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writes: Ok... I'm gay and only 18. But I want to get back with my boyfriend. We went out for just over 4 months. I know it isn't a long time, and a lot of you will probably dismiss it, but in that 4 months we made each other very happy, and it is fair to say that he changed my life. I love him, but I'm not in love with him, I just think he has helped me so much with coming out to everyone and teaching me to be myself and believe I can do anything if I put my mind to it. As with any relationship, we had ups and downs but the ups were amazing times! He recently broke up with me because all off a sudden he realised he didn't want a relationship. I just don't understand the change and he has no explanation for it. He still loves me and fancies me, but why not want to be more than friends? He'd rather be single. He's helped me so much I'm not ready to give up on us. I keep ringing him but he doesn't answer because he always leaves his phone upstairs while he's at home, but will always answer to me say, after midnight, when hes gone to bed. He wants me to call him every night and stay good friends, but I want more. Any advice, anybody? I thaught about not ringing, or seeing him at all for a few days to show him what he's missing, but I'm worried if I do that, his love for me will only be friends by then. Anybody help at all?
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reader, yoyouyont +, writes (20 April 2006):
sounds like he wants to explore the land of sex with others. This may be due to lack of experience, he is curious for new pastures. Whatever you do be dignified, that is dont come across as needy or clingy and remember the grass always seems greener but when you get there its ussually moss. He'll find it out soon enough
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2006): listen, seriously....you always want what you can't have! don't call for a few days, then when he asks, tell him you've just been busy (you can even make stuff up about going out with friends in this case) and then call him less and less. if he is even worth the time of day, he'll start wanting you back. if not, then why waste your time calling him if he wont do the same for you?
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