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writes:Well, i was with my ex for a year and a half and we broke up a year ago.. but since him everytime im in a relationship i break up with them after a month or two and i dont know why! i love bein in a relationship and they'v always treated me good.. i just dont know why i cant stick a relationship out..me and this guy have been pals for a while and were going out on sunday for a date.. i really like him i dont wanna keep on with this breakin up cycle when i have no reason for breaking up with them does anyone know how i can break the cycle?thank you x
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reader, bambi1980 +, writes (17 July 2009):
 I don't know how your long-term relationship ended but it sounds like you're getting in first and ending things before you get dumped to save yourself the hurt.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2009): if you liked them that much u would make the effort so theres no breaking up. Maybe you just havent found the right person yet because after my ex ive been out with guys and its only lasted up to 3dates but if i liked them that much i dont think that would happen. You need to stop thinking ohhh is this going to get into a relationship and get to know the person, enjoy their company and just have fun. Then if you click it will happen, you wont even know it and it will be more exciting.
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reader, xlittleredcutiex +, writes (16 July 2009):
I have this same problem. I think its because I've got used to being in such an on/off relationship so now I expect every man to treat me the way my ex did.
Maybe you aren't fully over your ex? Maybe need time on your own?
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reader, Starlights +, writes (16 July 2009):
 maybe u get bored easily.
i think instead of meeting guys and dating them and breaking up, why dont u take some time out.
think about what u like in a guy, then go back into it when u meet someone who matches your criteria.
if u date just anybody your bound to get bored!
good luck!
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