V-day ideas for a guy
Q. hi i have been with my boyfriend for two months now and i dont know what to get him for valentines day. i dont want anything too soppy and i have also been looking for a card that isnt soppy because we havent been together that long. we are like ...
A. 5 February 2009: I've been with my guy just a little longer than two months; so i get where you're coming from. I am also in the same financial situation.- i figure something like cologne isn't too sappy...but then it's not personal in any way (and we all like a bit ... (read in full...)
Why does he mention about his exes? Could I just be his rebound girl?
Q. So, I met this guy online and we live in different states, we've been talking on the phone for about 6 months and he says he really likes me, and I really like him too, sometimes we get into arguments about little stuff, then usually i would just ...
A. 5 January 2009: definately insecure...... i often bring my exes up in RELEVENT conversations, as in, you mentioned a trip, and therefore it was appropriate for him to comment on it; it just so happens that it involved his ex girlfriend. I'm in a pretty new relat... (read in full...)
Can men get pregnant?
Q. I also have another question.. My dad told me to clean the inside part of my ''p-nis''. I cleaned it out, like he said. ( he wasn't watching by the way ) And then a few moments ( when i was cleaning it ) sperm came out. I was in the bath tub, the...
A. 30 December 2008: Regardless of age?....don't you get sex education from like 5 years old?
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Is once a cheat always a cheat?
Q. i have had a gut feeling for a while that my boyfrend was seeing someone else so yesterday (and i know its wrong)i went through his mobile phone to see if i could find any evidence on there. there were picture texts from a girl showing just her ...
A. 30 December 2008: I personally believe that a leapord never changes his spots. From experience i gave someone a second chance and as much as they tried to prove their love for me, they ended up cheating AGAIN.
Obviously this isn't about me, however; i really f... (read in full...)
Help! I'm in love with my stepbrother!!!
Q. Ok, heres the problem: My Mom will be getting married to this guy in march of 09. This guy has a son that I REALLY REALLY like, maybe evan LOVE! I'm 13 and he is 14, I never stop thinking about him, and I just feel so right when I'm around him. I h...
A. 12 July 2008: You're not in love, you're 13!!!!!!!!!! ... (read in full...)
All guys adore me and find me the hottest, but would not approach me...are they totally crazy?!
Q. Well i am 19 years old and i am studying in this highly prestigious university in the United Kingdom. I am the most popular girl in class and my classmates think that i am a stuck up, attitude carrying show off. All this is said behind my back. ...
A. 3 May 2008: Just a little quip, that always helps me, when i feel fabulous, gorgeous and sexy.....but seem to be alone.....
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---------on trees. The best ones-------... (read in full...)
I found out my boyfriend joined a sex dating site. I don't know what to do.
Q. Hey all, where do i start, well im new to this but just so confused ,feel like i could talk to someone better, if they dont know me, than friends who give advice, not saying that we wont become friends on this site but you'll understand when i say ...
A. 1 May 2008: I am so sorry to hear of your unfortunate situation. I know only full well what it feels like to be betrayed by someone you had put all your trust in.
Unfortunatley the 'easy' way out is to deny/ forget about what you seen, and how hurt you are.... (read in full...)
My period is late and I haven't had sex. Could I have a tumor?
Q. Ok well my last period was March 17-24 witch is my normal cycle I havent had sex I am still young but I watched a tv show and a girl have a brain tumor and missed her periods well now it is May 1st and I still didnt get my April period tumors dont...
A. 30 April 2008: It sounds alot more like an early menopause, if it's not just late. Don't jump to such terrible conclusions about your well being. Maybe you're just one of those women for whom there is no explanation as to why your periods cease early.
Here ... (read in full...)
I'm worried my husband-to-be finds out my hymen has been broken, please help!
Q. hi, i broke my hyman whilst dancing. i know this because i found out when i saw blood and felt pain too. im getting married soon n im very worried.will my husband be able to find out. i mean will he able to 'feel' that i dont have hyman.....please ...
A. 28 April 2008: he won't be able to tell. The only give-a-way is the fact that you possibly won't bleed after your first time together. Although not everyone bleeds first time either.
Lots of virgins have had their hymens broken long before they have sex.
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I don't think I love him anymore, I care about him though and don't want to hurt him...
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years and we have been together since a young age. I don't feel the same about him, i don't think i love him anymore, i care about him though and don't want to hurt him. He cheated on me after a year of being ...
A. 28 April 2008: You've fallen out of love sweetheart. It's inevitable at your age. You're much too young to care about feelings. Enjoy your life. Ask him to stay friends, and go out and enjoy your life.... (read in full...)
A one night stand - should I give him a call?
Q. I recently had a one night stand with a man I met at a bar. We were both very drunk. To be quite honest he didn't even know my name until we were finished and I told him what it was. We didn't exchange numbers. Just as I left he said 'call me ...
A. 17 April 2008: Leave it alone hun!!... (read in full...)
Red, swollen and itchy labia lip, what should I do?
Q. Please help, my left labia lip (outside) is very red swollen and itchy what could this be?! Should i go to the emergency clinic?...
A. 16 April 2008: It sounds alot like thrush my dear. This is not necessarily an STD. Thrush is very common among women under 20 years of age; sexually active or not, due to hormonal changes.
The pill, some anti-biotics, and having sex with someone who has thrush c... (read in full...)
I need hugs and help aunts! Its our first wedding anniversary today and my husband has gone to work and seems to have forgot...
Q. Its our first wedding anniversary today and my husband has gone to work and seems to of forgot. I feel devastated, am i just over reacting, come on aunts i need hugs and help, what do you think?...
A. 12 April 2008: Maybe he'll come home from work with something uber special.......he's probably calling your bluff and PRETENDING he doesn't remember...
i hope i'm right and you're in for a huge treat tonight! :)
Happy Anniversary!! x... (read in full...)
I wont know 'til tomorrow for sure, but do you guys think I'm pregnant?
Q. I think I may be pregnant, but I'm not sure. I am now 3 weeks late. I didn't get my period for march! however I have taken 5 at home pregnancy test and they were all negative the last one was today. I then went to one of the clinics here and got a ...
A. 12 April 2008: You can delay your period if you are stressed about being pregnant. Best thing to do is relax. I'd say 5 home-testing kits can't be wrong. Relax.
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What is a clit?
Q. Whats a clit? x...
A. 12 April 2008: You're a woman....i give you a year and you'll know dam well what it is, where it is, and how amazing it it!! :)
The clitoris is a sexual organ that is present only in female mammals. In humans, the visible button-like portion is located near the... (read in full...)
Should same sex marriages be legal, in your opinion?
Q. Hey so my question is should Same Sex marriage be legal? I think yes, but I would like to know what you think....
A. 11 April 2008: Salad_Barbarian is spot on with his answer,
however i am not religious....i don't believe in marriage to be honest, but i certainly don't agree with religion telling people what they can and cannot do. OFCOURSE it should be legalised.... (read in full...)
Do guys think I'm a loser because I'm a virgin?
Q. I am 20 years old, and I am still a virgin. It's not because of religious reasons; I have dated before but I just haven't found the person to do it with. What I am fearing now is how guys see virgins. I have always watched TV and movies that basi...
A. 11 April 2008: This is so cliche, but any guy who thought you were a looser for being a virgin, is not the guy you want to have sex with.
I am the same age as you and have been sexually active for quite a long time. I wouldn't change, but if i were you i would ... (read in full...)
I hit my pregnant girlfriend and now she is ignoring me! I feel awful...
Q. I hit my girlfriend and she is 5 months pregnant i feel bad and everthing but she is ignoring me and i dont get. I said sorry she was winding me up and i hit her i really need to see what can i do please help i feel awful. PLZ HELP?! she is alot ...
A. 11 April 2008: You really don't have any ground to stand on! In what ways have you tried to persuade her that you're sorry?....or are you just waiting around and sulking?........Maybe hitting her was her ticket out of the relationship, perhaps what she needed.
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I hit my pregnant girlfriend and now she is ignoring me! I feel awful...
Q. I hit my girlfriend and she is 5 months pregnant i feel bad and everthing but she is ignoring me and i dont get. I said sorry she was winding me up and i hit her i really need to see what can i do please help i feel awful. PLZ HELP?! she is alot ...
A. 11 April 2008: You really don't have any ground to stand on! In what ways have you tried to persuade her that you're sorry?....or are you just waiting around and sulking?........Maybe hitting her was her ticket out of the relationship, perhaps what she needed.
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I hit my pregnant girlfriend and now she is ignoring me! I feel awful...
Q. I hit my girlfriend and she is 5 months pregnant i feel bad and everthing but she is ignoring me and i dont get. I said sorry she was winding me up and i hit her i really need to see what can i do please help i feel awful. PLZ HELP?! she is alot ...
A. 11 April 2008: You had no excuse to hit a woman, never mind a younger, PREGNANT one. No matter what the circumstance.
You dig yourself out of this one pal.... (read in full...)
She agrees that I am much better, and that if I acted the way I do now - she would not have broken up with me. What should I do?
Q. Ok, here it goes. I was with my ex for 1.5 years. I met her in Florida since I am down here for grad school. We live together currently. When I first dated her I found out she had a son. No big deal, he was at her dads. After about half a yea...
A. 11 April 2008: Listen, all i can say is your girl sounds to me like she doesn't know what she wants in her life. A son from a previous relationship, shipped all her love to you, and now she has a new love interest? I think the girl is confused. The fact that she ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my teacher that I love him?
Q. i dont know if i love my teacher, its probably just a crush but i cant stop thinking about him. i think he knows by now i like him, because i sent him an email and said i think you're amazing and the best teacher i've ever had, and then yesterday he ...
A. 10 April 2008: No!!! It is just a crush, and no offence, but in a couple of years time, you'll look back and laugh at yourself. It's normal to be attracted or even infatuated with someone when you're a teenager. But you'll get over it as quickly as you fall into ... (read in full...)
Any kissing tips?
Q. Hi I am 13 And has never had my first kiss yet. I get realy nervous just thinking about it. Please Give me Tips on how to....
A. 10 April 2008: Hrmmm it says on your profile that you're aged 26-29?
Anyways, this is absolutely something you should not worry about. Quite simply, kissing comes naturally. You'll hear this a million times.
I hope your first experience is just lovely! :)... (read in full...)
I met a wonderful older man! He is a sex offender but I don't judge him! What do you think?
Q. I recently started seeing a man somewhat older than me. So far, I find him wonderful! We enjoy each others company, we share the same values and ideals, we are both happily independent. He is an absolute gentleman, very well read, and very ...
A. 10 April 2008: I really think that the fact you took time to ask this question clearly shows your doubts.
I now nothing about sex offenders, or reform for that matter....but i do know that if you have a doubt it your head, then i very much doubt this is a good i... (read in full...)
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