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Is a handjob painful for a guy?

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Question - (18 March 2012) 5 Answers - (Newest, 19 March 2012)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

last night me and my bf were making out and feeling eachother u. I had my shirt off and he was feeling my breats down my bra I guess I got excited and went down andbegan to rub down there. It was my first time doing this so I was curious. So I kept rubbing through his shorts until I felt his bulge get pretty hard and I got a littlw scared and started to stop. Then he grabbed me down there and began to finger me through my pants. It felt so good I had to pay him back so I did it again. Then I grabbed him and pretty much gave him a handjob through his pants. Is this normal? And is it painful for him? Or pleasurable? Id love some input please. Anything at all!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2012):

Pleasurable... unless you do it far too roughly and pinch, scratch, stretch, or pull the skin too hard. Then the line between pleasure and pain, thin as it is, just shatters.

Remember... that area is far more sensitive than you would ever be able to comprehend. Be careful with it.

Flynn 24

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A male reader, Sageoldguy1465 United States +, writes (18 March 2012):

Sageoldguy1465 agony auntARE YOU CRAZY????? We guys would, cheerfully, sell our souls in order to get a handjob....

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A female reader, chigirl Norway +, writes (18 March 2012):

chigirl agony auntIf he was in pain I am dead sure he would have let you know. Listen to your partner and check for his response, rather than ask questions online. He's the one who can tell you what he likes and how it feels, not us. But like I said, if he didn't enjoy it he wouldn't have put your hand back down there, would he?

Yes, guys like it.

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A male reader, yazanco United Arab Emirates +, writes (18 March 2012):

It is very pleasurable i assure you.

Don't worry if it was painful you would have heard Ohhhwww.

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A male reader, unknown2u United States +, writes (18 March 2012):

Definitely pleasurable. Even if there's too much friction with his clothes, he won't mind until afterward, and will likely consider it worthwhile regardless. I have no doubt he's very grateful.

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