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male
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41-50,
anonymous
writes: Dear cupid,I am worried that my girlfriend may be pregnant. We had first-time sex recently. We had sex in the shower first, I did not ejaculate. Then, I went to my bedroom and masturbated until I ejaculated. I fell asleep for about 45 minutes. After I woke up, I went to the bathroom to urinate. By then, most of the ejaculated semen had dried up. I then had sex with my girlfriend in the shower again. I did not ejaculate for the second time. However, I'm worried that some sperm may have survived as I am uncircumcised. My girlfriend has been feeling nauseated recently but there are no other changes. Its too early to see if she will miss her period. Can she still get pregnant?Thanks
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (27 June 2007):
Just because you didnt come inside doesn't mean she's definetly not pregnant. There is such a thing as pre-cum and that had sperm in it.
I would buy her a test and set you mind at rest! I had a period my first month of being pregnant. I became very tired aswell. The fact she is nauseus is worrying. If she goes to see her doctor to get tested it will be free and she can chat about going on the pill at the same time!!!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2007): These kinds of questions really irritate me on this site. If you are at least 22, then you should know basic biology and reproduction science, if you don't then you fell asleep in class....
You know the answers to these questions...or you would not be asking them here...you had as you say unprotected sex.
Come on, quit wining buy the pregnancy test, and learn to either keep it in your pants or buy some condoms and spermicidal foam and use both the next time you have sex in the shower or any where else for that matter!
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2007): It's highly unlikely that semen survived. She could also be lieing about feeling nauseated just to see what your reaction would be if she were pregnant..But next time don't risk it unless you're both o.k. with having a baby. But I just had one, and it wasn't planned, and things for us are really well. I am very happy. So don't just assume if she were pregnant that it'd be a bad thing. It's really good too.
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reader, Straight Up +, writes (30 May 2007):
well there is always the possibility of getting pregnant when you have unprotected sex. the best thing to do is wait and see if she misses her period then asked her to take a pregnancy test
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male
reader, willem +, writes (30 May 2007):
if u dont want a child u r playing with fire
*life isnt something 2 play with ,but no i dont think
shes pregnant .next time use protection or stock up
"THE MORNING AFTER PILL" so that bad things dont happen 2 good people ................... THATS THAT .................CHEERS
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female
reader, stina +, writes (30 May 2007):
Hi Anonymous,
A woman can get pregnant from having a guy's penis in her, regardless if he ejaculates or not because of precum. I suggest that she takes a pregnancy test and you two use some sort of birth control in the future. If she's pregnant, it's time to schedule a doctor appointment. And remember that if she is pregnant, it's actually the BOTH of you that are pregnant. She's going to need a lot of support - you both are. Be there for one another.
Take care.
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reader, DontFlirtWithSuicide +, writes (30 May 2007):
you can get pregnant ANY time and yes some sperm probably did survive you should sit down and talk to her , although nausea doesnt usually come untill 4weeks after contriception but everyone is different, yoou must take a test and find out for sure, is she on the pill or was it totally unprotected? you need to carmly tell her you love her very much anyd wouldnt leave her no matter the results and ask her if she can take a pregnancy test with you (by with you a mean with you there - not actualli u taking one lol) and that you will be by her side supporting her no matter what happens
dont try unprtected sex again lol
best of luck =]
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