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Archived questions from: September, 2014 (see latest in Age differences category)

Age differences: Help and advice

I am dating a guy 5 years younger than me and am afraid his friends are laughing behind our backs

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3704 days ago

30 September 2014 (F) - Recently I have started seeing a guy who is five years younger then me, he is 19, and I have just turned 24. I have known him a while, as my friend is in a relationship with his older brother, and things started up in the last few months. He i...

Is he really too scared to get attached or is that just an excuse?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3704 days ago

29 September 2014 (F) - Hi, this could be a long question so bare with me. Ive written about this previously. I had a 'thing' with my boss who is now my ex boss.I knew him before I worked there. Its very personal as to how we met earlier on this year i was attacked...

My older boyfriend said horrible things so I would call him! Do I end the relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3705 days ago

28 September 2014 (F) - My boyfriend is lovely sometimes. He is so loving, caring and has a good sense of humour, but he says horrible things sometimes and takes things too far. He really took it too far over the last couple of days. He was angry with me because I haven'...

Why people assume that this much older man is my husband?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3705 days ago

28 September 2014 (F) - Why people assume that this much older guy is my husband?? I belong to one club. One member who is 24 years older than me which makes him only 3 years younger than my father drives me there sometimes as we live very close to each other. His daughter...

Recently saw my Mum, when she was younger, in a commercial film, where she was topless. It has grossed me out. How do I get over this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3707 days ago

27 September 2014 (M) - I'm grossed out after knowing my Mum did a cameo topless scene in a film? Recently, I saw my Mum topless in an old movie. It was a cameo appearance but it shocked the hell out of me and disgusted me. I don't know how to deal to with it. ...

My 9 years older than me boyfriend wants to settle down have a baby and I'm not ready yet. How do I tell him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3707 days ago

26 September 2014 (F) - My boyfriend really wants us to start trying for a baby within the next few months but I don't feel ready for a child yet, even though I adore my step daughter and love spending time with her. It's just such a commitment, and I don't think I am ...

We are just friends now but got intimate the other night, help me understand him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3717 days ago

16 September 2014 (F) - I've been dating my flat mate he is 28 I'm 44 we got on realy well sex was so intense we are now just friends but I have strong feelings for him he says he thinks the world of me what does he mean by this? We got intimate the other night I don't ...

Is the older guy I've been seeing really even into me? (a little explicit)

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3718 days ago

16 September 2014 (F) - Hi everyone! So I have been seeing a new guy for about two months that I met online. He is pretty awesome, has a great personality, and is very handsome. He is about 15 years my senior (I am of legal age, 21), never married and has no kids. He ...

My married female teacher is about 28 and she finds many opportunities to touch me. I like it. Is this OK? Does it make me a lesbian?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3720 days ago

14 September 2014 (F) - I am a student, 19 years old, good in studies. I am in a relationship with my boyfriend. I have a teacher in my college,she is married and has a year old son. she may be of 28 or 29 years of age. she is a good teacher. she is very friendly...

Am I wrong to consider porn cheating?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3721 days ago

12 September 2014 (F) - So my boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 years and the relationship is going pretty well so far. The only thing that really bothers me, and I have expressed myself, is the fact he watches porn on his days off while I'm at work. In my ...

I've done everything to be romantic, so what's the problem?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3727 days ago

7 September 2014 (M) - I am 53 my fiance is 38 we used to make love everyday and most days 5 to 6 and as many a 10 times we used to have oral at least 2 times a week and I would love to be oral with her every time her had to have a his to hysterectomy and a back injury 3 ...

He's hot one day and cold the next. Is this FWB going stale or does he want it to become more than FWB?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3728 days ago

6 September 2014 (F) - I was wondering if anyone could give me an outside perspective of my puzzling situation. I'm 24yrs old and have what I assume to be a friends with benefits with a guy 16yrs my senior. We started hanging out 2months ago. we clicked instantly ...

What are the best options to get through these issues with my partner's 28 year old daughter?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3726 days ago

6 September 2014 (F) - My partner's 28 year old daughter has never accepted me into her father's life. She pretends I don't exist. At first I would have done almost anything to get her to talk to me. Now 9 years on I don't care, but now she has decided to pop back int...

Texting - he said he could tame me sexually so I gave him some back and he didnt like it!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3728 days ago

6 September 2014 (F) - There's this guy I've met offline and he and I are 12 years apart. I don't know if it's the age difference or my immaturity that's causing him to shun me for my behavior. We were texting about sex and he said he could tame me and I started talking a ...

Is a 20-Year-Old Girl Too Young For a 35-Year-Old Guy?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3721 days ago

5 September 2014 (F) - I'm 20, going on 21 very soon, and I've recently met a 35-year-old guy whom I really fancy through a friend at work (I have a full-time career as I never went to university). He definitely isn't my usual "type," and we have some quite significant ...

I had an affair with a younger man and I wanted to hurt his girlfriend so I told her about what we did. I thought this would break them but they're back together. What do I do now?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3732 days ago

2 September 2014 (F) - I've been very stupid. 6 weeks ago I started to talk to a man 11 years younger than myself, he was at work when I met him and I asked for his number for a job that I needed doing in my home. I text him and it started off innocently, I ne...

What does my mother see that I don't?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3732 days ago

2 September 2014 (F) - I met a man at summer, he was really nice and helpful to me, as am a single mum with a 3 year old, he done a few jobs round my house for free, and in that time I got to know him. He has asked if he could take me for dinner and I said yes I will ask ...