Does she like me or my mates???
Q. I'm going out with a girl who's really confusing. She told me after 2 weeks of going out that she likes one of my best friends but still loves me so I was like okay we will still go out. But it's just weird because if my mates meet her or what...
A. 7 September 2007: you cant posibly be in love after only two weeks please
thats not possible
you both shouldnt be flirting around each others mates because your a couple but it sounds to me you dont want to be a couple
i think you should both go your seperate way... (read in full...)
What do you do when every girl likes the same guy you do and you think he likes you?
Q. Hey guys. Well,there's this guy in my band class.I like him and I don't know if he likes me. He always smiles at me or trys to get me to do wierd things with him.Another thing is that he ALWAYS stairs at me!! I really mean it. We'll be in the middle ...
A. 7 September 2007: you wait for him to make the first move then if you dont want to be like the others
be casual around him act like he's another mate and you arent that interested and he'll start liking you even more straight away
dont make the first move if you a... (read in full...)
I keep crying because I have really really low self esteem and I just feel really ugly and rejected and basically a mess.
Q. I'm really confused right now. I started a job 3 months ago and met this guy called Dan through one of the people at work. We became friends and about a month ago he kissed me and told me he liked me. I was a bit unsure at first because he's a bit ...
A. 7 September 2007: I think he did this because he is a dick men always do this whenever they break up with someone they just use another girl so they have someone to be around i have been in the same position and fell for it because i really liked him but then after a ... (read in full...)
Can a guy and a girl be platonic "friends" and nothing more?
Q. I need opinions here! Do you think it is possible for a guy and a girl to just be friends or is there always/almost always romantic feelings at some time for the other person?...
A. 6 September 2007: cause its possible for a guy and a girl to be friends there is no rule. but it sounds to me like you fancy a girl that you are friends with if she feels the same way it sounds like a great idea but make sure she does otherwise there on after it will ... (read in full...)
He split with her then wanted to start seeing me but she is spreading rumours about me. Should i get with him?
Q. I started a new job working night shift about 9 months ago. I was trained by a guy (well call him Nathan) and we had so much free time we got to know each other very well. I am not in any type of relationship but he had told me he was. Nathan never ...
A. 27 August 2007: To be perfectly honest from the sounds of it you seem like you have met your true soul mate and someone you care about. Him splitting with his girlfriend is nothing to do with you if he wasn't happy that was his issue and you gave him someone to t... (read in full...)
I met a guy while my boyfriend and I were on a break, but we fight a lot, and I don't know if it's worth it
Q. When is enough enough?...I need major help! I have been with this guy for a year. I met him while i was on a break with my boyfriend. Things at first were WONDERFUL....he had everything (he swept me off my feet). However, as time went on we began...
A. 25 August 2007: well let me ask you this question and answer it to yourself truthfully if this guy started going out with you but at the same time he wasnt sure if he wanted to be with an ex girlfriend how would you feel i dont mean to sound blunt but nobody likes ... (read in full...)
The problem is his daughter -she is 30 years old and only calls us when she wants something - usually money but some kind of favor.
Q. My husband and I have been married 9 years. We each have 2 grown children. The problem is his daughter -she is 30 years old and only calls us when she wants something - usually money but some kind of favor. He can't say no to her. Not only is ...
A. 25 August 2007: you need to tell him that although she is his daugther and you always want to help them there is a cut off point when you need to be strong and make them stand on their own two feet and be adults my brother is thirty and still lives at home and is ... (read in full...)
He drinks and gets mad, said he has cheated on me...what should I do?
Q. i have been with my boyfriend for 20months and love him alot but im not sure i should be with him anyore he drinks every night and we always end up falling out because he has got pissed he always finishes the relationship but then says sorry the ...
A. 25 August 2007: you shouldnt be with someone who gives you no confidence he obviously doesnt want you to be happy if he likes putting you down, please do not have children with this man as they do not deserve to be brought up in this environment of course you love ... (read in full...)
Is she out on a date with her ex?
Q. Is she on a date with her ex? Alright so yesterday I was with the girl I'm seeing and we were having a good time, but then later in the night her sister tells her that one of her ex-bf's wants her to go out tomorrow(today), she didnt give a straight...
A. 25 August 2007: i think your girlfriend wants to have her cake and eat it but you need to remind her that she cant play with peoples feelings like this and there is nothing worse or more hurtful than not knowing where you stand when you really like someone you need ... (read in full...)
I told a secret because I felt I had to, now my best friend hates me...
Q. Ok so one of a really great friend of mine had her boyfriend dump her after she told him she might be pregnant, anyways it's really complicated in that area but what happened was my best friend had sex with the boyfriend and she told me. I had bee...
A. 25 August 2007: personally i don't think you should have told her as it has only complicated matters and made yuor pregnant friend feel worse, best friends keep secrets its as simple as that, i know you've helped your pregnant friend through alot but you should ... (read in full...)
After 3 and a half years he said I love you, what now?
Q. I am stunned I have had an on off reltionship with my boyfriend for three and a half years!! It has been more off than on. We went out for 6 months at the beginning and it was really good to start with but then it got weird. I was literally ...
A. 25 August 2007: Love is mutual thing and if it has took him three and a half years to say those three words he isn't worth it, and only having a sexual relationship does not mean that it is a relationship because relationships are about more than just sex and ... (read in full...)
She says he's just a friend.
Q. Am I being too paranoid or is something going on? I've (21) been with my girlfriend (18) for over a year now, things have been going great up until she started telling me that there is a chance we might have to end it, because of conflicts with h...
A. 25 August 2007: i think its unfair the way she is treating you if she can't see you as someone to talk but someone halfway across the world then you should say somthing it should be you she tells her problems to and makes her laugh and if she doesn't want you to be ... (read in full...)
Not sure if I've ever been in love with my wife, now I love her sister...
Q. I have the same dilemma as a couple of guys who say they're attracted to their wife's sister. I find myself in the same perdicament. The difference with me is that I am not in love with my wife, and I have fallen in love with her sister. I did not ...
A. 25 August 2007: when love is real it will happen no matter what but you need to have some respect for your wife as well and realise that if you went with her sister their relationship would be destroyed and your wifes sister could end blaming you for losing her ... (read in full...)
It feels like i have to put all the effort in this relation!
Q. I have been with my partner for 15 years and we keep arguing about the same things, he says he will change but then nothing happens or if it does it's only for a while. he isn't a bad person but it feels like I have to put all the effort in. He ...
A. 25 August 2007: A relationship is a two way thing thats how they work both people have to put effort in to make their relationship good if only one person does you may as well be on your own, most relationships fail because no one will put the effort to make it ... (read in full...)
He thinks he should try again, just to prove a point to her.
Q. Re: My boyfriend ex-wife is driving us crazy. My boyfriend has been divorced for 3 years, his ex-wife filed for divorce. He met me 7 months before his divorce was final and was having a very hard time. That is how we became good friend. We then...
A. 25 August 2007: I f he said he wanted to go back to her to prove a point thats just a ridiculous suggestion who does that nobody. you need to find out if he really wants to be with and a good way of proving that is changing his mobile number change his e-mail ... (read in full...)
She is always nasty when we speak, so why can;t i get over her?
Q. Hi im 21 and just after christmas I split up with my ex girlfriend, since then I have slowly fallen in to a state of mind that things wont get better and i'll find someone. But I cant get my mind off of my ex. I was with her for 4 years. we had our ...
A. 24 August 2007: i think that you need to realise if this girl is around the same age as you people sometimes do change when they get older and she clearly hasn't changed in a good way to treat you like this because of one friend she makes she has obviously started ... (read in full...)
Is he worth it.
Q. my boyfriend of 6 months, has a 8 week old baby. but everywhere i go, like on the social scene (myself, boyfriend and mother of his kid(they were with each other 3 years))we are all in the same circle of people. everywhere i go i think people a...
A. 24 August 2007: I think you should tell your boyfriend the way you feel obviously having a child with someone means he will always be in her life and you have to accept that but you shouldn't be spending social time with her its just strange because they have a ... (read in full...)
He wants to be part of our daughters life again.
Q. My daughter's dad wants be a part of our lives, again. We've been through the court systems, etc. He signed over his rights as my daughter's dad. He's been trying to be apart of our lives for the past few weeks. We've (us and his kids) at my ...
A. 24 August 2007: The main thing you have to think about is why suddenly does he want to be apart of your lives again signing over his rights as your daugthers dad is a serious thing to do and is basically saying he didn't want to be part of her life and yours and ... (read in full...)
He wants to be part of our daughters life again.
Q. My daughter's dad wants be a part of our lives, again. We've been through the court systems, etc. He signed over his rights as my daughter's dad. He's been trying to be apart of our lives for the past few weeks. We've (us and his kids) at my ...
A. 24 August 2007: The main thing you have to think about is why suddenly does he want to be apart of your lives again signing over his rights as your daugthers dad is a serious thing to do and is basically saying he didn't want to be part of her life and yours and ... (read in full...)
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