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Virginity and being fingered

Q.   Am 17, been fingered b4, and am wondring......even after being fingered, is the hymen still in place??? Can you stil say u r a virgin?...

A.   21 March 2012: You will be called a virgin until your hymen is broken, once it is broken you are not virgin anymore.... (read in full...)

Is a handjob painful for a guy?

Q.   last night me and my bf were making out and feeling eachother u. I had my shirt off and he was feeling my breats down my bra I guess I got excited and went down andbegan to rub down there. It was my first time doing this so I was curious. So I kept ...

A.   18 March 2012: It is very pleasurable i assure you. Don't worry if it was painful you would have heard Ohhhwww. ... (read in full...)

Should a guy in a comitted relationship be texting another girl?

Q.   What's going to far? My question is this.. if you have a girlfriend and a girl from high school or something texts you or sees you out and tries talking to you what is going too far? In the texting thought is even texting back a bad idea and ...

A.   18 March 2012: It depends on the intentions, i can see that you are trying to do something wrong "that is why you feel guilty", so better stay away that girl.... (read in full...)

A cologne to turn my girlfriend on?

Q.   Hi Guys, This question is for women to answer and men are welcome too :D. Do you know a specific perfume that i can use to turn my girlfriend on and really worked for you? ...

A.   18 March 2012: Thanks for the answers, I want it to be a surprise, and i would appreciate a Brand name.... (read in full...)

Have you ever smelled a perfume that enticed you?

Q.   This question is for Women, but men are welcome too. Have you ever smelled a perfume that enticed you? ...

A.   12 March 2012: Thank you Guys for the help. I loved your answers :).... (read in full...)

Have you ever smelled a perfume that enticed you?

Q.   This question is for Women, but men are welcome too. Have you ever smelled a perfume that enticed you? ...

A.   11 March 2012: Guys do you know a specific Perfume? for men?... (read in full...)

I broke up with my fiance because of his mother.

Q.   Should I break up with my Fiance because of the way I am treated by his mother? heres a few examples: -When I go to her house she completely ignores me / gives me dirty looks. -she has kicked me out of the house and has no respect for me ...

A.   9 March 2012: If he loves you he wouldn't have let his mother treat you this way. breaking up is better than living this misery life. ... (read in full...)

Does he still want to be with me or should I give him space?

Q.   Okay, so I met a really nice guy about three weeks ago and we started hanging out. He is 18 and I am 16 and my parents have a huge problem with age differences and so I warned him about it. Things were going really well in our relationship until he ...

A.   9 March 2012: Don't give in ever, he wants sex and we know it. If he really liked you he would have understood you.... (read in full...)

Do women look too ?

Q.   A question that will ignite a debate, we men although may have the most beautiful wife/girlfriend but we keep on looking at other women, we don't get enough! although we may be having the best woman...Are women like us in nature, do they look at men ...

A.   26 July 2011: I found the majority do look at men, but the critical question is, do you fancy men like we do fancy women, we do fancy every woman we meet if she is attractive?... (read in full...)

I don't know how to get through to my father

Q.   Hi everyone, I really need some advises from you guys to help me to improve my relationship with my parents. I don't understand why my dad always over worries about me and he always try to suck extra economic and political knowledge into m...

A.   25 July 2011: First of all you don't be rude to your father no matter what he does, you may show anger but not rudeness, he cares about you, although he exaggerates it, but he loves you and cares about you, don't retaliate love with rudeness. the best way to c... (read in full...)

What do would classify as 'sweet talk'? Do all women like it? Or what is the alternative if women do not like it?

Q.   hi girls! I want to understand how to talk to girls in a way that the girls really appreciated. What do I say, how do I say it? Some men seem to be able to charm girls whatever they do. But I am not sure how they do it. What do would classify...

A.   11 May 2011: Hey there and thanks for your answers, i didn't mean to flirt or sweet talk a woman i am looking forward to be in bed with her, i am talking about my fiancee, she likes sweet talk too much, once i start praising her she becomes too happy and ... (read in full...)

If he's married how do I let him go?

Q.   Need help. I have dated a guy for two years. Since i was 16 and he was 19. He always told me he loved me, that he wanted to marry me and he treated me well. We have been through a lot but i can honestly say i love him. A few months ago he went ...

A.   24 March 2011: Men sometime they are cheap i agree, although i am a man, they look for only for their interests. if he is married what to do!, i suggest you start to forget him. it is very hard i know, but, life has to go on. ... (read in full...)

Can having frequent anal sex cause incontinence later in life?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have done anal five times now. The last time was a couple weeks ago but I'm wondering how much you have to do before you risk becoming incontinent? I don't want to be in my 60s and not be able to hold my crap inside me til I can ...

A.   23 March 2011: Yes it does, i read about it causing soiling of underwear. that is just not good, UGH! http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/ate/sexandrelationships/sex/200700.html http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/ate/sexandr... (read in full...)

Is he not a player anymore? And does he like me?

Q.   Hey :) My story is kind of complicated. This is my second year of a new school. I still have a crush on the same guy as the first year. We make eye-contact a lot. But sometimes i think hes a player. For instance last year he used to hang out with...

A.   22 March 2011: once you think he is gazing at you, look at him suddenly, if you found him looking at you and moved his head away immediately, he must be interested, although he looks to be inexperienced and young, he doesn't have the guts to approach you, i advise ... (read in full...)

B/f thought I was going to dump him so he broke up with me!

Q.   My bf now ex and i broke up a few days ago.....I am still madly in love with him! he says he is still in love with me and I am the best thing that ever happened to him. I am asked why he broke up with me in the first place and he said it was b/c ...

A.   22 March 2011: May be it is a trick, i assume you had sex together for a long time, and he got bored of you, so he decided to go for another GF he met, but, he realized he missed you and want to have sex with you again. This only valid if you had sex toge... (read in full...)

B/f kept talking about a girl to make me jealous and now he won't respond back to me

Q.   Hi My bf of 2 years was keep on talking about a girl he met yesterday. I got insecure and i asked him whether he liked her more. He said he liked me more, and he was just trying to get me jealous. Ofcourse he succeeded in that. After sometime ...

A.   22 March 2011: Leave him, he is toooo cheap. May be he is playing hard-to-get, we men know that women get easily jealous of such issues, so we rarly bring it up, but, once we do it will be for the sake of humor no more. He is cheap, looking for a better sex.... (read in full...)

Help. My boyfriend had a three year sexual relationship with his first cousin

Q.   After about nine months of dating, my boyfriend tells me he had a three year relationship with his cousin. He mentioned this relationship was hidden from family and friends, that no one knew what they were doing. It ended when she cheated on him. ...

A.   22 March 2011: This is normal to feel depressed when you know that someone you have loved and had sex with, is going to marry, coz he and she did build some dreams together, i feel it is okay. If we leave or break-up with a woman, we will still have something for ... (read in full...)

G/f says she will stop lying but how do I trust her again?

Q.   Hi: My girlfriend recently went away, and while on her trip "bumped" into her ex boyfriend. I asked if she had emailed hi to which she replied "no". I later found out she did in fact email him but the email bounced back at her. Her claim was th...

A.   22 March 2011: Honestly and take it from me, once a girl lie she will continue for ever. If i were you i wont trust her, i have been through before, and i promise you she will keep on contacting him. Take an action. all the best... (read in full...)

Girlfriend wants us to be together forever but I am very insecure about her past

Q.   hello. i am currently in a relationship which seems fine... and nothing seems to go to wrong and not many arguments are had. but i have a huge hang up about it. i was a virgin when i met my current girlfriend. and ... she isnt. in fact i believe ...

A.   22 March 2011: Take your time man, i never trust women, why is she contacting her exes, she still has something for them i am sure. Maybe trying to ignite something so she can have something like if you understand what i mean. you should feel too low, coz if ... (read in full...)

Virgin at 20, should I hire an escort to lose my virginity?

Q.   Hi i am a 20 yr old male and still a virgin. this fact depresses the hell out of me. everywhere i go theres people all having so much fun and i feel that im missing the best parts of my life and falling behind on much needed experience. most people ...

A.   22 March 2011: This depends on your culture actually, are you preservative? Don't worry about losing it, actually, i find it more interesting to see a girl who is still virgin, i will get to respect her more, simply because if you have something that you will have... (read in full...)

Does ignoring someone you are attracted to make the attraction go away?

Q.   Hi guys. Just a quick question for you... Why would two people who are really attracted to each other avoid or ignore one another? And, does this mean the attraction will go away or will it get worse? Wondering what you all think!...

A.   21 March 2011: Actually someone has to give in, usually the female if there is a relation already, else the male (especially if it is a very new relationship, where u don't know each other i.e. the one to introduce himself).... (read in full...)

My husband talks to his ex behind my back, what should I do?

Q.   Of late my husband has been in constant communication with his ex girlfriend he calls her up to 5 times in a day and each call last for more than five minites if i ask him he says they are just good friends thats all and he tells me they will stop ...

A.   21 March 2011: Men are cheaters they think only of having sex, his ex will give it to him, i promise you. Take an action, otherwise, keep looking and dont say a thing coz this may cause big problems.... (read in full...)

My boyfriend has gone abroad with his ex! What should I do?

Q.   my boyfriend left me for his studies abroad, just for me to find out that he went with his ex, just 5 days he called to propose to me, please what will i do ?...

A.   21 March 2011: follow your instinct, but why did he go away with her?... (read in full...)

My 16 year old daughter wants to move away to be with her boyfriend, what is the right thing for us to do?

Q.   Our 16yr old daughter wants to leave home to live with her boyfriend and his family. They are both 16 and have been going out together for about two and a half years. He, the boyfriend, went to live with his mother after the xmas holidays. His mum ...

A.   20 March 2011: you are welcome, just don't give up your daughter for a stranger, just for her to feel happy, one day she will thank you. ... (read in full...)

Fiance wears inappropriate clothing. Is she trying to attract other guys?

Q.   Girls: My Fiance, wears clothes that are not appropriate, showing her cleavage, very tight pants, lots of perfume, make-up and hairstyle everytime!!! i feel insecure, what do you think girls, is she trying to impress other guys?...

A.   20 March 2011: Actually guys, she does it behind my back, although i warned her before. it is like i am talking to a rock. ... (read in full...)

Should I believe my boyfriend that nothing is going on?

Q.   Should I believe my boyfriend that nothing is going on or not? He has received calls and text messages from his exes and one asked if I was pregnant yet. When she found out I am on pills she stated smart move. I feel like I am losing him to them ...

A.   20 March 2011: I am sorry to say he sounds to be a player! hear it from me, his question is suspicious about if you are pregnant or not! Why is he contacting his exes?? "in his brain, and i know men, he might think i may use one of the exes to have sex or t... (read in full...)

My 16 year old daughter wants to move away to be with her boyfriend, what is the right thing for us to do?

Q.   Our 16yr old daughter wants to leave home to live with her boyfriend and his family. They are both 16 and have been going out together for about two and a half years. He, the boyfriend, went to live with his mother after the xmas holidays. His mum ...

A.   17 March 2011: Unlike, boys, you cannot depend on girls alone and away from you, specially with a stranger(Since they are not married). Something may happen to her(God forbid) and you wont be able to do a thing or question her BF, simply because there is no Form... (read in full...)

Is it wrong of me to feel violated, and absolutely fuming that my boyfriend's colleagues had the audacity to stick their noses into my business and spread lies about me?

Q.   Hello, I don't know whether I'm just being silly here or whether I'm right to be as upset as I am. I've been with my boyfried for two years now and I love him and he loves me. Recently at uni there has been a guy who I just consider a frien...

A.   17 March 2011: what you have done is actually suspicious, and you should not feel violated at all. you were caught setting with a person in a coffee-shop or so, how do you expect you BF to understand the video. If you have told that would be okay, and your ... (read in full...)

I'm 14 and have fallen in love with a guy three years older

Q.   i've fallen in love with a boy that is 3 years older than me, i'm only 14 but we've talked for so long about wanting to be with each other and we've talked about our future together but my family doesn't want me talking to him and they dont know ...

A.   17 March 2011: At this age you can be mature enough, but, i cannot judge. 3 years are not much, but, if you look for a serious relationship at this age, you are definitely making a mistake. At this age sexual hormones in your body and his body are pumping,... (read in full...)

I cant cope with my fiance being bisexual!

Q.   My Girlfriend and i have been together some time now and we are engaged, we're quite young but i know i feel strong enough to make this commitment as does she, however she has cheated on me twice before but promises me that it was stupid mistakes ...

A.   17 March 2011: Man leave her, i promise you she will keep on cheating, it is an instinct in her, she cannot stop doing it anymore, just for you. Dont take women promise seriously, when they are emotional the say things they don't mean, just to satisfy their ... (read in full...)

How can I stop being so jealous?

Q.   Hi everyone, I have been dating my boyfriend now for almost a year. Started going together last April, but I moved away in August. We decided to keep things long distance. Hard. Anyway, back in December his friend that is a girl asks him to kiss...

A.   16 March 2011: The reason behind jealousy is most of the times the absence of trust. I don't know, but i think that you don't trust your BF that much. But for me a kiss in front of you is impolite except if it is on the cheek, well, you don't have to mind if it i... (read in full...)

Is squirting fake?

Q.   Hi guys!! Do women really squirt?? i read many articles stating that it is fake?...

A.   15 March 2011: Thanks guys your answers are too good.... (read in full...)

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