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Im Cara. I'm 16 And I Love To Help People With Their Problems. I'll Answer As Many Things As I Can...And I'll Answer Private Mails Too.
Im Brunette With Green Eyes And Live In The UK. Im Chilled Out But Can Be Hyper A Lot Of The Time!! I'd Describe Myself As Flirty, Fun And Up For A Laugh.
I Love To Sing, Dance, Act, Be With Friends, And Chill Out In Saunas And Jacuzzi's!!
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I'm 11 and I'm worried..he never says he loves me! What's wrong?
Q. Hi. I am 11 years old and I am really upset. I asked my boyfriend to the movies. He said 'yeah, i was going to ask you anyway' so i got all excited, this being my first date with him, (i've been on others) but then he ruins the moment by telling me ...
A. 25 January 2007: Hey x
11 is a really young age, so I wouldn't worry too much. It's not exactly going to turn into a heartbroken love movie. This is your first experiences of love.
But if I was answering this as if you were older, then I would say just talk to... (read in full...)
What do you recommend to get rid of heavy acne? Any ideas?
Q. i've got heavy acne. my skin is always oily. i've used tea tree oil, facial scrub's all by best companies sellin expensive products. any thing you recommend to try? also where my spots die i sometimes accidently cut my spots when shaving. this has ...
A. 25 January 2007: Hey x
I recommend the tea-tree range found in body shop, but as you said the oil isn't helping very well.
Go to your local chemist and ask for: Quinoderm. If your skin is just average acne, ask for Quinoderm 5, if it's heavy acne, ask for Qu... (read in full...)
I'm 21 and married! But My mind tells me I'me too young and missing out! What should I do?
Q. Hi. I am 21, and have been married nearly a year now to the first love of my life, whom I met when I was 15! I have always had eyes for her and only her - until three months ago my mind told me that I was too young and missing out! I have me...
A. 21 January 2007: Hey x
I think you should stay with your wife. I've been through this before...I was going out with a boy I'd known for most of my life, then I met someone knew. But then I realised that the grass is always greener on the other side, as another ... (read in full...)
Why are my nips sore?
Q. ok, so my boyfriend and i are sexually active. and im on birth control, but my birth control makes me not have my period for 3 month which is great.but these past few weeks my boobs and expecialy my nipples are so sore. i can't be pregnant but i ...
A. 20 January 2007: Hey x
I don't think this is anything to worry about...probably a minor reaction to the birth control you are using.
Wear supportive bras for the time being, and let yourself relax.
If the symptoms persist, then I would go to your doctor ... (read in full...)
Fallen for my therapist, but she's never been with a woman before...
Q. Hi there, I wrote a long time ago about being friends with my therapist. We had the agreed time apart between our professional and now private friendship so that it was 'ethical'. We have a great relationship and we really get each other as peopl...
A. 20 January 2007: Hey x
Sounds like she is unsure of what she wants. It can feel unusual for a women to get into a relationship with a member of the same sex for the first time.
Ask her: What do you want our relationship to be?
Give her some time to think. ... (read in full...)
Fallen for my therapist, but she's never been with a woman before...
Q. Hi there, I wrote a long time ago about being friends with my therapist. We had the agreed time apart between our professional and now private friendship so that it was 'ethical'. We have a great relationship and we really get each other as peopl...
A. 20 January 2007: Hey x
Sounds like she is unsure of what she wants. It can feel unusual for a women to get into a relationship with a member of the same sex for the first time.
Ask her: What do you want our relationship to be?
Give her some time to think. ... (read in full...)
More than anything, I want a baby! How can I persuade my bf to give me one?
Q. Right before i even say this i know your going to start going on about how young i am and how i should live my life but i dont want that i want advice, NOT a lecture thanks xxx I want a baby, I've thought about it alot and have decided that i w...
A. 20 January 2007: Hey again x
OK...Thanks for the follow-up to your question.
It's OK for you to have a child if you want...I didn't realise that you were 15 as the age says 13-15. But there are still the responsibilities to think of.
Babies can be sweet, ... (read in full...)
Any tips for flirting with older guys (I'm 21, he's 31)?
Q. Im 21 and a guy that i like is 31. The problem is that he is a manager in one of the departments at my the store that i work at so he's not my manager. But i have been developing feelings for him that i cant explain. Its freaking me out cuz...
A. 20 January 2007: Hey x
Just act mature...do casual flirting, but not too teenage-style. Compliment him. Maybe when you get really close, ask him if he would like a drink.
Be yourself! Age difference doesn't have to be a bad thing...once you are over 20 ages... (read in full...)
Why can't I experience orgasms like the girls in porn? Any thoughts?
Q. I keep watching porn and seeing these girls come loads! I mean like waterfalls of come! Is this real or fake? Why can't I do it? Thanks...
A. 20 January 2007: Hey x
You know, a lot of the time the orgasms you see in porn are fake. But some girls can do that, but not many.
Porn videos are seriously enhanced to turn viewers on when watching it.
They can take months to get just right.
It doesn'... (read in full...)
What's the best way to apologise?
Q. I'm wondering what you think is the best way to apologize to your significant other???...
A. 20 January 2007: Hey x
Through my experience, the best way of apologising is saying sorry. But it depends what you're saying sorry for.
If it's over a general thing, like a small argument, or getting to a date late, then just say a meaningfull sorry on its own... (read in full...)
I'm 24 and I feel embarrassed and ashamed that I met a guy online. Any thoughts?
Q. hi how u doing i met this man online about a year ago we get on really well got the same sense of humour hes really caring when things were going wrong for me he rings me up we have talked on the phone and sent each other one pictures im just...
A. 20 January 2007: Hey x
Relax...this guy sounds fine. There's nothing wrong with it, some people find their life-long partners through it!
If you decide to meet him, be very careful though. Get to know him well before you meet him, and take a friend with you ... (read in full...)
We're now known as the "6-sluts-of-scool" even though only one was really slutty!
Q. omg help please i was at my friends sleep over (im 13) and her parents left to go to the store which was 60 mins away. aways we were watch this funnny movie and doing nails and hair. when this really popular girl who happens to be my neighbor says ...
A. 20 January 2007: Hey x
Well done for saying no...trust me, it would have been much worse if you'd said yes.
If you want to transfer, it's up to you...but maybe you should stay at your current school for a while and see if the situation dies down.
Always... (read in full...)
Does marriage counselling help?
Q. I seem to have let love slip away. Now I feel no love or respect for my husband. I am ready to leave but feel that it is worth it to try to get it back. Does marriage counseling (or one of these highly advertised alternatives that you can order) ...
A. 19 January 2007: Hey x
Marriage counselling is a great option. If both of you are committed to it, then it's even better. If you need to go alone then it's OK too. It helps you a lot so I highly recommend you go.
You have to be open and speak the truth. If yo... (read in full...)
We make each other miserable! So should I stay or go?
Q. I recently moved in with my Boyfriend, I have been with him for 5 years, Things were ok but then all of a sudden he seemed to turn. We used to talk and now we dont. We dont get on we make each other miserable. i dont want to leave him but i dont ...
A. 19 January 2007: Hey x
This sounds like a hard situation. Before you decide whether or not to leave him, I think you should sit him down and try to establish what's going wrong and why you argue all the time.
If he doesn't give you straight answers and just... (read in full...)
Why am I always the one to arrange for us to meet?
Q. rightt iv been realy close with this lad for 2 years now! i like him more than any lad iv ever met and he feels the same! i know hes not just playing me, cause i havnt slept with him yet lol! all his mates know how close we are and that and hes a re...
A. 19 January 2007: Hey x
It's a well-known fact that girls are better at organising things then boys are! But that doesn't mean he shouldn't do it at all.
Maybe you should stop texting him and organsing dates for a while and see if he comes to you.
Play a b... (read in full...)
I like him but he doesn't want a gf! What can I do?
Q. i want to go out wit this lad but he dnt wnt a girlfriend wat shall i do ???...
A. 19 January 2007: Hey x
If he doesn't want a girlfriend then theres not much you can do about it. Just stay close to him and be his friend and maybe he will change his mind in the future.
I have been in this situation before and I know it's sometimes hard t... (read in full...)
I'm 24 and leading a double life with two different men!
Q. I love two men. One of the most complicated things that ever happened to me. Ive been struggling with this for almost a year. I have been living a double life, because they dont know about each other really. One has been my boyfriend for 6 years he ...
A. 19 January 2007: Hey x
You have 2 options here...you can either walk away from both so you don't need to choose. Or you CAN choose. Guy #2 sounds not so nice from the faults you listed.
I personally don't think you should throw away your 6 year relationshi... (read in full...)
Not sure if I want to have a boyfriend in my life...is this normal?
Q. Hi! I was told to keep my question short, so I'll write in point form. -I'm 19, attractive (at least I like to believe so), sometimes shy -the problem: I've never had a boyfriend -I actually dated 2 guys, one for 2 months, and the other one for....
A. 19 January 2007: Hey x
There is nothing wrong with you. If anything, there's something very right about you, because you know that you can live life without a man!
One day the right one may come along, but being single is great too. Flirt with people, find out... (read in full...)
During pregnancy, when should a full figure woman expect to feel her baby?
Q. Hi, i am 17 weeks pregnant but i am a size 18 in clothes and i dont think i have started to show yet and i dont know when i am suppose to feel the baby coz i am a quite fuller figure woman....
A. 19 January 2007: Hey x
Having a full figure does not influence whether or not you can feel your baby move. You should start to feel a flutter on the 4th-5th month, and it will become stronger as the months pass by!
Enjoy your pregnancy, in the end you will hav... (read in full...)
I'm 16 and in love! But he doesn't feel the same. Should I just forget him then?
Q. i am 16 and in love! The problem is the guy i love doesn't like me like that! he flirts all the time with me but tells me he doesnt like me! He has told me a few times that he likes me but if i confront him about it he acts like he was joking. ...
A. 19 January 2007: Hey x
This boy sounds like he likes you, but possibly likes the fact more that he could have you if he wanted! Don't wait around for him to make his mind up. You could make the first move, but you COULD just flirt with all the guys. After all you'... (read in full...)
I have a weird lump on my vagina. Does anyone know what it might be? Is it anything to worry about?
Q. Im a teen and i have a weird lump thing at the back of my vagina i dont have a clue what it is but if anyone knows or experiences the same thing please tell me ....
A. 19 January 2007: Hey x
This sounds similar to a problem that people I know have said they've experienced. As x.Helpful.Cupid.x said it could just be a wart or excess skin, but it will go within a few days.
If it is there for 3 or more weeks, then maybe you s... (read in full...)
Can anyone tell me why men are such commitment phobes?
Q. Why do men fear relationships/commitment so much, even if they fall in love? Why can't they just "go with the flow"??...
A. 19 January 2007: Hey x
The trouble with men...commitment phobes. That's what the stereotype is, but there are lots of men who prove it wrong.
You shouldn't believe this stereotype...just carry on trying to find the right guy who wants to stick with you.
Th... (read in full...)
Im only 13 and watching porn sites. Is this normal?
Q. I need some help. I've been looking at porn sites, but i'm only 13. i do it almost everyday, but a few weeks ago i stopped. Just last week i' starting to view them again. is this normal?...
A. 19 January 2007: Hey x
It's perfectly normal for girls of your age to be curious about this sort of thing! However, some of it is extremely explicit and not very appropriate.
Try not to watch it as often, and find a more subtle way of learning about it. Porn s... (read in full...)
More than anything, I want a baby! How can I persuade my bf to give me one?
Q. Right before i even say this i know your going to start going on about how young i am and how i should live my life but i dont want that i want advice, NOT a lecture thanks xxx I want a baby, I've thought about it alot and have decided that i w...
A. 19 January 2007: Hey x
I can understand your problem as many friends of mine are at the stage of wanting a baby.
I won't give you a lecture...but I'll just say you need to consider the responsibilities of having a baby. It's hard work for women of all age... (read in full...)
Had sex with my best buddy's ex-gf and now...she's pregnant! What should I do?
Q. I'm in a bind. I recently had sex with my best friends ex-girlfriend and she is now pregnent. We aren't in a relationship and live across the country from each other. I want her to have an abortion and she doesn't. What can I do to convince her ...
A. 19 January 2007: Hey x
This is quite a tough situation, isn't it? But in the end it will be the girl who makes the decision of whether or not to have the baby.
You could sit her down and talk to her about all of the possible outcomes. She may be thinking that... (read in full...)
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