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*riskaedeka102
writes:I am a late bloomer so to speak, and 2 days ago I had my first real date. I was so nervous I thought I would die! I know, funny for my age. Nothing happened, not even a kiss (I have problem with intimacy), but I had fun. Anyhow, we'll be going on our second date next week. I am petrified about what will happen next, I'm never really looking for a relationship, but at the same time at least I have to experience it, no?. Not to mention, I do not want to have sex. Gah, so many questions, but my main problem is, what if after several dates, I decided that I don't want to know him better...? to complicate things, he's 5 years younger than me, and he works where I work. Reply to this Question
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reader, Triskaedeka102 +, writes (26 January 2009):
Triskaedeka102 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you, thank you, thank you, both acd719 and Shawn :] I am so new at this so, once again, your advices are greatly appreciated :]
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2009): hey girl! if it turns out you don't want to keep dating the guy, then you don't have to…you don't owe him anything! and first and foremost DON'T DATE YOUNGER GUYS!!!!!!!!! especially at OUR age…that's like high school, right? you can do better girl…lots of guys would probably find your inexperience super cute :) and love the whole innocent virgin thing…just use your noggin and don't let a guys "experience" overcome your intellect
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reader, Shawn_W  +, writes (26 January 2009):
If you get to the point where you've gone out on several dates with him, then there's probably some chemistry, but you're just on date #2, so you have a bit of time. If, in the end, you don't want to see him anymore, tell him so. Don't be vague and expect him to "get the hint". Be direct and to the point, but be polite.
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