How do I tell him it's okay to unhook my bra?
Q. Hi, I'm 15 and so is my boyfriend. We makeout at second base all the time. Everytime he puts his hands under my shirt he tries to unhook my bra, but then he how can I tell him it's ok to unhook my bra and play with my boobs? ...
A. 4 November 2009: Honestly... When you guys are alone and messing around. Just tell him (in a certain voice) that "Babe, you can unhook my bra if you want." But ever consider... That maybe he trys but actually doesn't know how o:! If that is the case than do it ... (read in full...)
I'm stuck, my boyfriends birthday is soon and I don't know what to get.
Q. Hey guys, Ok me and my boyfriend have been going out for two months now, and his 15th birthday is in November. I havent really asked him what he wants for his birthday because I want to suprise him. So my question is, what should I get him...
A. 23 October 2009: Well, obviously I cannot answer that queston for you but here are a couple things that might help you pick a gift for him: 1) Is there anything that maybe he has mentioned beforehand that he said he would like to have 2) 2 months isn't that lo... (read in full...)
Never been kissed!
Q. My 13 year old friend hasn't had her first kiss yet, but all of her other friends have. She thinks there's something wrong with her. I want to help her but I dont know wat to say to help her understand its okay and that her time will come. When I ...
A. 14 October 2009: Just tell your friend plain and simple...
"Your first kiss should be with someone special and she shouldn't waste it on just some guy. That kiss you should always remember for the rest of your life."
Her time will come and tell her to save... (read in full...)
What can I do to stop this feeling?
Q. Someone plz give me some advice!!! I have no trouble talking to guys ... I can flirt just fine and ive had guys like me before and some even ask me out.. Not to brag but alot! So i have no troublemaking guys like me but the only thing is when i d...
A. 4 October 2009: The thing is that you are working everything up in your head. Saying oh "he probably doesn't like me or he never will," but the truth is that you don't know unless you try. So build up the courage by telling yourself that he can't really do anything ... (read in full...)
He promised me he'd always be at my side but that was a lie. Help!
Q. Hello everyone. I just need a little help, if not that, support, to get through this. My boyfriend, whom I have been with for two years straight, broke up with me last night. I didn't want to let him go because we really had something there. And for ...
A. 24 September 2009: I know how you feel. Honestly my ex said that she loved me and there was true love and everything. I thought we'd atleast be together for longer than 8 months but whatever. The thing is that love fades sometimes and it sucks but it happens. Love... (read in full...)
How do you know when a dude likes you?
Q. Well, this question is more aimed towards males. Its very simple, how do you know when a dude likes you? I cant seem to tell if a guy likes me or not!...
A. 8 September 2009: I am sorry to tell you this but there is no general way to tell if a guy likes you. Guys like girls are more complex than they seem at first. But I guess there are always a few that might happen. [: 1) When you are in a large group of friends... (read in full...)
I need help in this situation with my online boyfriend
Q. hi,I'm 15 years old,and I have this online boyfriend. We've been "dating" for 2 and a half years now. He's from U.S. and I've never met him before. He's 17 years old,and he will be coming here this year after he graduates from highschool. I've ...
A. 23 August 2009: If you really want to meet this guy I urge you to bring your parents with you. Or at least one of them. Although he might sound 17 and has sent pictures there are voice changers or his voice might just sound like that. Please if you very much want ... (read in full...)
Still in love with her. Should I just say it and find out what happens?
Q. My girlfriend broke up with me this day 2 weeks ago(5th). We were going out for nearly 21 months and she broke with me saying she wanted to be single. I was fine with it at 1st but the last few days I've done nothing but think about her and cry. I'm ...
A. 19 August 2009: Bud, I broke up with my girlfriend on July 31st. It was the most terrible thing ever. (We've been going out for roughly 7 1/2 months. It really sucks and I am sure I know how you feel. Life is hard to live, you think of her 24/7. But the thing is, ... (read in full...)
How many times a month or a year do you feel sick?
Q. Just a quick question. Not anything to do with relationships but I’ll ask anyway. I would like as many people as possible to answer please. Just in general, how many times a month or how many times a year do you feel sick? Like just not feeling well ...
A. 17 August 2009: Umm.. I am not sure how many times in general... But less than 5 a year. I am talking about majorly sick here.
Also it might just be that you have a week immune system. I am not sure but that is what I think. Now this is my assumption I am no do... (read in full...)
Why are boys like this?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for about 3 months now. He usually comes around mine and we will watch movies and play games. My siblings always seem to get in the way though. But whenever we are alone in a room, he will get on top of me and its like ...
A. 29 July 2009: I've been with my girlfriend for 7 almost 8 months and we are on 3rd base but only once. I fingered her but than after she knew that she wasn't ready. So being the guy I am I respected her and will not try until she is. Now to your question; y... (read in full...)
I'd like to ask my girlfriend for oral sex, but I don't want her to feel rushed
Q. ok well i am 14 and i want to ask my gf for a bj (blow job) idk i have give her some hints about it and stuff but idk i mean i love her and all i just kinda feel we can move on into more stuff then just kissing and hugging...idk am i rushing into ...
A. 5 July 2009: Hey man... Girls are more sensative and stuff. I wouldn't rush anything just incase. Me and my girlfriend have been going out for 7 months and we have only madeout and I've felt her up. She might be scared and might think that all you want to date ... (read in full...)
My bf said I could have sex with other guys...WHY?
Q. My bf of over a year told me last night that if it ever came up that I wanted to have sex with another person that we would talk about it and it would be okay... I lostmy virginity to him and haven't slept with any other guy .. Does he telling me ...
A. 5 July 2009: I know I am young and you don't have to take my advice but: 1) He might have contracted a STI. Maybe or maybe not through sex as pubic lice can come from camping/ outdoor stuff. Herpes. I know you can get this with just contact with an infected... (read in full...)
Shoud I ask him out or something?
Q. Ok so here it is.. I am 13 ( i know it sounds too young but its not to me) i really like this guy and it is not just a stupid crush. When i am around him i feel happier and safe. He always sticks up for me and stuff, but he is just a new frien...
A. 31 May 2009: Yes please ask him out. Get the courage from yourself and ask him out. You guys seem pretty good together so far. Also he held your hand [;[;. So yes please ask this guy out; confidence is hot so just do it. [:... (read in full...)
Is my friend's analysing correct?
Q. ok well basically I heard a rumour about this guy [sean] who i've liked for ages, the rumour was about him and this other girl, so my friend text him on my phone and asked if the rumour was true and when he replied he said "NO. Definitely not true." ...
A. 30 May 2009: He might yes, but the more likely answer is that he just doesn't want to be the guy known as her bf. He is probably just saying that to enforce what he is trying to say. He is most likely just trying to make sure you know that the answer is no and ... (read in full...)
Dating a guy but thinking of a girl!
Q. Hi. I'm a bit confused at the moment.I'm a girl Ive been dating this guy for over 2 years now. We have never had sex, since I'm not quite ready yet. I really love him. But lately I've been having sexual thoughts about a girl. I cant get her out of ...
A. 27 May 2009: Hormones are raging at our ages. You might be thinking about this girl because you might actually be bi-sexual. But because of hormones it might just be being bi-curious; meaning you are just experimenting.
If you can't get her out of your hea... (read in full...)
Help with better self esteem without therapy!?!?
Q. Please do NOT judge me. Okay, so I know I have an eating disorder- not like anorexia- but I won't eat in front of anyone (including my parents) except my sister. I mainly eat infront of her because she was anorexic and I'll do anything to keep her ...
A. 27 May 2009: I know how you feel. I am not attractive but with confidence it helps. Tell yourself you are beautiful. Look into the mirror and right into your own eyes and tell yourself you are beautiful. List all the pros about you and your life. I know what ... (read in full...)
Girl likes boy, boy likes girl!
Q. ok, so theres this boy i've known about for 9 months now. i told him i liked him in january, and he was cool with it. i really like him. he told me last month that he liked me too! he sent me a text message this one night asking "what would yo...
A. 24 May 2009: x] Guys at our age are as scared as you are if not more. There is always the pressure of us having to do it. If he likes you take a chance it and ask him. Most guys think confidence is pretty hot so that will help.
Make the first move and all ... (read in full...)
I love you is overrated
Q. Well with my last few boyfriends, they have always said "I love you" in the first few days of us going out. It really bugged me, and I did kind of love them but it was more of a crush/fancying them at that stage. How can I stop guys I date from ...
A. 24 May 2009: At our ages guys just think that girls want to hear that. I mean some guys might love you but usually it's cause they think you want to hear it. Now I might be wrong but here it goes. Love for these guys might actually be liking her but saying "... (read in full...)
Do girls just date people because they can?
Q. Do girls just date people because they can? There is a girl that i know that is dating someone that (at least i think) she does not even like....
A. 23 May 2009: How old are you? 13? Some girls at our age at 13 (grade 8) have a tendincy of dating people who they might like for a day than not the other. But they don't dump them for
a) Don't want to hurt them
b) Popularity thing
c) Thinking of what... (read in full...)
Her grandfather is dying, how can I be there for her and cheer her up?
Q. hi, theres a really huge problem i have, my girlfriend's grandfather is dying and i dont know what to do. i want to cheer my gf up but i just cant seem to find any ways to do so. knowing the fact that i cant do anything about it hurts. i really need ...
A. 19 May 2009: Hey bud, just make her happy the way you normally do. Do whatever it takes other than making crappy jokes and stuff. It's a tough time. Don't makeout with her or do anything else. A kiss, peck, etc. will do. Just hold her in your arms and tell her ... (read in full...)
I don't want to scare her but I LOVE her...
Q. I really like a girl and i finally got the guts to tell her i like her she is a close friend and ex girlfriend to my best friend i don't talk to her at skool because we both hang around in different placs. she said it was sweet that i liked her and ...
A. 16 May 2009: Hey bud, I have been in that situation before. I am your age (around) so I get what you are going through. Don't rush things love might not be love just you like her because of (the many reasons you do). So if you do like her ask her out and if ... (read in full...)
She wants to do sexual things, I think we are too young, what do I do?
Q. I am 14 in a couple of months. I am not sure if it is weird to love someone. I know I am only 14 and have been in this relationship for 5 months so... is that too early to love someone? I do love her and will do a lot of things just to be with her. ...
A. 9 May 2009: :] Ayyt buddy thanks. That helped more than you probably think. :] Pshh and I am not getting a kid now or in the next years that is just foolish. :D... (read in full...)
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