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writes: Hi, I'm from England and me and my first cousin have fallen for each other we seem to spend all our time together and we feel really strongly for each other. There is less than two years seperating us but we met in sept 2006 whilst we always knew of each others existance we didnt see each each other for 15 years so we met as adults and its amazing to think it has come to this
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2006): Hi I have fallen for my cousin big style and he with me. I think eat and breathe him but am married. I cant stop these feelings they are too perfect. Am glad it is not illegal
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2006): its not wrong, it is legal, (in UK) im with my cousin been with him for nearly 2 years and we are very happy and so our our families once they realised that we do have a strong love eachother and that we are happy.
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reader, seymourcoaches +, writes (30 April 2006):
its wrong not for you but for future boyfriends or girlfriend i have just found out my new husband was sleeping with his cousin before we met for years and i feel sick about it so think about the future unless he or she is your future
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reader, seymourcoaches +, writes (30 April 2006):
its wrong not for you but for future boyfriends or girlfriend i have just found out my new husband was sleeping with his cousin before we met for years and i feel sick about it so think about the future unless he or she is your future
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reader, yoyouyont +, writes (27 April 2006):
Yes this sounds like a hillbilly situation but lets consider the facts: its legal, you havent grown up together, your in love, but are you old enough. There is little thats wrong with this though if it ends thats where you may come unstuck. Also people might take the piss, if you want this enjoy but take the flak
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2006): there is nothing at all wrong with it, my advice is its legal life is to short to miss anything more so where where love is involved grasp any chance you get
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2006): you cannot under any circumstance go any further with this reltionship. you and your cousin are FAMILY and that is a special bond in itself. if it is too hard to resist these feelings than you have to stop seeing eachother. There are many other potential mates in the world for you, just give it time to find her.
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reader, Jadzia1127  +, writes (22 April 2006):
 Your major obstacle is not your relationship with each other. Many places, families, cultures in the world encourage cousin hook-ups. The danger lies in certain life debilitating genes passed inside a family, they lay dormant until two people with the same gene have a child. People can scare you but the odds are about the same if you hook up with any person.
Your major obstacle will be your family. Both of you need to tell your parents what is going on. If your parents are against it then you need to consider the high price you will pay for this relationship. It might be wise but very hard, to step back from each other instead of tearing your whole family apart.
They might need a bit of time to get use to the idea. If they are fine with it, then you have their blessings and that is better then most couples get. They will also be there to help fend off any people trying to 'scare' you about genetics.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2006): it is legal in the UK its not the same as half siblings first cousins share 12.5% blood not 50% as previously said, half siblings are a mere 25% related as opposed to 50% that was stated in the previous comment. British Law dictates that as long as its outside two rings of your immidiate family it is legal please state fact as opposed to opinion when stating figures
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2006): Well it's genetically 'wrong'. Morally? Well, she's kind of like a half sister don't you think? I mean, half of her blood is the same as yours.
As for emotionally? I don't think it's emotionally wrong. It may be morally 'wrong', and it IS genetically 'wrong'... I've been emphasizing on 'wrong' a lot. What do you think?
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