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26-29,
anonymous
writes:Someone plz give me some advice!!!I have no trouble talking to guys ... I can flirt just fine and ive had guys like me before and some even ask me out.. Not to brag but alot! So i have no troublemaking guys like me but the only thing is when i decide in my head that i like a guy i cant talk to him its a weird feeling... Theres this guy at school that i think is really cute and i just " cant " talk to him,... I wont even alow myself to try!!! What can i do to stop this feeling?? How can i talk to him?? What should i doo??
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reader, turtle86 +, writes (4 October 2009):
 The thing is that you are working everything up in your head. Saying oh "he probably doesn't like me or he never will," but the truth is that you don't know unless you try. So build up the courage by telling yourself that he can't really do anything to you that will hurt you. If he says no, he says no... That's it. I don't think you should stop the feeling. I think that liking someone is apart of life. No matter how bad it really is. Now you seem like a pretty amazing looking person so I don't think that there is any queston that he will not like how you look. Remember, the worst that can happen is he says no and you forget about him.If you have a class with him or something just ask him a question and than start with casual conversation. I mean it's not that hard to start a conversation by... "Hey (Name of boy), doesn't Mr.Doe have such an annoying laugh." Honestly that's really all you have to do and the guy will notice you. Now if you don't have a class with him find a mutual friend and get them to hang out with them. You will be able to get closer to this guy and spend time afterschool even with him. It really isn't that hard you got to remember that.All it really takes is for you to start a conversation. Guys really do like girls with confidence so if you start the conversation and he likes you he will ask you out plain and simple right? So what you can take from this is to talk to him and see what happens from there. [:
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