid about HPV?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2053 days ago

12 April 2019 (F) - Hi What are the chances of me getting hpv from one single encounter without condom or one single act of oral? The guy had no signs or symptoms. I got my std panel but there is no testing for hpv. How do I make sure I’m clear? I don’t have any...

IVF - is it painful to do eggs retrieval without general anaesthetic?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1974 days ago

11 April 2019 (F) - I've just started IVF and wondered if any woman here has done this process, and if its possible for them to do the eggs retrieval without being under general anaesthetic. I am really scared of generals and my fertility doctor tried to relax me by ...

If he takes days to respond, is he not interested?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2053 days ago

9 April 2019 (F) - I met this guy online a few months ago, we live an hour away from each other. We were talking casually for about a month before meeting up. We had a great date and ended up hooking up afterwards. I wasn't planning on it but it sort of happened when ...

Father-to-be thinks his life is now over - will he change?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2058 days ago

8 April 2019 (F) - My finance and I are expecting our first child very soon. We have been together for 10 years and previously had a miscarriage which was very hard. Through out my pregnancy, he only goes through phases where he is interested in it. I get no add...

My boyfriend won't tell anyone that I'm a part of his life and I feel like a dirty secret

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2058 days ago

7 April 2019 (F) - My Boyfriend refuses to tell anyone about me he claims he is private . He won't even tell his parents about me claims he is fighting with his Mother... yet she text him every day he visits her at Christmas and she just sent him flowers. This has ...

I think I am messed up and that I messed up this relationship.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2049 days ago

7 April 2019 (F) - Hi everyone, I’ve had something very strange happen to me and I’m hoping someone can help me work out what to do about it. I’ve been crushing on a man for about 18 months now. He’s physically not my usual type, but the minute I met him I had a ...

I'm really confused about this guy.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2057 days ago

7 April 2019 (F) - So, me and this guy have been talking. It was ok. Then he sends a message saying I've been thinking long and hard about your messages. If it was the the other way around you would you would cause for concern. So, dont apologise again. Im not up for ...

Should I burn bridges with my new employer to move to another country?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2060 days ago

3 April 2019 (M) - Hi all, I was hoping for some advice. I have recently accepted a job offer after some fairly vigorous interviews. On accepting the job is was sent through a timetable stating it was actually an apprenticeship and that the first 3 weeks would...

I'm unhappy in my relationship but feel stuck because we live together and share a rental contract.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2060 days ago

3 April 2019 (F) - So backstory: I've been in a relationship for 2 years and recently I've been thinking a lot about how he doesn't really make me happy anymore. I've spoken to a few friends about this and they have suggested breaking up which is much easier said than ...