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She's coming 100 miles to see me but I'm terrified as I'm still a virgin!

Q.   Guys and girls! OMG I am so nervous, I'm terrified. Ok, here goes. I am a virgin. In fact, I've never kissed a girl in my 19 years of life. A girl I met on the internet (seen her on webcam, she IS real!) And she's making a special trip from...

A.   11 November 2008: dont be sure she goin to sleep with you the first night and if she wants to just tell her ur a virgin she will respect you more if you do it will be a special night for you both good luck... (read in full...)

Two are in love?

Q.   ok, so if you are here to call me a bitch or anything rude, you can just piss right off, i am not in the mood to be reading shit like that, i am in seek of some opinions or something... Lukasz [other guy] I kissed him and went to his place and we...

A.   11 November 2008: hey well honetlyif u like lukasz and have more in common go 4 it life to short to muck about just do it girl just say chris your a bore now get out ..good luck ... (read in full...)

Is it possible to be friends with a teacher without it looking suspicious?

Q.   Hi. I have a bit of a situation. My chemistry teacher this year is awesome. Probably one of the coolest guys ever. While he is incredibly gorgeous, I don't want to date him ever. He's really become like an older brother to me this year. We're always ...

A.   11 November 2008: to me that sounds like he just wants a younger girls for sex honestley becarful he could lose his job and you could even get thrown out of school ... (read in full...)

I'm stuck on deciding if I should break up with my boyfriend.

Q.   My so-called boyfriend and I have been going out since Oct.14,08.He does some things that I don't like. For 1,he won't show me any affection.He won't even hug me or put his arm around me or anything.I know it's only been a month,but he could be...

A.   11 November 2008: he has no respect for u at all dosnt care about u in any way honestly u need all them hugs and kisses u cnt beat hugs and kisses of your partner so go get a new fella that respects u and would walk down the street holding ur hand and he isnt a ... (read in full...)

Sex the first time really hurt for me!

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 3 years (we're both 16 now) and after a party last weekend things got really hot.... he started playing with me and I played with him, it's not rare but then we started penetration and we're both virgins ...

A.   11 November 2008: it takes time for your body to ajust for the first time it does hurt the first time but saying that all women are diffrent the next time your having sex just take it slow and see what hapens dont make your self go on if its really sore and if your ... (read in full...)

Do I have to choose between my family and the love of my life...

Q.   I've been apart from my ex 3 months now, he's tried so hard to make it up 2 me and I'm very very confused, he stole from me which I still can't get my head round but I love this guy to pieces, I wanted to marry this guy and start a family. I was so ...

A.   11 November 2008: hey you hope you keppin ok ..well its hard choise to make family of partner well in the situation ur in personaly i wud go back with him i no its easy to say this becauce im not in your shoes but your family love you no matter what you do maybe ... (read in full...)

It's all coming to a head and I feel I want out!

Q.   I started dating my wife when I was 32, I was 34 when we married and I am 38 now. She was 19 when we started dating and 21 when we married, 25 now. I had 2 sons to my previous marriage. I was very very close to them and I gained custody of them ...

A.   11 November 2008: to me it sounds like your wife was jelous and still is and if she isnt happy with your kidds and getting on the way she is i no its easy to say this but leave her thats what i would do but you need to think of your self now and again ..do whats best ... (read in full...)

Will this girl I'm dating make my depression worse?

Q.   I've started a relationship with a girl that has major depression problems. She started different but every time I see her now she just cries and says how she wants to kill herself. She takes medication and sees a psychiatrist. I don't want to end ...

A.   11 November 2008: hey hows it going to be honest im in the same shoes as you i have all the same problems but i sorted it all out 2 days ago i loved my girl and never wanted to end the relationship but i got really fedup the other day and ended it it was such a ... (read in full...)

Help! What should I do about my sister?

Q.   My sister (who's 5) was being abuse my dad (now in jail) (my mom died 2 years ago). When I was growing up my dad (or mom) never laid a hand on me not sure what chance when I move out. I really had no choice but to her take in. Ever since my sister ...

A.   11 November 2008: your sister is young and confused it will take time for her to build up trust with males agin just think it takes time to build trust withany 1 just give her time and spend time with her your self and as time goes on bring 1 of your male friends to ... (read in full...)

Love and Torture

Q.   Ok. I have a problem. I am SOO madly and deeply in love with two people. One is an old teacher of mine who moved to NC but I still keep in contact with him and the other is this boy a year younger then me. I wanna tell the younger boy that I like ...

A.   11 November 2008: hey well to start off the word love is a very power fully word so becarefull when u say it well to be honest the teacher is in NC so move on yes it will be hard but lets face it you aint going to get him back so just let the younger fella you like ... (read in full...)

When two guys talk about one girl

Q.   My two guys friends did not sleep until 3 o'clock because they talked on phone to each other about me. I'm really surprised to be their topic. I am wondering in what case guys talk about girl? Do you think that they stayed late to talk badly about ...

A.   11 November 2008: well to be honest personaly i my self wouldnt stay up late to badmouth a girl ..my self and 7 of my friends all think that 1 of them have a crush and asking the other for advice so dont worrie but if you really wan to know just ask them hope i ... (read in full...)

I found out my boyfriend send a video of him jerking off to his ex!

Q.   So last week my boyfriend and I were sitting on the couch and he had his laptop. He signed into his email and plainly let me see his password. To tonight I decide to be nosey and just look in his email. I'm really paranoid about the things his ex ...

A.   11 November 2008: hey hope your ok to be honest with you i would just say to him listen whats going on why you sending and reciving pic and vids to other people specialy your x your just going to have to ask him is there anything going on between them i no u probely ... (read in full...)

My best friends (females) are together and I've been sworn never to tell anyone!

Q.   I'm 13 and I'm really close with 2 of my friends (Since we're into all the same stuff and can talk about anything with eachother!) but they're MUCH closer to eachother to me. Loads of rumours have been going around school that they are lesbian...

A.   11 November 2008: i cn see where your cumming from it will be hard for you as they didnt tell you what was happening between them yes they shud have told u but maybe they didnt want you geting hurtso they said nothing im sure u fell left out now probley fell you have ... (read in full...)

Am I being cheeky asking him to sacrifice this?

Q.   Hey There, can someone help me. My partner and I welcomed a baby boy last week. I am 2 stone overweight since the pregnancy.... His Mam called down this evening with a pressie for him, a floatation, which is basically a relaxation therapy thing ...

A.   11 November 2008: hey congrats on the birth i no im a fela but i can see what u mean i wouldnt fell hapy if i was in the same postion as you. ok u say you love himbut do u trust him its hard to bulid up trust im sure there are millions of thoughs running threw your ... (read in full...)

How can I flirt with him in a "nice" way?

Q.   Hello everyone, I'm 15 and I love to flirt. But I'm used to the kinda I guess slutty flirting and wearing things that show off my body but there's this guy I saw at chruch that I really wanna get to know and I don't wanna be like that in chruch a...

A.   11 November 2008: hey well it looks like u picked the best fella to want to go with a tricky 1 well to be honest be your self just do what u normally wud do becauce if if dosnt like u 4 being you then your wasting ur time if the fella u like likes you thats because ... (read in full...)

Any tips on how to do it or how to deal with my confidence??

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have been together for a month now and we've done stuff together. The problem is, it's always him doing things to me and not the other way around. It's not his fault, it's mine, I just don't know how to do it. I'm sure he'd love ...

A.   10 November 2008: me again dont be scared to ask him what he wants you to do its all about takin ur time and exploring each other just ask him what he wants done and if u fell u can do it for him go on ahead u should fell confident enough just to ask him wat he wants ... (read in full...)

I have a boyfriend but know I still have feelings for my ex.

Q.   I have a boyfriend, but i know that i still have feelings for my ex. what should i do?...

A.   7 November 2008: i have been in the same problem my self u have to look at why u still have fellings for ur x did he make u happier there are loads of things u have to think about my problem was that i moved on 2 quick and seen difrences between the new and old and ... (read in full...)

Any tips on how to do it or how to deal with my confidence??

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have been together for a month now and we've done stuff together. The problem is, it's always him doing things to me and not the other way around. It's not his fault, it's mine, I just don't know how to do it. I'm sure he'd love ...

A.   7 November 2008: hey . when ur goin with sum 1 sex is only like a added bounus..if ur shy just let him know ur nt sure what ur doing that its ur first time if he is careing he will understand just explain whats rong to him he will understand ive been with my girl 3 ... (read in full...)

Is my boyfriend worth it?

Q.   Is my boyfriend worth it ? He acts SO immature sometimes, and its annoying, He's sometimes nasty to me like, spreads around nasty things about me like, that i slept with my ex-boyfriend and got pergnant. And my whole class was going on about it...

A.   6 November 2008: listen see at the end of the day u deserve to be treated nicely. u dont have to take any 1s crap he is just childish and he doesnt care about your feelings and thats the most important thing. you only live once in your life so why should u waste ... (read in full...)

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