A
male
age
36-40,
*ndy00
writes:Why has coming home from a club become so depressing?I'm at a difficult time in my life. I'm not in a relationship and I feel like I really should be more capable at attracting women than I am. I'm 20 and I've only dated 4 women in my life, 3 of which were very short term.Tonight I went to a club, and my only intention was to enjoy myself. But in the end, I started hoping to attract a woman, and I was unsuccessful. Why is that so frustrating?? I'm at an age where I really shouldn't be worrying about relationships, and yet I feel quite deeply worried about being single. This is only exacerbated by the fact I recently found out that the first girl I fell in love with is now dating again.Please help me.
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reader, Fairy_Lu +, writes (15 January 2009):
 Ok meeting girls in clubs is not always a good idea as most the time there not looking for relationships (im 20 aswell and i know going clubbing isnt about looking for relationships)
Just relax join a club get a hobby dont worry about being in a relationship it will happen the right people are just around the corner.
Besides moast girls like the guys to come to them not the other way around you like a girl then ask her out dont expect one to come for you.
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reader, Transcowboy  +, writes (15 January 2009):
 man, your young, you have your whole life to look foward ti. Trust me, when its the right time, you will met the right woman, i know, i was where you were a few months ago, i was about to give up on love and on women, but then she found me. Stop looking so hard and enjoy being young, cause you will miss it,
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