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reader, Miamine  +, writes (23 November 2011):
 About 13-14 I think. Didn't fancy the guy, but he asked me to be his girlfriend, and I said yes, because I wanted to see what a boyfriend did. It was awkward, neither of us were sure what we were supposed to do. He kissed me on the lips, with a closed mouth, and his lips were dry and crackly. I didn't see the point of the whole thing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2011): My first consentual, romantic kiss would be 17 years. I totally wanted that kiss and Thorsten, the German exchange student totally knew what he was doing. *sighs* it was a most welcomed open mouth, amazing tongue action EVAH!First kinda romantic kiss was when I was 13 and it was not fun. My Best Guy Bud gave me a cold. The next one, 16 yrs, a surprise and not wanted. He slobbered all over me. I told him don't you ever do that to me again or I will end you. Totally worked. He stayed the hell away from me.First offical kiss regardless was 8 years old. By best gal bud and I practiced kissing on the lips, mouth closed with fellow guy buds. So not romantic.I say the 17 yr old kiss was well worth the wait.I have a thing about kissing in that I rarely do it in the dating world and have only kissed two men opened mouthed in the past 5 years.Its a personal thing.
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reader, Anonymoussweertheart  +, writes (23 November 2011):
 I just had my first kiss a week ago. Im 16.We have been dating for a week but have kind of known him for a year. He walked me to the door and as we had our good bye hug I did not expect a good night kiss! Bit even though it was a bit awkward and to me a bit early it was absolutly great! It was his kiss as well which made it even more special :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2008): hey.. im 21 and just had my first kiss recently.. im not too bothered it was soo late tho.
ive never had a bf either.. if its gona happen, itll happen..
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2008): i had my first kiss when i was 14..
but i still havent had a bf..its kind of upsetting..
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2008): i had my first kiss when i was 14 and i aint had a bf yet!
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reader, Lonannuniel +, writes (11 August 2008):
 I had my first serious relationship when I was 15. We first properly kissed 6 months later (when I was 16) We broke up after almost two years, and I wasn't kissed again until about a year and a half after that. Everyone's different, and the cool thing about your story- it's just that- YOUR story. :)
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reader, PsyCookie +, writes (4 August 2008):
 I was 15 and it was a kiss on the cheek. I don't exactly know where, but I think it was on the hallway of my highschool. The relationship lasted two months and it was my first relationship.
But with my current boyfriend (who I consider the love of my life), it was when I was 17- on my birthday. We were at the movies watching "See no Evil" and when the movie ended, I gave him a kiss on his lips. I had wished he had been my first kiss ever, but I will always remember that kiss.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2008): i'm 15 and i had my first real kiss & boyfriend when i was 14, earlier in my freshman year, and then 3 other relationships at the end of the year, the last one with whom i went the furthest. he's a jerk and i regret it, but i think you really shouldn't rush it like i feel i did, and someone will come along soon. :)
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reader, scythe  +, writes (3 August 2008):
 hmmmmm i would say my first proper kiss (french kissing) was in breif "highschool" relationship (if you could even call it that) when i was in year 10, so i would have been 14 or 15 (woah i didnt realise i was that young!) and just for the record i absolutely hated it!
then my next kiss was probably a tipsy new years eve 07 kiss which wasnt too great (he had stubble, ow!) and i was 18 years old.
since then ive had many kisses from 1 ex, one guy who couldnt make up his mind, and my current lovely boyfriend.
ive learnt that a good kiss depends on the two people involved (ie: some people are just made for kissing certain people) and it also depends on your emotions at the time (ie: physically it might be a pretty meh kiss but it feels awesome because you are in lust and/or love)
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reader, LaydeeOfSorrows +, writes (3 August 2008):
 First snog, 14.
Havent had a real relationship yet, I'm 16 in a few months.
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reader, daletom +, writes (2 August 2008):
I was 18 when I had my first kiss - we had been boyfriend/girlfriend for a couple of weeks when it happened. We loved each other through that summer, about 5 months.
I didn't have another girlfriend, and certainly no kissing, until after I graduated from university. We were both 22 when we met; had our first kiss (and it was very much a REAL kiss!) on our first date. Which, by co-incidence, was 35 years ago today.
A year plus two weeks later we were married (to each other) and then became each others' first sex partner.
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reader, thats_not_my_name +, writes (2 August 2008):
 lol i've never had a bf either or been kissed! well tht's nt strictly true...i had a bf in yr 6 but you kno how it is when your 10...it's nt a real relationship! and i was kissed in a game of truth or dare (also in yr 6) by a boy but it lasted for about 10 seconds and he promptly spat everywhere and said tht's disgusting! there's the confidence boost i wanted! lol. so basically i wouldn't worry, your nt alone; 15 and never been kissed! :)xxx
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reader, Yos  +, writes (2 August 2008):
 First kiss at I think 14. My first relationship was from 15 to 17, and I lost my virginity age 17 also.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2008): First kiss and first boyfriend when I was 12 - but it was more "puppy love" than "relationship."
First french kiss when I was 14.
I'm nearly 16 now, and I've still never had a REAL relationship, so you don't have anything to worry about.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2008): First boyfriend when I was 15, and then I had my first kiss (with my boyfriend) two months later, at the age of 16. It doesn't matter what age you are, it's just whether or not the boy is worth it! x
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2008): Had my first boyfriend when I was 5.Real relationship when I was 9,and first kiss when I was 12,worst experience.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2008): Had my first boyfriend aged 16. we kissed 4 months after getting together!
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reader, XxAnGelXxx +, writes (2 August 2008):
 Hmmm... I had my first proper kiss when i was 12 i do believe, and first proper relationship (by that i mean lasted more than a couple of months) i was 14, and it lasted just over a year :D x
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2008): i had my first proper kiss when i was 18
then had a a few short term relationhsips
then fell in love at 20, with my first long term
boyfriend :)
Your experience is 100% normal. The vast majority of people, whither or not they like to admit it, wait until at least your age - when they're really ready :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2008): um im 15 and never been kissed&never had a bf
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2008): First kiss and boyfriend at 16. First real relationship at 20, lasted 5 years
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2008): Don't worry about it hunny. Everyone is different and experience their firsts at different ages.
I had my first kill when I was 16.
I had my first boyfriend a couple of months after that I think. I was still 16.
Both guys were bad experiences really, but I didn't want to wait any longer and jumped at the chance to finally get the experience that others had and I didn't.
Take you're time. And don't feel like you're being left behind or left out.
Good Luck. Emivia. x
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (2 August 2008):
 i had my first kiss and boyfriend when i was 12 lasted for a year aphex xx
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reader, xlittleredcutiex +, writes (2 August 2008):
I'm 18. Had my first kiss when I was 13 which was around a two month thing wouldnt exactly call it a relationship though.
I had my first proper boyfriend when I was 15/16 which lasted two years I lost my V with him when I was 16.
Hope you're not worrying about this! Everyone is different.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2008): Hey,
Im almost 16 and Ive never been kissed. Ive only ever had two boyfriends - first was in Year 1 (for about a month) and second was in Year 7 (which was crap, lol).
Yeah, somedays I feel abnormal because all my friends have got boyfriends atm or have had them in the past year, but then I think "So what! My kiss/bf will happen when its ready and it'll be special"
Im just hoping that that special day is one day soon :) lol
Hope that helped in someway??
x
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2008): well i had my first boyfriend when i was 12 (almost 13) but i have never been kissed not cheek not lips not anything
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