I get paranoid at night
Q. i gues this coud be a health issue ima 14 year old male who gets very paranoid at night and some times during the day (especialy when im alone) i normaly dont go to bed till around 9,40 and normaly fall a sleep after 11ish. this is because i have ...
A. 4 April 2011: Hi there, You said that you have a very weak front door? Does it have no lock? Broken (I doubt it since you told me your family's wealthy). I suggest to first, fix the door. Get some locks if it helps you. Does your family have a personal security... (read in full...)
What is the risk of becoming pregant while on the pill and having fertility issues?
Q. Hey everyone, I have a question re: sex and risk of pregnancy. My bf and I have been together quite a while and we have been having sex maybe 1 or 2x/week. We recently got tested so that we could enjoy it without a condom once in a while. In terms...
A. 23 March 2010: Hello!
I am about the same age as you, and been on the pill for a year now (combination pills). My bf and I are monogamous and we don't use condoms. He also most of the time finishes inside of me (best feeling!). I am so far haven't been preg... (read in full...)
He cheated...it drives me crazy...completely crazy...
Q. By bf and I just turned one year last Feb. And last Friday I found out that a month right after we got together, he had sex with a girl from our work (it's a restaurant franchise). I don't work there anymore, but I knew the girl he had sex with. My ...
A. 9 March 2010: First of all I would like to thank you everybody for their answers with advise,and support. I greatly appreciate it.
To baddogbj, A female reader (1st), two of anonymous Caringguy,Veronica, Puzzlesolver who hit the real situation I am in, thank yo... (read in full...)
Will I ever get over the fear of being intamate? I can't kiss
Q. Ok, i dont know whats wrong with me! I hate getting close to dudes, like being in a relationship. I cant stand the thought of having to be intimate with another person. Like ye sex looks good, but i can never imagine myself doing that kind of stuff ...
A. 28 July 2009: Yes, I agree with always.curious.ray., all you need is the right guy :]
I was very much like you, I barely can stand close to guys or even thinking of kissing somebody and having sex. I was even move steps back if somebody tried to even hug me!!... (read in full...)
What is it that turns on a woman the most about a man?
Q. This question is mainly for women. Please be as honest as you can. Does a man's penis size really matter to you? What is it that turns on a woman the most about a man and is their penis size on of those things? So basically, is bigger really better? ...
A. 29 June 2009: What really turns me on is the look in my man's eyes, wanting me. Penis size should be average, it's all about how you work it :] If it's too big, it hurts. Oh, one more thing, touch. Touch is very important. On my skin, on my ears, or feet, soft ... (read in full...)
I took my girlfriend for granted and I don't know if I've ruined it forever?
Q. Me and my girlfriend recently split up but it was more we went on a break but we can do what we want on this break. im only 18 but i know shes the one for me. thats bold to say but im not jumping around the issue. she is. in the months before we ...
A. 29 April 2009: All I can say is to quote this quote, "If you love someone, let it go; if they come back, they're yours, if they don't, they never were"... (read in full...)
My boyfriend loves to hold my hand a lot is this good?
Q. my boyfriend loves to hold my hand a lot is this good?...
A. 19 April 2009: The answer will rely on whether you're comfortable with it or not. I love everytime my bf holds my hand or play with em :]... (read in full...)
What to look for if I might be pregnant?
Q. right, me and my boyfriend are both 15 years old and has sex yesterday (were both virgins). i have been on the pill about 3 weeks but we used a condom for xtra protection. the condom broke and his pre-cum may have got inside me, do you think i will ...
A. 15 April 2009: If you drink the pill regularly and none of them was passed 6 hours of the time you usually take them, you should be fine. I have the same problem, I was so scared when he cum inside me. Was having anxiety about why my period hasn't come yet (during ... (read in full...)
Whereever I go, whatever I do, I always seem to get bullied.
Q. Where every I go, what ever I do, I always seem to get bullied. Every job that I have every had has involved someone trying to make my working conditions difficult. I can remember as far back as when I was 18 in my first job. I am very smart...
A. 11 April 2009: How about confronting one of those bullies and ask them what exactly attracts them to bully you? Nobody can belittle you unless you allow them to. Good for you since you know that already. I admire you for being a single parent and working hard for ... (read in full...)
My husband won't communicate with me
Q. My husband and I have been married for seven years. He isn't much of a talker. For example, at dinner, I'll ask him a question and his answer is very short and concise. When he comes home from work, he very rarely tells me what happens during the ...
A. 11 April 2009: This is interesting...Was your husband like this when you two were dating? How long were you dating before you got married to each other? ... (read in full...)
Your insight is needed here thanks.
Q. Hi, I am a 26 year old male guy currently staying in the US, trying to get a job. While working as a student worker at the University where I graduated form(for the past few months), i had the chance to work with this Korean girl who is new in ...
A. 9 April 2009: Just a little insight, we Asian women tend to be slow and overprotective of ourselves when it concerns romantic relationship. Go slow, and she'll realize your sincerity. Good luck :]... (read in full...)
I cant drive...does this make me a loser?
Q. Hi,i just need some honest advice. Im 26 year old female and i dont drive. I did lessons a few years ago but just couldn't get my head round them so i quit. Also i suffer with anxiety -on and off and for the past few years i've been on antidepr...
A. 4 April 2009: ArmyMedic is right, it doesn't make you less of a person! I am 25 and to be honest I feel the same way like you do, I mean, the buses are available,and I can get pretty much anywhere I want to with it.I don't even have to think about hitting an'r ... (read in full...)
How can improve my chances for getting a job?
Q. I've never felt so low. i cant get a thing right with my girlfriend, i cant get a job, The only place I can see my life going is living on the streets. I just want to be happy but I can't see it happening. I Just want to know how to make things ...
A. 4 April 2009: Hang in there friend. I know exactly how you feel. I came to this country to obtain better future. Yet, so far, it's been nothing but hard, rough, tough, and I can't see the light at the end of the tunnel. I have to leave the country soon if I don... (read in full...)
I know in my heart that I don't belong in North Carolina...
Q. Good afternoon, This question might not seem like a relationship question but I'll explain why it's relevant, I promise. My heart is set on moving abroad, but I've been told by so many people that it's impossible, and to forget it (no...
A. 1 April 2009: Why not try to apply for a job in the countries you're interested in? If you get accepted, there's no reason you shouldn't try to move there, right? Good luck :]... (read in full...)
Making out on the first date?
Q. do u think its appropriate to make out with a guy on the first date? would he think of the girl as a someone who gives in easily?...
A. 1 April 2009: Think of 'making love' not just 'sex'. To be able to do this, both sides need to know each other first, and it will be hardly done by just one date. Well..unless you've known this guy since you're 3 or something. Even so, you knew him like a friend, ... (read in full...)
Do we need to use protection and should I ask him to be tested?
Q. Do we need to use protection? Me and my boyfriend fool around, lately naked. We don't actually have intercourse, he just insterts his penis in the opening not inside, he doesn't ehh cum or anything, he has been sexually active before with at least ...
A. 1 April 2009: The answer is yes. If he hasn't been sexually active that's not too bad, though better play safe than sorry. However, in this case, condom is a must. There are two things you can do: go with him and have him checked for STD or any other important ... (read in full...)
I have a question about female orgasm
Q. i have a question about female orgasm , im a virgin so since women orgasm from clit preassure , either from oral or during sex from he preassure of the man's pubic bone . so why is vaginal intercourse enjoyable ? i mean it is for the man cause of t...
A. 31 March 2009: I like to reach orgasm when I masturbate. In this way, I can have full control on what I do to obtain it (with all the crazy imagination I can have!). When I have sex, I hardly ever mind not getting an orgasm. I find the presence of that other ... (read in full...)
What did he mean by his statement?
Q. Dear Cupid, Robert and I were best friends for two and a half years and then we decided to be more than friends. I waited on him to figure out what he wanted for four months then we dated for two months, I didn't talk to him for three months and we ...
A. 31 March 2009: The only way to be clear is to contact him again and actually talk about it. What exactly he had in mind before you told him that it won't go anywhere. Was he also feeling the same? Or was he actually crying inside too.
Being physically sepa... (read in full...)
Is it safe for him to cum inside you when you're on the pill?
Q. I know this is kind of a rhetorical question, but please give me your opinion and knowledge anyway :] I just started on birth pills. Me and my bf don't use condom anymore since he never cums in me anyway. However, last time we had sex, he wanted t...
A. 31 March 2009: Thank you everyone :]
I did apologize to him directly afterward. He knows since the first time we starting to date that I am absolutely not interested in getting pregnant.
The problem is still, he gets numb after a while if using condom. Any sugg... (read in full...)
I have probably took my virginity away by masturbating and I'm scared!
Q. my mom thinks i'm a virgin.but i really don't know either.Because i have been masterbating and probaly unvirgined myself.what should i do?tell my mom or get checked but my mom has to come with me?if she finds out that i'm not she is going to kill ...
A. 8 March 2009: Virginity is just like any other things, it's relative in terms of its definition. It can be the break of hymen, and it can also be no experience of intercourse before. And yes, masturbating is not wrong, from my pov, it's great! You're in control ... (read in full...)
Should I break up because of a sparkless kiss?
Q. I haven't kissed my boyfriend because I'm nervous. I won't feel the sparks like eveyone says, I really like him honestly I don't want to wreck it with a kiss and I don't want him to end it because I'm a bad kisser. I never kissed anyone so how do I ...
A. 8 March 2009: Ah, yes, sounds familiar. I am one just like you. I thought about it too too much. Wanna know how mine happened? I knew from his eyes he wanted to kiss me, then I just gathered all the courage to push myself over my scaredy cat barrier and kissed ... (read in full...)
Help me choose the best vibrator!!!
Q. Hello cupids, This may seem a silly question but I'm looking to invest in a vibrator. I have not used one before and have been looking at the Ann Summers website but there is such a variety I don't know where to start. Could anyone give me some ...
A. 28 January 2009: Hi there :]Well, my advice is to start modest or realistic. Especially you're just starting.Of course you will need a good quality one, but don't invest on super-duper one yet.If you're a virgin, then start ehem, small, try to imagine 2 of your ... (read in full...)
I get uncomfortable whenever we get close but I'm longing for intimacy.
Q. We've been together for more than a year and a half, never really kissed, I avoid any form of physical contact with him yet I long for some form of intimacy. It's because I get uncomfortable whenever we get close but I completely trust him. I know ...
A. 28 January 2009: Uhm, I am like you too actually. I am scared for physical intimacy, including kisses and hugs. That was when I was 22! then I realized that the guy was just not the right one. He was more of a friend, later I realized. So, there's two things that ... (read in full...)
How to pull back..?
Q. I am a late bloomer so to speak, and 2 days ago I had my first real date. I was so nervous I thought I would die! I know, funny for my age. Nothing happened, not even a kiss (I have problem with intimacy), but I had fun. Anyhow, we'll be going on ...
A. 26 January 2009: Thank you, thank you, thank you, both acd719 and Shawn :] I am so new at this so, once again, your advices are greatly appreciated :]... (read in full...)
I'm 24, hot and still a virgin
Q. I am a very attractive 24 year old female virgin and I’m ashamed that I have yet to be intimate with someone. I have never been in a serious relationship and have never done anything more than kiss. I am worried that when I find a guy I want to have ...
A. 26 January 2009: I think it's not something you need to worry about. I am 25 and still a virgin, and I don't mind that at all. I get curious, and all, but I will remain this way until I get with the right man. About your friends being shocked, well, that happens to ... (read in full...)
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