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30-35,
anonymous
writes:hy..its been five weeks to our relation..we stay in different countries..and never met...he promised to come n take me with him...but its two weeks he's gone for an emergency n he's no calling at all..n even msg hardly he does...but I really love him n trust him too...he's in army n that makes me sad...should I wait for him???
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reader, mfj78  +, writes (8 August 2015):
Erm sorry to be blunt but how can you love a guy, or trust him, when you have never met and only know 5 weeks?
Your willing to move to another county to live after knowing him five minutes? Seriously?
Sorry but you are being very naïve and deserve better.
Should you wait for him? Wait for what? Him to keep messing you around and giving you edited versions of his life and empty promises? NO!!!
Find a nice local guy in the real world, you deserve better than this!
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (5 August 2015):
 You've known him for 5 weeks? And have never met in person?
Ah, no, don't wait for him.
Don't send him money, either.
Try to meet a man in real life before falling in love with him. He could be married, he could be old, he could be faking, he could be a teenage girl (watch the TV show "Catfish" for some eyeopening situations)... the point is that you don't know anything about him, other than what he portrays.
Don't wait around for him.
Good luck.
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