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writes: My husband and I are not having sex anymore;Hello everybody out there. I have got a major problem at the moment Iam 28 years old a full time mum to child and a part time srtudent at college my husbnad is not interestd in having sex with me any more we haven't had sex for alomost half a year. I don't know what to do I feel iam too young to just hang on in there I have decided to find another man who can give me what I want . but I don't know what to do everytime I talk to him we have an argument. I feel that my life has become depressing and boring I don't know what to do? My dearest friends could you please help me for do not know what to do? Reply to this Question
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reader, yoyouyont +, writes (27 April 2006):
speak to him about marriage counselling and remember that a declining interest in sex is not just going off someone. It can be the result of medical problems(is he obese?), mental problems(most liklihood depression!), sexuality issues, A lack of communication in the relationship... the list is endless. By far the most important thing to do is open up a channel of communication and talk together. Do not ignore this and develop insecurities. Remember making judgements on other peoples reasoning and behaviour is very difficult(and highly unreliable) when they are closed.Looking else where will provide temporary relief and guilt that will drive you further apart. It will mark your defeat at takling the issue and mess your head around.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2006): First you need to discuss this with your husband and find out what is wrong. I am sure you will both need counselling and you need to try and build your physical relationship again. It is too early to let your marriage break for the sake of finding a sexual partner. Think about how your child will feel without his dad around once older. Hang on in there and try and work it out together. You both must have been sexually attracted to each other once.
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reader, Angel ron +, writes (5 April 2006):
Angel ron is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks guys by the way guys my situartion has not changed and iam getting hasselled by the girls at college
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reader, Angel ron +, writes (4 April 2006):
Angel ron is verified as being by the original poster of the questionlisten guys thabk you so much for the love and support you are giving me I rally appreciate it at the moment my situation has not changed my husband is not interested i nhaving sex with me we have our trelationship lacks close ness intimacy I dovn't know aht to do please advise me .Thanks guys love angel ron
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