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writes:I am stunned I have had an on off reltionship with my boyfriend for three and a half years!! It has been more off than on. We went out for 6 months at the beginning and it was really good to start with but then it got weird. I was literally falling in Love with him, and he I think he sensed this and began to drift away from me we finished!! But have been seeing each other ever since!! FOR SEX ONLY!!! I want more he knows I do, he knows I Love him I say it when ever I can!! He always say thanks and asks why I Love him? Anyway he called me the other night out of the blue, he was going away to work offshore, and he wanted to come to visit me I said no he couldn't because it was a week night and it as too late! He was a bit sad about this! Well I am fed up of doing what he wants time I get what I want!! Anyway as he was saying goodnight he sang me a song then I said Love you he said I Love You Too!!!! After three and a half years he finally said what the words I wanted to hear!! Now what do I do?
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reader, Tray-Lou +, writes (25 August 2007):
Love is mutual thing and if it has took him three and a half years to say those three words he isn't worth it, and only having a sexual relationship does not mean that it is a relationship because relationships are about more than just sex and having someone drift away from you just because you were falling in love with them means commitment is not in his books. you seem like you are being used as someone for companionship whenever he wants it or whenever he gets lonely and it should be about your needs too and if you've waited that long for those words how long before he asks you to marry him
he's not worth it you deserve someone who is completely devoted to you
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reader, auntyluuurve +, writes (24 August 2007):
 oh dear. im sorry but you are wasting your time. clearly you are crazy about this guy but if you have plans of marriage or long term perfection with this guy, u ARE NOT gonna get it. trust me. hes probably come to realise that after 3 and a half years, just his presence isnt enough to keep you as his f*** buddy. because he knows you want more. so now hes realising he needs to give you that "i love you" in order to revitalise the relationship in ur eyes, make you feel like there is a reason to keep f***ing him. because thats all that youre doing here.im sorry to be so harsh but i just feel really bad for you being used like this, its not right. you can get a guy who you will love who wont use you in this way and manipulate you to get what he wants out of you. to be fair, he may have come to "love you" in his own way, its hard not to feel attached to someone after such a long time. but if it was real love he would have said it a long time ago and he wouldnt just be screwing you. believe me, DUMP HIIIMMMM!!!!!!!!!
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