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*alcon223
writes:What's going to far? My question is this.. if you have a girlfriend and a girl from high school or something texts you or sees you out and tries talking to you what is going too far? In the texting thought is even texting back a bad idea and asking for trouble my opinion is yes I think a guy who is committed should not be texting another girl even if it is just hey how are you the weather sucks ya i know .. blah blah.. right? or wrong?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2012): Thanks guys I really agree with everyone I need to put a little more trust and faith in what we have!
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reader, yazanco  +, writes (18 March 2012):
It depends on the intentions, i can see that you are trying to do something wrong "that is why you feel guilty", so better stay away that girl.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (18 March 2012):
 Um, I think you are way off base. What's next he can't talk to females if he passes them in the street?
I think having a talk about boundaries is more important. As to what you/he would see as a no-no to text about.
A good rule of thumb is to NOT do/say/text anything that you can't show your partner.
Telling your partner WHO they can talk to and whom they can't is going to alienate him/her at some point. You got to have a little faith and trust in your partner or what's the point of the relationship?
I have male friends from WAY before I met my husband and I talk to them now and then, I'd honestly tell my hubby to go fly a kite if he tried to tell me WHO I can talk to and whom I can't. I have morals and integrity, I do NOT cross lines and in the 25+ years most of these friendship have existed neither have any of my male friends.
My husband talks to plenty of females throughout the day, it's part of his job. If we run into any of them after work he still stops and chat, which I think is nice. Again, it comes down to trust.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (18 March 2012):
 If you are talking about yourself, I think you are being a little controlling. It is totally fine for a guy in a committed relationship to hang out with, text, talk to and have female friends in general. So long as nothing else is going on, I see no reason why a guy should stop contact with women just because he gets a girlfriend.
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