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I need fun, free, cheap date ideas that don't involve alcohol. Any ideas?

Q.   I'm tryin to get a list of ideas for fun free/cheap dates. playing video games, maybe cook together, goin to the beach, having dinner + movie night are pretty much the only things I can come up w/. I'm tryin to find something that doesnt involve ...

A.   25 June 2010: Well it's summer so take advantage of the weather ... a picnic? A walk outside? A nice night in with a takeaway? Cinema? Bowling? Arcades are always fun as well esp if you like video games. Maybe a day trip out somewhere nice? Hope this helps ... (read in full...)

How important is the "spark"? Can a relationship work without it?

Q.   I have a question about the "spark." For those of you who are in good stable happy relationship, do you still feel a spark after years and years of being together? I am wondering how important this spark is. I'm with a guy and we have admitted...

A.   7 June 2010: I think a spark is important. But its entirely up to you. Me and my boyfriend still share the spark that brought us together on our first date. Yes we are no longer at that stage where I think 'Omg he cannot see me without my make-up' and 'I must ... (read in full...)

Girlfriend woke up one morning and told me she didn't love me any more...

Q.   My gf of nearly 1 year, one day woke up an said i dont love you any more, i dont feel anything . i loss feelings for you. its hard letting her go i love her so much its very devastating and shocking to hear those words. were not the prefect couple ...

A.   3 June 2010: I don't know if advice off a another woman here will help but here goes ... You sound very bitter and this is understandable considering your feelings for her. Please do not label women as the same though sometimes relationships don't work out for ... (read in full...)

He's dating me, but he's engaged, what would you do?

Q.   hey, im a 16 year old girl really need some advice... i recently got a job on weekends and at my interview met a boy who is now 21. ive been working for 2 months now and weve become better friends over this time, he was always helping me out an...

A.   7 January 2010: Look hun I know you feel mature and in some ways you are but if you aren't going to listen to the advice of these people (which is good advice) maybe I could put it another way to you with what happened to me ... When I was 16 (I am now 19 by the ... (read in full...)

Where are the best places to kiss her, to turn her on?

Q.   Can someone please tell me some places that I should touch or kiss my girl to arouse her the most?...

A.   27 November 2009: I agree with what most people said ... The neck is a definate hit working down to the collar bone etc... Also the back of her neck and top of her back is always a nice as well ... Just do a trial and error (like what was mentioned before) and see ... (read in full...)

Found out boyfriend was cheating and now all I want to do is drink

Q.   I hate my life. I have never felt so low, I found out my bf of 3 years has been cheating on me for a year and I feel so foolish! It was also with a girl i knew they are not together now but I feel so lonely. I find it hard to trust men after my dad. ...

A.   16 August 2009: Thankyou for taking the time to answer. I think this will take me a while to get over. I have been answering people's problems on here for some time. Funny how you can answer other people's problems but when it comes to your own, you feel like there ... (read in full...)

I'm scared about having sex in case I do it wrong and he compares me to his ex!

Q.   Ive always been a 'good girl' so to say when it comes to relationships. But now I have got an amazing boyfriend who I love so much. The only problem is that ive never done anything sexual before with a guy, as it has never felt right until now. ...

A.   3 August 2009: Awww well done for waiting til you feel ready that is really mature. I think your bf will understand that it is your first time and won't know what to expect and the fact that he will respect that will mean you have nothing to worry about i.e. it ... (read in full...)

I started to move on after our affair but now he is dragging me back into this, he has some kind of hold over me!

Q.   Hi, i need some advice. at the beginning of the year i fell in love with a guy at work, the feeling was mutual and we started seeing each other. the problem was that he has a fiance and two children. what stopped him leaving was his children so he ...

A.   22 July 2009: No Problem hun I understand completely! Being the other woman is so difficult and no-one understands as you are seen as 'the home wrecker'. If you need any more help or just want to talk get in touch hun. Glad I could help =) xxx... (read in full...)

I started to move on after our affair but now he is dragging me back into this, he has some kind of hold over me!

Q.   Hi, i need some advice. at the beginning of the year i fell in love with a guy at work, the feeling was mutual and we started seeing each other. the problem was that he has a fiance and two children. what stopped him leaving was his children so he ...

A.   21 July 2009: ok hun this is difficult. I haven been in the same situation although it didn't happen through work with me it was through a sports club we were both at. People who haven't been in this situation struggle to understand how hard it is to let go. To ... (read in full...)

The adults on this site are so annoying!!!

Q.   God, can I just say. Adults on this site are so annoying. I am 13. I haven't asked any... I dunno, sex related questions personally. But looking at the responses for people who are 13 and having sex issues like that girl with the vibrator ect. You ...

A.   19 April 2009: Why are you people below even bothering to answer?? Its pathetic! To even say it is ok for a 14 year old to have sex. Does this CHILD know the internal damage that is caused because the CHILD is not developed properly and sex rips the internal ... (read in full...)

He can't get hard, does he find me unattractive?

Q.   Hiya, would love your opinions. I met this boy about a month or so ago and we speak all the time. I've stayed at his a few times but no sex. He tried it on with me a few times and I think I lead him on but I didn't mean to. Now he says he can't ...

A.   18 April 2009: In my opinion personality is better than looks! If a guy likes you for you then your doing something right because lets face it if it was just your looks then he would have only one thing on his mind. I try to think if a guy is good looking then its ... (read in full...)

I had sex while I'm off the pill. Could I get pregnant?

Q.   Hi so i have only been on the pill for maybe a month now and i am usually pretty good about taking it regularly, plus i am not even really sexually active and up until last night i was a virgin. not considering the circumstances, i forgot my pill...

A.   18 April 2009: Right in future if you forget to take it always use a condom even if the guy says he will withdraw use a condom like its already been said the pill does not protect you against STD's! Also if you forget to take the pill you can be unprotected for ... (read in full...)

I had sex with my married teacher and now I want him to be with me!

Q.   okay i posted a question quite a while back saying i tried to kiss my teacher but he rejected me. However last night i was at a nightclub with my friends and because hes only like 26 himself he was there and we started talking and he was saying how ...

A.   8 April 2009: This is a very delicate situation. He has done 2 serious things one to sleep with a student and two he has cheated on his wife and family. You said you don't want to be a home wrecker yet you want to be with him, you would be hurting alot of people ... (read in full...)

I can't get over my hubby's affair of 2 years ago, help!

Q.   Well, its been 2 years, since my husband had an affair. I still can't get over it, will I ever? He is there for me he never leaves me, I know he is remorseful, and he makes sure I know where he is at all times...but I can't get over it, why, when ...

A.   24 February 2009: You have lost all your trust in him, to do that to you had broken a bond between you. Some people can find that again others can't it depends how much you want it. Do you believe he wants to be with you? Do you still want to be with him? Also have ... (read in full...)

G/f with intimacy issues

Q.   I'm gonna go ahead and leave our ages out of it, but my girlfriends ex boyfriend took her virginity when she was 14, she's not a trampy little teen slut, she's an incredible girl who thought she was in love. her ex cheated on her and then treated ...

A.   24 February 2009: The age thing dosent even concern me ... I think your a lovely man who respects her and thats what she needs. Good luck hun you deserve it xxxx... (read in full...)

G/f with intimacy issues

Q.   I'm gonna go ahead and leave our ages out of it, but my girlfriends ex boyfriend took her virginity when she was 14, she's not a trampy little teen slut, she's an incredible girl who thought she was in love. her ex cheated on her and then treated ...

A.   24 January 2009: Hi hun you sound like my boyfriend I had to double check it. We had the same problem over a year ago. When I was 14 I had my virginity took from me by a guy I thought loved me but didnt and it crushed me. I had other issues as well though vor inst... (read in full...)

I guess I'm not the only girl in his life..what do I do?

Q.   ive finally talked to my online boyf he was in hospital after gettin really hyper wen he found that we got contact again and fell down the stairs we talked and he sounded ok but wen i said i wanna b there for u he asked me why? i told him because ...

A.   24 January 2009: Ok to me an online boyfriend is where people can idealise themselves to be something they are not. Thay can say alsorts of this to make you believe they are the most perfect person in the world. It is very likely he has many online girlfriends and ... (read in full...)

I don't know how to start off in sex!

Q.   I don't know how to start off in sex! How do you start off, do you just start making out and then let it unfold or just let him lead you, or should I even lead him?...

A.   11 November 2008: I completely agree if your asking these questions your not ready yet. Sex should be enjoyed and will happen naturally. You need to want it to happen and not be pressured especially with the right. We waited 6 months and by that time I was ready and ... (read in full...)

Is he just having fun with me when she's in one of her moods?

Q.   i have been seeing a guy for six month, but he has a girlfriend, he doesn't live with her, says that he wants to be with me, but he feels sorry for her and cant end it just yet. we do get on very well, both of us have told each other we love each ...

A.   10 November 2008: Hiya now I am alot younger than you but i am in the same situation as you but worse as he lives with his girlfriend!! How long have you been seeing him? For me its been 18 months and I have finally pushed him to make a choice. If this guy has been ... (read in full...)

I can't show my feelings for anyone.

Q.   hey, I was wondering if anyone can help me? I can't explain or show how I feel about anyone, not even my family :-| It's really starting to annoy me, I do try to tell them but the words just don't come out. :( it does make me feel really bad thoug...

A.   20 October 2008: Hiya hun I know how u feel! I cant tell my mum anything especially not about relationships, I find it very difficult. It took me 6 months to introduce her to my boyfriend but once I did it he was welcomed and everything is easier now. No matt... (read in full...)

I feel so fat....but am I just paranoid??

Q.   Hey guys, i feel so fat right now, im 9 stone 6 and 5"5, but it doesnt help, im curvy i know that and ive been through hell with my body as one year i just didnt eat much and ended up going down to 7 stone and being very ill, and then went up to my ...

A.   18 September 2008: Ok first of all your not fat anyone under 10 stone is nowhere near fat!!!!! I am 12 stone and don't believe myslef to be fat at all as I know my weight is due to muscle. You have a boyfriend and great friends so why care what stupid idiots say!? Im ... (read in full...)

Would it be right to leave my current gf for my ex??

Q.   Hello, A few days ago, my "ex-girlfriend" recently got back in touch after 2 month without so much as a hello or goodbye. My ex and I had alot in common and i really start to care for her. But we never really had a relationship. we just use to s...

A.   18 September 2008: You are clearly not happy with your gf therefore even if your ex wasnt on the scene it isnt wise to carry on this relationship. Your feelings for your ex seem to be alot stronger but because of the past your weary which is good. If you stay with ... (read in full...)

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