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writes: My so-called boyfriend and I have been going out since Oct.14,08.He does some things that I don't like.For 1,he won't show me any affection.He won't even hug me or put his arm around me or anything.I know it's only been a month,but he could be more lovey dovey since it's just been a month.I don't expect much though.Just a little more.Then,2,when we go to homeroom and see eachother in the morning,he won't talk to me.I have to say hi.And then whenever we go out of homeroom,to first period,he'll look where I'm going,and then he'll go the opposite way.I don't know what's up with that.He won't start being active with me until 2nd period.Then,3,he talks to other girls more than me.We have almost every single class together,except 1.But he'll be happily talking to them and not me.I'm not jealous of the girls,I just get mad when he acts like I'm not there sometimes.Then,4,I think he's ashamed to go out with me.Cause like one day,we we're going to 6th period,and we were walking together,and this girl passed by and said we'd make a cute couple,and then he turned around and stuck his middle finger up at her because she said that.That hurt me a lot.Then,5,he never waits for me.Like,he'll never come to my locker and wait for me to get my books,he'll just keep going.So I have to see when he goes so I can walk with him to class.We used to be really good friends before we started going out,and I think it'd be better if it was that way,cause it's not working out right now for me.I want to tell him about these things,but he might get mad and start talking behind my back because he does that to other people.Today I was going to science,and this other guy came up and started messing with me and he put his arm around me.I don't know why he did that,but I liked it because nobody's done that before and my boyfriend certainly won't do it,I know.So I've started to like the other guy,but haven't acted on it,and never will,until I'm single again.And my boyfriend is making me feel bad by treating me the way he does.Should I stay or should I go?Thanks for all the answers ahead of time.xxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks everyone for the answers.I'm still thinking about it
though.He might change.If he doesn't,I'll know what to do.
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reader, wickyricky  +, writes (11 November 2008):
he has no respect for u at all dosnt care about u in any way honestly u need all them hugs and kisses u cnt beat hugs and kisses of your partner so go get a new fella that respects u and would walk down the street holding ur hand and he isnt a shamed to be with u good luck dont let people treat u badly u deserve better keep in touch
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reader, jeelty  +, writes (11 November 2008):
I agree with KickRox. You should definitely go. I always like to give people benefit of the doubt. I always like to assume that there's a good reason for the way someone acts. However, there's just something not right with the things you've mentioned that he does to you. You are too young to be tied down to a guy who won't even treat you the way you should be treated. Obviously there are guys out there who show affection. Don't stay in this relationship if you're not happy. Life's too short to put up with stuff like that.
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reader, KickRox +, writes (11 November 2008):
 You should go! Obviously there are guys out there who are willing to show you more affection even if it's just friends. You might want to consider breaking things up with your current boyfriend and keeping him as a friend if that. Enjoy the single life.. guys come and go. The good guy will come when you least expect it. Keep me posted.
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