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My cousin is all I've ever wanted...

Q.   im in love with my cousin!! i have a boyfriend but my cousin is all ive ever wanted...i didnt like him til new years when he picked me up and squeezed me and kissed my neck and cheeks deeply and i did the same to him, no one noticed anything cause ...

A.   3 January 2010: he wasnt drunk at the time...but he was after. but he was very passionate about the kiss and he picked me up and squeezed my waist and we took turns kissing each other. i doubt this will ever cause a divorce...but he is my moms cousins kid..wel... (read in full...)

Is my only option to break up with her? I don't feel I should be responsible for taking care of her and paying for all her bills!

Q.   Dear cupid, My girlfriend and I have been dating since april of 09. She is 19 and I am 20. It was love at first sight when we met, but in ther last couple months I haven't been happy at all. You see, her parents are kicking her out in february ...

A.   2 January 2010: Tell her u only have enough money to take care of yourself and u dont want an account because u dont want to mix money and love together.... (read in full...)

Does my cousin like me as a girlfriend?

Q.   I was at my cousins new years party and we had just opened a 9 litre bottle of champagne (be jealous) and I gave him a hug and said I love you!! he squeezed me and said, no I love YOU!! then he started kissing my cheeks and neck and I was kissing ...

A.   2 January 2010: im afraid to ask him incase he meant it as a boyfriend but thought i dont like him. hes 14 yrs older than me so i dont think he did. but "even crazy dreams come true"... (read in full...)

Does my cousin like me as a girlfriend?

Q.   I was at my cousins new years party and we had just opened a 9 litre bottle of champagne (be jealous) and I gave him a hug and said I love you!! he squeezed me and said, no I love YOU!! then he started kissing my cheeks and neck and I was kissing ...

A.   2 January 2010: did i mention that i love him more than anyone else (as a boyfriend) his kiss felt sooo good... (read in full...)

She's so perfect for me... I just don't find her physically attractive...

Q.   i was in a relationship with a girl that ended about 3 years ago, it was my longest relationship and most serious, we dated for about 2 1/2yrs. I didnt think i was happy with her, i thought i could find someone better, someone with which i was more ...

A.   12 December 2009: beauty is on the inside. u dont have to love her body to love her. look at all the good things about her: her hair, nose, face, little things that come together to form a physically attractive girl hope this helps... (read in full...)

I don't like who I have become, how can I change this?

Q.   my morals have slippped and i don't know who i am any more. :( I used to have really high morals and was too sensible. I got A's in all my gcses but i felt like i was missing out on my youth. I felt a bit trapped, too. so i tried to be as re...

A.   27 May 2009: I had high morals too!! Then a boy with eyes so deep you could swim in them came along. I was hooked. (still am) I am only 12 so I didn't lose my virginity. But even when he dumped me, I loved him, and still do :) I was with him on saturday and we ... (read in full...)

It's very hard for me to not "relive the memory"! But I don't want him if he isnt sincere!

Q.   my ex and i dated for 2 years in high school and about 2 years on and off at college (we went to different colleges) and decided that it was too hard to have a long distance relationship and broke it off. We fought a lot, but untimately it was the ...

A.   26 May 2009: There's only one thing to do: ASK HIM!! Then read lis eyes when he is telling you the answer. Human nature is to look down and to the left when you are lying. Or just looking away from you. There's not much to do. Sorry girl.... (read in full...)

What can I do to break the ice?

Q.   I would like to go farther with my boyfriend, but I dont know how to discuss or bring it up with him. He always tells me he wnats to but never does anything like we always make-out but i want a little more like feeling up or just like touching each ...

A.   26 May 2009: You don't necessarily have to talk about it. When you're making out gently lay your hands on his butt. Or you can GENTLY guide his hands where you want them. If he pulls away you'll know that he is not ready for that kind of thing and wait a while ... (read in full...)

I love her very much and don't want to lose her... help!

Q.   me and my girlfriend have been going out for just under 8 months. everything was perfect up until last friday. before we started going out i thought she hated me because we had gone out before and broken up. i said some things i shudnt have and i ...

A.   26 May 2009: From a girl's perspective, if she really loves you she'd rather get over what you said than leave you. You need to start saying only positive things about her to other people. If you have a problem- tell her not others- she'll appreciate it. Explain ... (read in full...)

Am I old enough for passionate kissing?

Q.   I am 12 and I'm madly in love with my boyfriend- we'll call him Steve (not his real name!!). I am going to a dance with him and he said he was going to kiss me. I want him to, I want him to hold me tight and French kiss me all through the dance. I ...

A.   25 May 2009: we're not dating anymore- but we made out last night!! he has a different girlfriend so it was kinda weird.... (read in full...)

Is it bad if I make out with her boyfriend?

Q.   So I was dating a guy and we broke up. He has another girl friend and we are just friends even though I still love him more than anything. Last night I was at his bar mitzvah and he pulled me outside and we started making out. I am talking to him ...

A.   25 May 2009: We decided tonight that we're better as friends. ... (read in full...)

Am I old enough for passionate kissing?

Q.   I am 12 and I'm madly in love with my boyfriend- we'll call him Steve (not his real name!!). I am going to a dance with him and he said he was going to kiss me. I want him to, I want him to hold me tight and French kiss me all through the dance. I ...

A.   12 May 2009: we ended up deciding to just be friends- it probably wont last long before were going out again... (read in full...)

He's angry because I want to keep the baby!

Q.   I met a guy a few months ago, from the get go I knew he had a girlfriend of four months at the time. We got involved and had a intimate relationship. I recently found out I was pregnant and i told him and he flipped and told me to get rid of the ...

A.   1 May 2009: You could put it up for adoption instead of having an abortion. That's always a good alternative:) BTW I am not judging you and I don't know the whole situation but I'm just saying my opinion about the part that I do know. I can say for sure tha... (read in full...)

Is a polygraph test the answer?

Q.   I am in a real dilemma and don't know what to do. I am engaged and have been with my fiance for 9 years now and never imagined this horrible nightmare i am now in. We were shopping on the weekend when some girl approached me and said your ...

A.   29 April 2009: I think you should make him do it- he won't mid if he's got nothing to hide. It could have been a joke because she is jealous of you!! If something bad has happened to him recently then I would question him- they say sex is oten used to relieve ... (read in full...)

I can't stand her ex to be around her.

Q.   I fell in love with a wonderful woman when i was going thru my divorce but I have a major issue. She was separated from her husband when she was with me and went back and forth a couple of times but now she assures me she is done with him and we ...

A.   29 April 2009: I worry about that with my boyfriend. He has gone back to his old girlfriend 2 times- but this time he proised me that I was the only one in his life. I think you should trust her- girls won't go back many times!! I know that for sure!!... (read in full...)

Am I old enough for passionate kissing?

Q.   I am 12 and I'm madly in love with my boyfriend- we'll call him Steve (not his real name!!). I am going to a dance with him and he said he was going to kiss me. I want him to, I want him to hold me tight and French kiss me all through the dance. I ...

A.   29 April 2009: thanks for the advice!!! yall are awesome :)... (read in full...)

He's angry because I want to keep the baby!

Q.   I met a guy a few months ago, from the get go I knew he had a girlfriend of four months at the time. We got involved and had a intimate relationship. I recently found out I was pregnant and i told him and he flipped and told me to get rid of the ...

A.   27 April 2009: Keep the baby- after all it's yours- it's living inside you. And try to talk to him, he might just be afraid that you'll love him less. But if you're ever afraid that he'll hurt you or the baby -RUN!! I had an abusive father and it scarred me for ... (read in full...)

Am I too young to be in love?

Q.   Hi, i am 12 and i think i may be in love with my boyfriend...am i too young? My friends all think i am. Someone please help!...

A.   27 April 2009: I am also 12, and I'm madly in love with my boyfriend, Griffin. We're going to a dance together this week and we'll probably have our first kiss :) Leave your mind out of it- let your heart take over. If you love him, you love him. Its as simple ... (read in full...)

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