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... Send *oyouyont a private message | | | *oyouyont's profile:i am doing a psychology degree, have severe mental problems kept under control by B vitamin supplements and omega 3 oils. i have been addicted to amphetamine a number of periods snorting and smoking experinced psyhosis a nuber of times. done a lot of drugs(trips stimulants analgesics anesthetics,etc.) and had alot of cheap sleazy sex. i have had sex for drugs(xtc) and money on separate occasions, dealt in naughty things on a moderate scale for a while(had close calls with the pigs-affectionate term really!). none of this is to sound cool its just to show that i have some life experience although not always positive. I like to help people with their problems because it is easier to solve others than your own. when your detached from the person you can give a trully logical and impartial response and i like the idea that people can get help from others that would never have been possible in the past, what a wealthy source of knowlegde and wisdom is the net. I'm a single gay male of 21 years and what makes me tick is knowing that there is no problem in life that will make me sit on my ass and give up, even when chronically depressed and suicidal i have fought it with logic( e.g. when i thought that everyone wanted me dead i decided not to jump to spite them, though it really screwed up my interpersonal relationships). anyway i want to help people because everyone deserves help and advice. i live in england though my uni is in wales. i have a wide variety of friends and aquaintances, i feel i have come a long way from the boy in school who always stared at the floor(as an aquaintance at the time pointed out). |
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He said he got bored during sex.
Q. Me and my boyfriend had just gotten finished having sex. We were laying there together . He asked me " Do you ever get bored when we have sex " I said " No. why , do you ? " He said " A little bit. " Should I be affened by that? How can I ma...
A. 16 February 2008: hint hint try something new!... (read in full...)
My wife sends dirty text messages to guys on her phone..and she won't stop! What can I do?
Q. I found 5 dirty text messages on my wife's work phone from another man she meets now and again on her job as a delivery person, 1 message read: "Man marries deaf girl. He says we must work out a code if I want sex I will stroke your left breast. ...
A. 7 January 2007: you are being a moralistic fool. Your wife sounds like she has a funny sense of humour. Stop trying to control her (this will destroy your marriage) and accept you are insecure and prudish. Deal with it!... (read in full...)
He decided he wanted to be with a woman instead, why is he being like this???
Q. I recently broke up with my boyfriend, and I proposed, which made him so happy, as we had always spoken about it, and when it happened he said "at last your all mine", then less than a month later, all of a sudden we broke up, as he said his ...
A. 30 May 2006: as a gay person myself i feel that the desperation epitomised by gay men (sexually confident and handsome)is quite unjustified . the reality is that not enough gay's exist therefore when they find each other it can be eye opening and beautiful. ... (read in full...)
Am I gay, bisexual or straight? How do I found out?
Q. I broke up with my partner of three years in a long distance SECRET gay relationship last week. We broke up out of the blue, and I was not expecting this at all as I Truely believed that we'd be together for ever. He was my first partner, and I L...
A. 30 May 2006: look you were together for 3yrs and as a result being your first deep relationship this is not going to be enjoyable. realise that although he feels differently that you have more to offer than just what he enjoy'ed. The secrecy must be crushing ... (read in full...)
I don't understand what is going on in his head
Q. I have been casually seeing a freind of mine for a three months now. We had been freinds for a while and kissed one night when we were out drinking. We are both single and happy to be single. We kissed the following weekend have been kissing and ...
A. 30 May 2006: i'm sorry but you need to realise that you have done nothing but tept and push this man away. Your behaviour would not attract me as i would think you cared little. you sound like a man with your high horse desire to sabotage this for yourself, and ... (read in full...)
Fallen in love with someone online, but he won't come and meet me! It's been a year already...
Q. Hi, I'm 26 female, and I really need help... I met someone online, and I know online chat is only for entertainment and not for a serious one, but this one I am serious. I met someone for the past 1 year and 7 months and I'm sure I love this guy, ...
A. 20 May 2006: sounds like your being strung along, get a life outside the net and meet a person who isnt just a template fantasy who's really waiting for a sneaky shag away from his family (just a wild guess)... (read in full...)
How can I make a move on a married man I really like?
Q. Listen guys hey how are you? Well I have another problem I fancy one of the Dads at my daughter's nursery, he is really nice, good looking, friendly and I really like him. And he is funny too. I would like to make the first move on to him the only ...
A. 15 May 2006: here is the thing-you want what you cant have, boo hoo. Everyone does it-its a defense mechanism to hide your insecurity. You want something you cant have or you want someone that cannot be with you in a close way because you are afraid of intimacy. ... (read in full...)
How can I make a move on a married man I really like?
Q. Listen guys hey how are you? Well I have another problem I fancy one of the Dads at my daughter's nursery, he is really nice, good looking, friendly and I really like him. And he is funny too. I would like to make the first move on to him the only ...
A. 15 May 2006: here is the thing-you want what you cant have, boo hoo. Everyone does it-its a defense mechanism to hide your insecurity. You want something you cant have or you want someone that cannot be with you in a close way because you are afraid of intimacy. ... (read in full...)
What makes good oral sex for a guy?
Q. Hey guys how are you I want to know how I can give a good blow job to a man and how to be good with men and be a good lover so that men can't resist me please guys give me some ideas thanks...
A. 15 May 2006: yes thats true but this tends to help bj's in uncircumcised men (i'm gay in the UK). run your tongue down the ridge that connects the bell-end to the penis (banjo string). make sure you utilise your lips ability to prevent your teeth from touching ... (read in full...)
My ex says his current girl is beautiful but he declares undying love for me! What's going on here?
Q. WOAH Ok a couple of days ago my ex declared his undying love for me, and today he's telling me how beautiful the girl he's now seeing is. What's he playing at?...
A. 14 May 2006: okay you can tell from these perspectives that women as recievers of this behaviour are suspect and men ussually use it to attract attention. As a man it sounds like he is trying to interest you. to discern this simply ask him if he wants a ... (read in full...)
I'm in a 10 month relationship, which is tearing me apart and breaking every bit of my confidence...
Q. I'm in a 10 month relationship, which is tearing me apart and breaking every bit of my confidence. My bf's dominating. He wants to have the power over me, from changing my sense of dressing, not mixing around with anyone, prioritizing only him, ...
A. 14 May 2006: he sounds like a narcissitic personality disorder who likes to abuse you. I recommend you leave as soon as possible before you lose more of your self and become a broken person. You will get a lot more damaged than you are already if you stay for ... (read in full...)
Men. They're there one minute texting and loving and the next they're gone. Why?
Q. Why is it alot of men show lots of intrest then all of a sudden seem to vanish of the planet? I have experienced this a few times. I have been dating someone for a few weeks and for the first few he was sending lots of lovey dovey and very f...
A. 14 May 2006: maybe he has realised that he seems like the male version of a bunny boiler, a needy clingy man and has been asking co-workers who have probably told him that women prefer the thrill of the chase not desperation-in other words treat em mean to keep ... (read in full...)
I fear my fiance is a big cheater, how do I know for sure?
Q. I need help!! I have been with my fiance for just over three years but believe me its not all been plain sailing...when he split up with his ex she was pregnant and claimed it was his, for the whole of the pregnancy she was on our case, I knew the ...
A. 30 April 2006: the fact he has two other women in his life suggests he is not very monogamous and the paranoia you feel is based upon this. a relationship without trust will not be good for your head. Even when the stakes are high you must think of your own mental ... (read in full...)
He and I have power struggles and he never wants to make the efforts in this relationship. Help!
Q. Me and my boyf have been together 18 months. We love each other but hes so stubborn. If we get invited to events as a couple he often says no. Its like theres a power struggle, he doesnt want to do what i want all the time. Sometimes we arrange a ...
A. 30 April 2006: maybe you want to control him as though you own him. You say he should do what you want all the time but how reasonable is that. A relationship is between two people not from one to the other. You sound clingy and possesive and need to remember that ... (read in full...)
He will not make love anymore and I'm thinking of looking elsewhere, please give me some advice!
Q. My husband and I are not having sex anymore; Hello everybody out there. I have got a major problem at the moment Iam 28 years old a full time mum to child and a part time srtudent at college my husbnad is not interestd in having sex with me an...
A. 27 April 2006: speak to him about marriage counselling and remember that a declining interest in sex is not just going off someone. It can be the result of medical problems(is he obese?), mental problems(most liklihood depression!), sexuality issues, A lack of ... (read in full...)
I am in love with and doing oral stuff with my sisters bf!!!
Q. I'm really worried. My 18 year old sister has a 17 year old boyfriend who i really love. I'm more compatable with him than she is and lately we seemed to be getting on really well (i'm 14) and we're great friends. The thing is a while ago when he ...
A. 27 April 2006: stop this now. you are being used for your naivety and jailbait attraction. you are not in a loving relationship and this will cause all sorts of problems for you and your family. your only excuse is your lack of worldly knowlegde. look out for your ... (read in full...)
Kissing cousins... right or wrong?? What do you all think?
Q. Hi, I'm from England and me and my first cousin have fallen for each other we seem to spend all our time together and we feel really strongly for each other. There is less than two years seperating us but we met in sept 2006 whilst we always knew of ...
A. 27 April 2006: Yes this sounds like a hillbilly situation but lets consider the facts: its legal, you havent grown up together, your in love, but are you old enough. There is little thats wrong with this though if it ends thats where you may come unstuck. Also ... (read in full...)
Having an affair with a married man, feel used, What should I do?
Q. I am madly in love with a married man I work with and I don't know what to do. We were having an affair for two months, and I fell in love with him and told him this. He said that he felt the same but that he would never leave his wife for me, and ...
A. 27 April 2006: Having feelings and going with them is fine, but they dont make the wisest of decisions. Begin to think logically and realise that there is no future to this relationship that will satisfy those feelings. Love is not just how attractive someone is ... (read in full...)
I don't know why my ex would rather be close friends than together. He's not with anyone else, and wants me to ring every day!
Q. Ok... I'm gay and only 18. But I want to get back with my boyfriend. We went out for just over 4 months. I know it isn't a long time, and a lot of you will probably dismiss it, but in that 4 months we made each other very happy, and it is fair to ...
A. 20 April 2006: sounds like he wants to explore the land of sex with others. This may be due to lack of experience, he is curious for new pastures. Whatever you do be dignified, that is dont come across as needy or clingy and remember the grass always seems greener ... (read in full...)
I'm a guy in a relationship with a girl, but also attracted to a male friend. Why?
Q. I am 20 and have a girlfriend who is 19. However, recently I've started finding a male friend of mine sexy and feel disgusted for having these feelings. I've nothing against homosexuals but I feel disgusted with myself and can't understand why...
A. 20 April 2006: you may simply find this guy sexy. I am gay but i have a few female friends i think would get it. They ussually have to be stunning and there are personal connections in a mental way. Is it just a friend who is attractive in mind and body or a ... (read in full...)
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