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writes:omg help please i was at my friends sleep over (im 13) and her parents left to go to the store which was 60 mins away. aways we were watch this funnny movie and doing nails and hair. when this really popular girl who happens to be my neighbor says she needs the phone so she says oka and like 19 mins later she has a bunch of 16 year olds over and they brought beer and condoms... and she says i have a beer and condoms and a guy 4 all of you. and i was like omg omg omg.. and i dont even like thinking about sex... i am way 2 younge. all the other girls were like unsure. and she goes i ll show you! and she goes and has sex with some random boy. and amy who is throwing the party says where did u find these guys and she goes these are my bfs! i am like ppleazzz no. and she goes ur all going to have sex tonight!!! OKAY? and she goes i dont feel likes a condom and the my parents walk in bcuz they 4 got to give me my sleeping bag and they say what the H E double hockey sticks. and this was a week ago now at school me and my friends are call the 6 sluts, me and my bestfriend want to transfer, my parents arent mad cuz i told them the truth and ratted out the REAL slut. do u think i should transfer and was it okay i said no? i hear girls talking about it in like 6 grade some girl goes my boyfriend gave my a hickie... im like omg omg i got to get out of here
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2007): Your Not The Slut. 1stly you shud dump tht friend she put u in a horriable postition. your waay to young. you sound rely sensilbe, and you should be glad that you said no.
i dont think you should move because people will you think that its completly true nd think that you cnnot face it know more. if that makes sense. anyway that friend of youres needs a slap. she 13 and shes throwing herself around like shes some rag doll. good luck
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reader, dummyduckling  +, writes (20 January 2007):
 you were right to say no to them, you would have eneded up doing something you would have regreted and you would have run the risk of getting pregnant if the condom split. i think you should stay were you are although if things are still bad after a while it may be best if u did transfer. my advice disconnect your self from the sl*t of the group and try and focus on your schooling. you should be proud of yourself you did the right thing
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reader, xx-miss-cupid-xx +, writes (20 January 2007):
 Hey x
Well done for saying no...trust me, it would have been much worse if you'd said yes.
If you want to transfer, it's up to you...but maybe you should stay at your current school for a while and see if the situation dies down.
Always remember that even if other people are saying that you're a sl*t, you know yourself that you aren't.
Talk to your parents about it, say the girls at school are giving you a hard time and see what they think you should do. They'll be really helpful, because they understand what happened and what you're going through.
So my answer summed up for you is: Stay at your school for a while and if it doesn't get better after about 2 months, then you could consider transferring.
Good luck...I hope it gets better!
Cara -x-
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reader, vina_101 +, writes (20 January 2007):
 Of course it was ok to say no!!! You did the right thing. But had your parents still been on their way would you have gone ahead with it? Like you said, you are way too young to be having sex. If you know you didn't do anything slutty then there is nothing to worry about. You know the truth and that's all that matters. Don't transfer, stay at the school you're at. So what if people have labelled you as a slut? You know you're not one so they can go to hell! I've got a question for you though. Why didn't you tell that 16 year old girl to get lost? Were you scared? Did you think your popularity ranks would go way up if you let her crash your party? Next time (if your parents trust you enough to have a next time) whenever people turn up unannounced and uninvited tell them where to go. ok?
Don't have sex because of all the hype surrounded by it. Don't do it because you think everyone else is doing it. Don't have sex because you think it will make you more popular. If you have sex now you'd be doing it for the wrong reasons and you'll regret it.
Stay in school kid. :)
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (20 January 2007):
 yes you did good saying no to this just because other girls are having sex does not mean its right its illegal, one youre too young (which you do know that) and 2 if you feel the need to go to another school beccause their is to much preasure then do it, why should you feel down and bad because some one else tells lies that youre friends in u are sl*ts. if you dont want to transfer then stick it out at that school but dont bow down to peer preasure, ide transfer but it doesnt mean to say it will be better or the same thing mite be happening their, u never know it mite be wonderfull, talk to youre parents about it hun they will be able to help you through this..xxx A
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