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Archived questions from: 7 December, 2016 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My partner is dismissive of thngs that are important to me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2904 days ago

7 December 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all, A quick one. My partner and I seem to be bothered by different things (or he's not bothered at all) and it often sees him accidentally dismissing what I deem as important or not meeting my needs. This has lately come to head twice. The issue that usually plays... (428 words)

A threesome with my wife and another male was my fantasy. So why couldn't I get hard looking at my wife?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2899 days ago

7 December 2016 (M)

age 30-35 - How would you explain this? What I am about to say was totally MY idea, even though my wife was very into it once it got started...My wife and I were in a male friends house initiating a threesome with him...up to this point you could say it was only a fantasy, probably in my ... (136 words)

Was 'going to the dentist' just a cover story? Was he ever 'seeing the dentist' ? Does the evidence suggest my husband is cheating?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 2899 days ago

7 December 2016 (F) age 41-50 - Here is an interesting question and it involves speculation and coming up with possible explanations. I am hoping to see how people think and what conclusions they can draw from this situation. It is something different from the usual. Might be interesting for some people. ... (274 words)

Is this how relationships are meant to be now

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2905 days ago

7 December 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - Wanted to message in as its been so long since I have dated or looked into starting a new relationship that im just so unsure if things im not feeling so happy about, could be in fact be me with my ways and that I will have to look at changing. I have not had much look relation... (668 words)

Am I in love with a creep? Should I get out now?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2904 days ago

7 December 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for over two years. We have travelled the world together and have always been very happy. We have spoken about getting engaged and where we will settle down to raise our family. He has always treated me with respect care and love. For the past few ... (301 words)

I like the boy, and I don't want to lose my friends.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2904 days ago

7 December 2016 (F)

age 22-25 - Hello,Im 16 years old.Me and my friends are like a close team and we are close to each other. We are really often going out and having an amazing time. Im the newest member in the "gang". They are trying to keep the "love" stuff outside of the team because they don't want to ... (116 words)

My supervisor is shattering my confidence

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2904 days ago

7 December 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all, I need your help. I was working for a company for two years and my supervisor was so abusing, I leraned that 6 people left before me after few months however I tolerated for 2 years and was doing extremely well. I was really overwhelmed one day and a recruitere ... (358 words)

She says it is impossible to communicate what I did wrong

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2904 days ago

7 December 2016 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi ALL, I need some perspective please. Long story short, a woman I have an interest in and I had an argument over an email I wrote to her. She is foreign and lives in Eastern Europe. I am American and live in the US. I wrote what I thought was an email expressing some long-sta... (417 words)

How do I take back a stupid lie I told to my boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2900 days ago

7 December 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, Let me start with saying I have been extremely stupid. I started dating my current boyfriend 1.5 years back, and wanted very badly to impress him. Unfortunately I had told him sometime back (before we started dating) that I had 2 boyfriends before (when actually I had just... (282 words)

I want to find love, but I am not sure how I should go about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2906 days ago

7 December 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - I met a guy recently and he told me I was really beautiful. He wasn't hitting on me; he was an older guy and I am 21 years old. He was just complimenting me. And when I told him I never had a bf before and I did not have one, he was shocked. He said he encountered some ... (333 words)

Boyfriend is turning 22 and it worries me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2905 days ago

7 December 2016 (F)

age 22-25 - I'm 17 and my boyfriend is 21. He is turning 22 in march and for some reason that scares me. We've been dating over a year and are very committed to eachother however I feel nervous and I don't understand why. I've never dated somebody this old before. I have also never cared ... (60 words)