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Archived questions from: 18 December, 2016 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Do I make contact with his other child's mother?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2891 days ago

18 December 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there I getting in contact because I don't knowwho else to ask.I am with a guy for less then a year we have a child a little boy whose a month old well anyway he got a daughter who is 5 yes old who he doesn't see because he said the mother Wouldn't let him see her. I know o... (130 words)

The LDR visit is not going well and I'm completely lost as to what to do!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2891 days ago

18 December 2016 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm currently 8 months in to a LDR, (we're separated by 10000 miles) and I've just arrived at hers two days ago for a three week visit. The problem I now have is that from the moment I landed she's been off, we've had a chat and she's now told me that she's not the sa... (347 words)

Have I completely disrespected my boyfriend, when I had no intention of doing that?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2891 days ago

18 December 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - I went out on an unexpected night out with a work friend on Friday. We thought we'd just get a bite to eat and a few drinks after work but we ended up having one too many and never got home until 2:30am. We had dinner and went to a few bars. In the last bar we went to we go... (579 words)

Is he a keeper? After all the white lies I'm starting to doubt my partner of 6 years.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2891 days ago

18 December 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, thanks for looking :) - I'll try to keep this brief! I've been with my partner for 6 years, living together for 2. I'm 24 and he's 26, and we are usually very close. He's actually a super sweet guy - all my friends think so, and hes kind, caring and sensitive. I'... (490 words)

Should I stay or go? If I walk away from this, then what if I never meet anyone else who will love me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2891 days ago

18 December 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend 3 and a bit years and we've lived together just over a year. We've just put down a deposit on our first home together and everything should be great but I have doubts. My boyfriend used to be so sweet and loving but now it's difficult to... (278 words)

Four dates and now we're about to be away from each other for 20 days. How should I handle this extended break from her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2891 days ago

18 December 2016 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been on four dates with a girl I met on tinder over the last two weeks who is starting to really grow on me and I feel butterfly's in my stomach whenever we hang out together. I feel like we've taken things slow and that's super OK with me. But I feel like this all migh... (200 words)

I feel as though everything in my life is slowly falling apart. But how can I start to address these issues?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2891 days ago

18 December 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - Where did it all go wrong? :( I've never had a large circle of friends but I was happy on my last year a total school, having roughly about 5-7 friends whom I spoke with daily. As we all parted for our next journey, we lost touch. I now only speak to 3 of them. However ... (400 words)

I want respect. I packed up and left him after he disregarded our agreement - but how can I demonstrate or convince that I'm not trying to be controlling?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2891 days ago

18 December 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - Before I got with my boyfriend I knew he took drugs; weed and cocaine. I really don't like it so when we first started dating I asked how we would work in a relationship, how would we ever live together as I don't want it around me. He assured me that it wouldn't be a problem ... (335 words)

What shall I put on my ex- husband's headstone?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2891 days ago

18 December 2016 (F)

age - My ex- husband passed away two years ago, he was a doctor and I am going to order his headstone. I am not sure what to put on because we were divorced. I am re-married again. We remained good friends. He did not really have any family just two cousins. Does anyone know of a... (91 words)

For the sake of my daughter, should I stay with a man who has just told me that "he wishes I was dead" ? l

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2891 days ago

18 December 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - i dropped my fiance off at a work christmas party so he could drink if he wanted to and so he wouldnt have to worry about the snowstorm. he was going to call an uber at 11 so itd be there for sure by 12. that was the plan. i go home, fall asleep trying to get the baby to sleep... (331 words)

I always end up forgiving people who offend me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2891 days ago

18 December 2016 (F)

age 22-25 - Hello :). I have a question. I wonder, no matter how much I get angry to those people who offend me, I always end up on forgiving them. I remember this one situation when one of my friends had a fight and to my extreme shock I was involved and I was like "seriously? why am i... (141 words)

Are FWB supposed to be this attached?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2891 days ago

18 December 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - We didn't have sex. We cuddled and made out. No hj or bj, no touching of my bottom private either. He was being extremely sweet (interlock fingers, kissing forehead, cheeks, palm, etc) but I dump that as an act of fwb. I didn't text him the following night when he asked me... (141 words)

Is it my fault I can't make a man love me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2891 days ago

18 December 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - There are numerous books titled, "Make any man fall in love with you," or "Make any man want you" with things explaining how to make it happen. I haven't ever tried the advice from these books on anyone yet. These books make it seem like making a guy fall in love with you is... (229 words)

Is he lazy or am I expecting too much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2891 days ago

18 December 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf and I are in a long distance relationship, we met online about 5 months ago. I visited him twice and he is coming down to see me very soon. Before I met up w/him, we texted and vid chatted. When we are physically together, the feelings are amazing. Outside of that ... (257 words)

I really hate my name

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2891 days ago

18 December 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - My birth name is Sarah, and it makes me sick. This is a trivial problem compared to some of the things people are dealing with, but I REALLY hate the name. I'm not a kid going through a phase. Ever since I can remember, I have always resented having to share a common name ... (416 words)

I want him to be more assertive in bed

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2891 days ago

18 December 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm going out with someone who's very quiet during sex and it turns me off. I sort of like this person, but in bed, while I'm sucking him he just stays there, eyes closed like a Buddha ( and he takes forever to come, like 30 plus minutes, Is that normal?) only when he comes he ... (200 words)