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Archived questions from: 9 September, 2009 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

Who do I believe... friend or boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

9 September 2009 (F) - If your friend for about 1 year said that she slept with your boyfriend and your boyfriend for about 1 year and 3 months swears he didn't, who would you believe?...

My friend was raped and is now pregnant and I'm assuming the "father role".

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

9 September 2009 (M) - My female friend who likes me is 14 and was raped, she is now pregnant. I have assumed the father role, i love her. I held her for 3 hours after she was assaulted, trying to calm her. My question is am i doing the right thing? My heart says yes but ...

Help! How can I shake myself out of this depression???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

9 September 2009 (M) - Hello, I thank everyone who takes their time out to sift through my ramblings. I suppose I am lost as to what I should do. For the past year or so I have had then daunting feeling of unhappiness. I am so completely unfamiliar with this I do not re...

So how do I improve my relationship with humanity?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

9 September 2009 (M) - Hi, the other day I asked the question about how do I rid myself of heterosexuality. I guess this is a small part of a very complex puzzle. You see, my revulsion towards humanity dwells in the fact that I myself am cursed with this body of fle...

Fell in love while working abroad, how can we make it work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5575 days ago

9 September 2009 (F) - This guy I met over the summer (we worked away together and are currently living in different countries) and I completely fell head over heels for each other without even meaning too. It just happened and it swept us off of our feet. The only thi...

My sister is having an affair. Should I tell her lovers wife.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

9 September 2009 (M) - My sister has been having an affair for over a year now. They are both married although only content in their marriages. I want to reveal the affair to his wife but do not want to reveal my sister's identity because she has young children in the ...

Is anybody familiar with divorce process in Canada?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

9 September 2009 (F) - Is anybody familiar with divorce process in Canada? I have made my decision ,to leave my husband, but I don't know where to start. What happens if I move out before the divorce papers? I'm not sure I can deal with him, he is not going to cooperat...

I feel as though my life is at a stand-still. Please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

9 September 2009 (F) - Please Help, I am 20 years old and have recently bought a house with my boyfriend of two and a half years which we moved into May 2009. Although I was over excited at the time I regret the decision I made with a vengeance. I feel like when I reac...

I'm scared I'm going to be held back from life because of my anxiety! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5589 days ago

9 September 2009 (F) - This is pretty long... I'm 16 and I've never been in a proper relationship with anyone..boys or girls in my case. I've always been very introverted and in my own world..and whats more i have generalised stress disorder, which is pretty common b...

2 months pregnant; scared and confused!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

9 September 2009 (F) - In July I found out that I was pregnant for the second time from my boyfriend of 4 years. The first pregnancy was twins and I terminated it, against his wishes because I didn’t feel like we were ready or mature enough for them. I’m 21 and a senior ...

I have a terrible sister, should I kick her out or give her a second chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5589 days ago

9 September 2009 (M) - I could use advice my sister is driving me nutts, she leaves and 12am in the morning and goes to who knows where shes brought a guy home at 2Am when i asked her whats with this guy she told him not to worry about me im just her brother. shes doing ...

Life is nothing but disappointments

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5580 days ago

9 September 2009 (F) - I am a 28 year old female. I have 2 children and 1 on the way. I have lived such a chaotic life. When i was 4 i was molested by an uncle until the age of about 11. He died about 4 years ago, without confessing a thing. He also let my family ...

Every other aspect of my life is good but I find it difficult to make friends

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

9 September 2009 (M) - I am a 23-year-old man with Asperger's syndrome. My social skills are good [not being boastful], I am told, but I consider them to be average. Recently I've started to go to a particular gay bar in my local city during the daytime in an attemp...

My boyfriend thinks its a bad idea to go to the police after I was raped, what should we do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

9 September 2009 (F) - About 3 months ago I was raped by a man I met in town on a night out who I thought was nice-looking but wasn't a nice person, then I met my boyfriend in mid-July, and he is far nicer than my exes or the guy I met. It's only recently I told ...

Every kind of relationship I have FAILS! Should I give up now, or could there still be hope?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

9 September 2009 (M) - dear cupid, i am a complete and utter failure at every attemp of relationship i shoot for. whether that is a geunine relationship, fling, one night stand, or any thing not mentioned i crash and burn like the hindenburg and titanics bastard love ...