How can I change and show her I want to be there for her 100%?
Q. My girlfriend has distance herself from me because she feels im selfish and is inconsiderate and when she needs me im not there...what can i do to change that about myself, to let her know i what to be there 100% for her..i do have alot of self ...
A. 11 January 2012: you have already taken the first step actually. recognising your issues is the first and biggest step. now you need to understand why you were not there for her and maybe discuss it with someone(and be honest about it). that is going to reveal what ... (read in full...)
I feel such an outcast in school
Q. This is just a rant. I feel so lonely in school. I'm a straight-A student who takes all honors/AP courses. I'm not a "nerd", I just enjoy learning. Anyway, I used to be popular in this school. I switched here four years ago, and for the first tw...
A. 10 January 2012: unfortunatelly kids and teens can be more cruel than nazi sometimes, and without even a reason... i've been where you are and for a lot more years. you can either find comfort in your other friends or take a deep breath and approach someone in your ... (read in full...)
My husband is set on naming our baby after a child his mother miscarried years ago and I know I will regret chosing this name....what should I do?
Q. I am officially 3 months pregnant!! I have been thinking of names... The only problem is that my husband is set on the name Zoe, which i love, but i know he wants that name because his mother had picked that name for her baby that she miscarried a ...
A. 10 January 2012: i like the middle name idea too... and i think you are right to feel uncomfortable... in my country at least, it is considered a death wish to name a baby after a dead baby... so if i was in your place i would never agree with it even though i don't ... (read in full...)
What can I do to help myself feel better?
Q. I'm having a lot of issues lately with my self image. Whenever I talk to anyone about it they think I'm crazy because an attractive woman with a lot to offer. Even though I know that I still can't manage to feel worth much. My boyfriend and I ...
A. 10 January 2012: honey, you need to take a good look in the mirror. in there you will see the person who is worth dressing up for, you! you shouldn't feel bad about yourself just because your bf is still a boy who acts like he hasn't ever seen females before! i ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend always had sex without a condom and it really bothers me
Q. Hi folks, I have a kind of a weird problem: I've found the girl of my dream, we are together for 6 months, and I love her. I told myself I'll make sex without a condom only with my wife. The problem is that she's never used a condom before, the othe...
A. 10 January 2012: you said yourself that she is the girl of your dreams. you cannot believe that your dream girl, the "one" for you is defiled. she did wrong to herself by letting those guys in without a condom, she didn't do anything wrong to you, she didn't even ... (read in full...)
I feel like I'm turning into a evil and wicked person but I'm not sure if I like it or hate it.
Q. Hey guys I'm a bit upset at the moment so I thought I'd ask for some advice for change. I'm the kind of guy people always seem to come to for advice and with their problems. I've never had a problem with it before, I actually felt kind of res...
A. 10 January 2012: i think you need to actually nag and bitch about all this to someone. and i don't mean just ask for advise. you need to let someone know all these bad thoughts you have. even the most extreme ones. i had a friend who was just like you until she met ... (read in full...)
I'm a straight guy who's in love with a bi guy! How do I approach him?
Q. Hey there, I need help for a mind-torturing situation... I'm a straight guy who's in love with a man.I've known him for 10 years, we occasionally worked together, have friends in common, meet on a regular basis.Since the day we met I've felt a v...
A. 10 January 2012: i don't think he will be disguasted, he may tease the h*ll out of you though :P (that's not a bad thing)
well how does he act around you? he might like you too but since you have the whole "i-am-so-straight-they-use-me-as-a-board" attitude goin... (read in full...)
Mixed signals!
Q. I am confused about this guy I just met. He is 21 and I am 33, secretly gay. We started hanging out and he is sending strange signals. He wants me to go to the doctor with him (v.often now), wants to know my favorite food, picks lint on my clothes, ...
A. 9 January 2012: hmm the signals he sends are indeed mixed. i think he might like you though. maybe you should casualy bring up the fact that you are gay, without letting him know you like him. then see how he reacts. if he gets uncomfortable with you or have any ... (read in full...)
My debaucherous past is ruining my present
Q. Hi, I have a bit of a bad history in terms of getting myself into stupid situations and doing bad things (to myself not others). I have just rekindled an old friendship that I was really happy about as I am trying to move on from my more d...
A. 8 January 2012: you are not stupid... you were younger and did something wrong to yourself. you don't do it any more. and that's what you have to remind to your current friends. let them know thatsince you decided to never use drugs again, you would like them to ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my fwb guy that I am pregnant?
Q. Hi everyone I really need your help I have just found out I'm pregnant by my fwb of 9 months I have asked him if we are gonna be together someday and he said yes but how am I gonna tell him I'm pregnant he has a daughter from a previous relationship ...
A. 7 January 2012: first of all, calm down freaking out is not good for the baby. are you completelelly positive you are pregnant? and the biggest question, are you gonna keep the baby?(with or without him around).
if you do want to keep it, talk to him. sit him down... (read in full...)
Her lies and her temper are an issue. But I miss her. Should I move on from her or try harder to regain her affection?
Q. Hello, I dated a girl for 6 months and we broke up 3 weeks ago over her lying and my temper. She had a very tough past but since she had a child a year ago and with the help of a very supportive family, she totally turned her life around to beco...
A. 7 January 2012: i think you have serious chances of working this out :)
although... you MUST calm down. from what i read she knows she shouldn't lie but it was nothing major, nothing that was worth ending your relationship. you love her and her child, right? you ... (read in full...)
Can someone love you if you don't love yourself?
Q. hey i was wonderweing, can someone love you if you dont love yourself? or how can you love yourself?...
A. 7 January 2012: believe it or not, people can still love you if you don't love yourself. but you can lose them if don't learn to love yourself because you will project your insecurities on them.
every person in this world is made to be loved. but the most impo... (read in full...)
How can I make new friends at my new school?
Q. Hi everyone, Okay so I've just turned 16 and throughout high school I have been quite quiet and haven't really had many friends, at the start of high school I made a silly mistake by pretending I was someone I wasn't and not realizing people...
A. 6 January 2012: well first of all, not matter what you do or how you approach people, BE YOURSELF :)
go up to someone with a smile(a smile will make all the non-snob people friendlier) and introduce yourself. even compliment something you actually like about the ... (read in full...)
People tell me I am a great catch but I can't seem to get into a relationship! I hate being single!
Q. I hate being single. There I said it. I would like to feel loved, and be part of a relationship, to share things with a special someone. At nearly 29 years old, I have been single for most of my adult life and it is really beginning to aff...
A. 5 January 2012: listen, i know that this situation is frustrating for you, but you have to calm down... from what you write you sound like a lovely girl but a bit insecure. just be yourself, dont try too hard to be attractive and the right man will come your way ... (read in full...)
How to hint other people I am gay?
Q. Hey there all who want to help :) I am gay, 22 years old, straight looking and acting though, since i dont like being femine (no offence to femine gays out there) and since that is the way I normally am :P. My question is, if there are any si...
A. 5 January 2012: well as a bi-lesb girl from Greece too i think i can help a bit. first of all what city are you from?(sorry for speaking english but this is an english-speaking website lol)
the gay community in greece has taken many steps forward in the big city... (read in full...)
Do I tell my boyfriend I think I'm bisexual?
Q. ive been with my boyfriend over a year our relationship is awesome and so is the sex, but i think im bi sexual. ive never told anyone or gone any further than a kiss with a girl, but i like to watch girl on girl porn and have always fantasized about ...
A. 5 January 2012: well, how open are you with your bf about fantasies etc? do you think he will take it well? if you think he won't there is no reason to upset him since from what i understand you dont have a crush on a girl right now. i can't tell you the best thing ... (read in full...)
Why does my family always think I'm doing drugs? I'm not!
Q. Kso, I am in grade 9.. [Highschool of course.] And everytime I go on Facebook, my mom thinks I am like doing some sort of drug deal or something, and then when I talk about my friends too my mom, she is always like, "Do they do drugs?" And I unders...
A. 5 January 2012: unfortunatelly all parents go through a phase when they are way too concerned and paranoid about their child doing drugs etc. but your folks are over the line here...
you should tell them if they are so worried they can take you to a drug clin... (read in full...)
Why is my supervisor behaving the way he is?
Q. So I've been working for this retail store and within the "structure" I, naturally, have a supervisor who's pretty helpful and friendly with everyone who works there. Nothing out of the norm. It isn't until last month when I started to REALL...
A. 5 January 2012: first of all what is your work's policy about people who work there dating each other? is it ok or could it get him fired?
second of all i think you are confusing him. i mean you show your interest in him and suddently you ignore him and prob... (read in full...)
I love her but she is destroying my life!
Q. This is a long story, but here goes. I'm a girl, and I've been with my partner, also a girl, for a year and a half. After about 3 months of bliss I found out she'd been messaging another girl behind my back, telling her she loved her and that she...
A. 4 January 2012: sorry for the really late response i just found this website today but i really felt like i had to give an answer to this question. i had a similar person in my life, only even more complicated... you should just forget about her because these ... (read in full...)
Will I ever get over my ex?
Q. Why do I get upset everytime I think about him? will I ever get over him? I miss my ex boyfriend so much. We were so cute together. But we argued most of the time. We broke up 8months ago. Cos he said he didn't want a relationship anymore :(. H...
A. 4 January 2012: i know you probably don't wanna hear this but time is healing, so you have to wait. people we loved but are not meant to be with us will always stay in a special place in our heart. but to stop suffering and missing him continue keeping yourself ... (read in full...)
After doing sexual acts with a guy I feel guilty
Q. Im a guy and im bi. I have a boyfriend. We kiss and and perform acts of intemacy. But after we do all that I feel,so much guilt. I know I should not,be doing what,i am doing because thats how I was raised. ...
A. 4 January 2012: the way our parent's raised us mirror their own way of seeing things. it's not our way though... do you like your boyfriend? do you love him? do you respect him and his feelings? if the answer to all of this is yes, then you have no reason to feel ... (read in full...)
What to do? I waited too long to express my feelings
Q. Maybe it started when I met her. At first glance, I thought she was beautiful. Gorgeous curly ebony hair and chocolate brown eyes. She's sweet and she's kind. She's an artist, like me, but takes to digital style like a pro. I think I'm in love with ...
A. 4 January 2012: i know how you feel... excactly the same thing has happened to me too. i think you should let her know, bacause if you are really in love with her you cannot just be around to support her etc. if she doesnt know. believe me... try telling her, it ... (read in full...)
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