She knew she had genital warts and didn't tell me. Forgive her? Or boot her?
Q. I am in an hard spot, i have been with my girlfriend for 10 months and we are in love. We have sex on a daily basis, usually once or twice a day. For the most part i pull out instead of wearing a condom so its unproteted. We agree it feels better so ...
A. 27 July 2009: gentital warts can take up to a 9months before they start appearing so it might not even be the person she slept with before you.
Don't be mad with her, she probably should have got checked out when she originally thought she had it.
once you've h... (read in full...)
How can I break this cycle of breaking up?
Q. Well, i was with my ex for a year and a half and we broke up a year ago.. but since him everytime im in a relationship i break up with them after a month or two and i dont know why! i love bein in a relationship and they'v always treated me good.. i ...
A. 16 July 2009: I have this same problem. I think its because I've got used to being in such an on/off relationship so now I expect every man to treat me the way my ex did.
Maybe you aren't fully over your ex? Maybe need time on your own?... (read in full...)
What is going on between us?
Q. I met this guy ONE WEEK ago, but he has a gf. He's like no one I've met. We can just sit and talk for literally hours, the past week we've texted when we woke up and before we've gone to bed. We hung out almost every day last week, and the 2 days we ...
A. 14 July 2009: Be very careful what you do. I was in this situation a couple of months ago and the man I was interested in spilt up with his girlfriend and started seeing me, he's totally different with me now. Not saying this would happen to you but never know ... (read in full...)
How to make something good out of my terrible grades?
Q. this isnt relationship. But im desperate for a job now! i left school a year ago, and then did a year at 6form but its shocking. basicly im half way through my CV, and i have absolutly no idea what to put! i got shit grades basicly. i got D's and ...
A. 22 May 2009: You can still get into university with D's and E's just depends which one you want to go to.
I went to sixth form and got D and two E's and am in my first year doing criminology. Anything is possible!
Maybe go back to college? Hope this could ha... (read in full...)
Poll: When did you have your first kiss and the first relationship?
Q. Hey just a quick thing. Can you guys/girls tell me when you had your first kiss and when you first had a boyfriend/girlfriend? I'm 16 and never been kissed, never had a boyfriend, nothing. Just wanna know when you guys/girls had your f...
A. 2 August 2008: I'm 18. Had my first kiss when I was 13 which was around a two month thing wouldnt exactly call it a relationship though.
I had my first proper boyfriend when I was 15/16 which lasted two years I lost my V with him when I was 16.
Hope you're n... (read in full...)
Despite warning about this lad and knowing that he's no good - I can't stay away from him
Q. I know I risk sounding naive in this question, but I need some answers really badly. Ok, my problem mainly involves me, my best friend and a boy (I say boy, but he's 18 nearly 19 so this classes him as a man). Im about to turn 16 and have a boy mate ...
A. 31 July 2008: You are just going to have to go for it.
I was always like that,friends warning me off the wrong kind of guy but i never listened either.
I went with him, slept with him within a week (I'm not usually the type of girl to just sleep with someone ... (read in full...)
We have an on again off again relationship, all we do is party and there's nothing meaningful about our relationship but I want to change that
Q. Probably same oll question just in a different variation. I've known this guy for about 5 years. We went out off and on, 6 months here, 1 yr break, 3 months here, 8 months break, and so on. Every time I get a hold of him, which is about once a year ...
A. 13 July 2008: I think you have to let go- and try!
I've been in the situation of an on/off relationship and they hardly ever work. As it's usually one person wanting more than what the other wants.
Speaking from experience, you get addicted to how unstable... (read in full...)
Stuck between a bad boy and a nice guy
Q. Age old cliche - and I never thought it would be me asking advice on it! Basically, I'm stuck between 2 guys. Let's start with Guy # 1. Someone I dated for 6 months, really truly fell head over heels for him. He has a bit of a rough past, no...
A. 6 July 2008: I'm not offering advice here but wow! to the advice below by SamuraiRick! related to that advice so much and have definalty learned something.Thanks!... (read in full...)
I'm really confused, could I be pregnant?
Q. I'm not sure if i'm worrying about nothing,i'm just confused. I was on the contraceptive pill and missed a pill so i took one and took another but it was over 24 hours.i then had sex 2days later on may 4th without a condom. I stopped taking the pill...
A. 3 July 2008: Missed some information out- Iv'e just been on the scales aswell and i'm 7st 10 when 10 days ago i was 7st 3. Please help!... (read in full...)
All my mates have done things with boys but I'm really scared to do things
Q. Hello well im a girl at the age of 15 and all my mates have done things with boys but im really scared to do things what could i do about it?? i wouldnt mind doing things with boys but not sex at the age please help me write back please x ...
A. 10 June 2008: keep do what you're doing.boys will respect you more if you don't give in easily.
its normal that you feel pressure but only do it when you feel ready,and you will know when you are :)
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We're too different but he wants more than friends. drugs, smokes and drinks at 15.
Q. I am 15 and went on holiday a couple of weeks ago for 4 days, whilst away I met a boy who was also 15 and lives 10 minutes away from me. We both hit it off and spent the last night just cuddling etc. However I am a total good girl, never smok...
A. 29 May 2008: No please don't,be better for you in the long run if you dont start a relationship with this boy. I was totally against any form of drugs and was against smoking and hardly drank anything. I was 14 when i got with a boy who smoked weed and had ... (read in full...)
Why do I keep going for the wrong kind of guys?
Q. Why do i keep going for the wrong kind of guys? I know I am young, but this trend is starting to worry me. The first serious relationship, he turned out to be violent and broke my nose and slashed my arm with a knife. The second serious relations...
A. 29 May 2008: I'm unfortunatly not offering advice here but i'm currently sort of going through this sort of cycle where i'm jumping into relationships getting my hopes up,getting too attached to someone new and then having the relationship fail and having the ... (read in full...)
How do I deal with his moods? He wants me one minute the next he doesn't!
Q. Hiya. i have wrote on here before concerning my ex. We keep going on and off and frankly its messing my head up. I was with him for a almost a year but were friends for over 2 years. We spilt up in September 2006 but have since been fooling around ...
A. 16 February 2007: thanks for the advice.i'm going to try and be cool and just be there for him and support him when he needs me. male reader, anonymous- I don't understand by what you mean about- "Find what your goals are for your life and you will find your answer t... (read in full...)
I see a future fir us, he takes this day by day..any hope we'll make it?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for a year and two months now. I'm 17, and he's almost 20. (The age difference isnt that bad) But I keep thinking about our future together, getting married, having kids, getting a house, and he says ...
A. 16 October 2006: hiya.you're only 17, i say you should take things day by day aswell and live in the present. I'm 16 and i thought that about my first love (who is also 16) i wanted kids with him and get married to him, i was with him for a year but now we've been ... (read in full...)
Which accent do you find more annoying: Liverpool or Mancunian?
Q. OK I know this is going to be controversial especially if someone reads this from one of the 2 cities. This is really for people who have been to Manchester and Liverpool in the UK: but what accent is more annoying, Liverpool or Mancunian? I ask be...
A. 23 August 2006: i live in between manchester and liverpool (wigan).but i love the scouse accent and i support the liverpool football team.. as u can see in my username it says red.
i think its sexy aswell, it makes me tingle.... (read in full...)
My ex wants to remain friends for the time being and see how things go... how can I put things right ?
Q. I wrote before about my ex. And i was just wondering what any of you people think i should do? My ex says he still wants to see me three times a week, but he wants to be friends for the time being and see how things go. He said we'll see how th...
A. 18 August 2006: thank you all for taking the time to replying to me.
thanks espicially to A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2006). - you have been a great help, i just have to respect what he wants. I know i have to refuse to act on what i think, and ... (read in full...)
My ex wants to remain friends for the time being and see how things go... how can I put things right ?
Q. I wrote before about my ex. And i was just wondering what any of you people think i should do? My ex says he still wants to see me three times a week, but he wants to be friends for the time being and see how things go. He said we'll see how th...
A. 17 August 2006: thanks for your help.please i would appreciate more replies.... (read in full...)
Too self-conscious to get a pro to give me a wax, and not ready to shave it again!
Q. Hey I'm 16 and I'm really really worried and scared. I'm a wax virgin in all areas and my boyfriend and I have decided that our next step is "oral" but I'm so scared because "down there" is really bad. I don't want to put him off but I'm really ...
A. 6 July 2006: Hiya.If you don't want a pro to do it, there are plenty products you can use yourself. I use veet rasera hair removal gel cream which moisturises your skin aswell, its really good.... (read in full...)
I really love my boyfriend, but I don't want to cut the other lad out completely!
Q. Hiya. I have a little problem: before I got with my boyfriend of 1 year, just before I got with him, I kissed another lad just casually. It happened on some occasions but we didn't take it further At this time my now boyfriend we were just kissing ...
A. 16 June 2006: Thank you all for your advice espicially helen. I talked it over with my boyfriend and he dosen't feel threatened with me talking to the other lad every now and again. And sibaan, i hope you and your guy friend, stay friends because my and m... (read in full...)
Is it best to ask him out face to face or by text?
Q. hi i am 15. is it best to ask a boy out face to face or text? would it make a boy feel shy and awkward if i asked him face to face or would it make him like me more? plz answer this, i really want to ask face to face cos will it boost my confiden...
A. 6 May 2006: I would only ask him face to face, if i knew he liked me too. So do you know he has feelings for you aswell? If you know he does then go for it. If you were to do it face-to-face, make sure he's on his own as he may get embarrased if his friends ... (read in full...)
We're together and fine out of school, but when we are at school he ignores me..
Q. i have been with my boyfriend for 10 months now. We first met at school and we became best friends talking all the time in class and just having a laugh. And then we moved things to becoming boyfriend and girlfriend because we got on so well. Thing ...
A. 6 May 2006: thank you all for your advice.thanks ryder your advice has been great. i should appreciate what i have got with him and i should respect him if thats how he wants to be in school.... (read in full...)
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