Sexual tension between me and my cousin's husband!
Q. I was at my cousin is house for a party and i got really wasted with her husband we had like shot after shot after shot long story short is we ended up making out touching and he fingered me, i didnt stop him tho, i felt horrible in the morning ...
A. 2 January 2010: What he's doing with you now to his wife, he will one day do to you. You are lucky you are "not" his wife. I feel sorry for your cousin.... (read in full...)
Could "once a cheater, always a cheater" be wrong in his case?
Q. In 2007 I started dating a guy that was 8 years older then me. We had a great relationship and dated for 10 months when I finally found out he was MARRIED. when I confronted him about it he promised to leave his wife for me but I didn't believe him ...
A. 2 January 2010: When you look at him, and when he's not with you, what does your gut tell you? ... (read in full...)
I told him I would call his home!
Q. I was in a relationship with a married man and I thought I got pregnant and tried to contact him several times. So I called him a few times for about 5 days and he didn't answer. Then I sent him a message stating that I thought I was pregnant and I ...
A. 2 January 2010: If you were his wife, and received the same call, how would you feel?
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I don't like the person I've become since I've gotten married
Q. Let me set the stage for anyone who's reading: I've been married for 10 years with children. My wife and I got married at a very young age because of our first child or should I say, I married my wife because of our first child. After that...
A. 1 January 2010: Many go through "mid life crissis", and grow tired of the life they have and wish for something different. Wanting is different than having.
However, those who no longer love their spouse, and is 100% sure, should "not" stay only to leave mu... (read in full...)
Would you still marry your spouse if you knew then what you know now?
Q. To all the married couples, ten years or more: 1. If you can go back in time knowing what you know now about your spouse, would you still marry him or her? 2. If you won a large jackpot lottery of millions, would you stay with your spouse?...
A. 1 January 2010: To all those who answered yes to both questions:
If you found out your spouse had cheated on you, would that change your answers?... (read in full...)
Is it normal to not want a boyfriend?
Q. Is it normal not to want a bf? Or to even not be attracted to guys? I feel it not normal coz it does feel weird not to like guys...
A. 20 December 2009: There is nothing abnormal about you not interested in anyone. In reality, you are very blessed, and smart. You can focus on an education and a career without distractions or drama. Good things are worth waiting for.
I have a daughter your age just... (read in full...)
My step daughter is flirting with me, making me all hot and bothered
Q. I am 47 years old and after being divorced for almost ten years I remarried a women who has a 18 year old daughter. She is college now but when she comes home she flirts with me. My sex life with my wife has become almost non exsistant and she ...
A. 19 December 2009: If everything you have stated is true, then a nanny cam is your best chance, incase you'll need proof, some where in time.
No one knows for a "fact" that she is 18 years old and purposely firts with you, nor that her mom is not interested in sex w... (read in full...)
Pregnant again and afraid of being abandoned with two children
Q. im 24 an have a 2year old son with an ex,who was very violent towards me,i now have a new bf who iv beeen with for nearly a year now,his really good with my son,an we get on really well,im now pregnant again,an we both want to keep the baby,but im ...
A. 19 December 2009: In general, for most, it is easy to get pregnant and have a baby. The hard part is: Do you have what it takes to provide the child with a nurturing environment, the money, time, and patience? If you are having doubts, chances are, you are not where ... (read in full...)
Did the last 12 months mean nothing to him?
Q. any suggestions or comments would be grateful please so i can find closure... i met someone 3 months ago, all has been great, i do have children and the person i was dating they hadnt of met my children yet we have just been enjoying the dating and ...
A. 19 December 2009: You know the answer to your own question. If it meant anything, he'd still be there. Don't waste your time and emotions. Move on and focus on your kids.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is becoming abusive...please some constructive advice...?
Q. Hello! I came to tis website beause i really dont know what to do anymore. Im 18, my boyfriends 19.My boyfriend of a year and 3 months was such a great guy, he never cheated on me,never cheats, never flirts with other girls,he treats me like his...
A. 18 December 2009: Most abussive people look very normal, charasmatic, charming, and many hold high possitions in society. Friends and family may even think you are lucky. They start out great, and slowly isolate you from your family and friends. They keep their ... (read in full...)
I feel guilty and can't decide!
Q. [Note: All names are changed for privacy.] My girlfriend, "Jane," wanted to take a break from our relationship, partly because she was weary of my uncertainty about whether I was committed to the relationship. During the break in our relati...
A. 17 December 2009: At your age and single; life should be like a buffet, taste a bit of everything, but don't over eat anything. Be honest to all female interested in you, and if you are not ready to commit, they know, and it's their choice. Enjoy life for now that ... (read in full...)
I met him on a dating site, now he has deleted his a/c I am worried about him
Q. A few years ago I joined a dating site for fun. One day, bored out of my mind, I had a look at my matches. One guy (an older guy) in particular seemed pretty interesting so I sent him a message. We had a great chat and soon we were on MSN winding ...
A. 17 December 2009: I hope it is true that I am "jaded" and wrong for your sake, and other women like you. You are still very young even though you might not feel it at your age, and you're response was "exactly" what I expected, and "exactly" perfect for many. ... (read in full...)
Engaged! Finally! and now he is cooling off!
Q. Engaged after five years and now he is treating me like a room mate. Here it is... It's his way or no way! It feels like he doesnt want to get married. He is saying that i dont do enough around the house when it seems that is all i do. Im not ...
A. 17 December 2009: We all have to lay in the bed we make. Are you sure you want to marry this lieing porn monger? Are you sure you love him and not because it's convenient for you so you don't have to work and still have a place to live? There's a price to pay for ... (read in full...)
I met him on a dating site, now he has deleted his a/c I am worried about him
Q. A few years ago I joined a dating site for fun. One day, bored out of my mind, I had a look at my matches. One guy (an older guy) in particular seemed pretty interesting so I sent him a message. We had a great chat and soon we were on MSN winding ...
A. 17 December 2009: You shouldn't miss him. He's probably married and got caught, so he stopped. Females on those websites are looking for a "friend" or "future" partner. Males, most are married, and almost all lie about their age, job, etc., all they want is ..SEX. ... (read in full...)
His actions don't match his words!
Q. I'm a 20 year old girl - and I'm the only person out of everyone I know that's never been in a relationship. The guy i've liked since the summer finally decides to msg me after months pass of not seeing each other to hang out....and it go...
A. 17 December 2009: His actions don't match his words because he's not that into you. You come accross depressed, insecure, and under the false impression that if you had a good relationship, everything'll be ok. In reality, everything'll be ok if you studied, do well, ... (read in full...)
When I try to involve him in the plans for our wedding he gets mad and says whatever you want!
Q. Im 27 i have been with my fiancee for almost 9 yrs. we are engaged to be married in april of 2010. i am a stay at home mom he works. but i just cant get him really interested In our wedding plans. i am doing it alone and its to much on me i have our ...
A. 17 December 2009: The whole wedding thing is a "girls" thing. It's usually a mom, daughter, and some friends. Guys don't care. If given a choice, they prefer to be left out of it. Give him a Tux, tell him when and where. He'll be much happier.
Since you both alr... (read in full...)
Why do I smell 'down there'?
Q. Why do I smell weirdly down "there"? Is this normal for me (I'm a 13 yr old girl who has already got her period)? If it's not normal what should I do? Help?? ...
A. 15 December 2009: Taking showers or baths daily won't rid of the smell because you pee many times a day, and poo at least once. Unless you jump in the shower each time, the wipes are good.
Do you itch, hurt, or feel uncomfortable down there? You should tell you... (read in full...)
I feel my life slipping away and I want to be happy!
Q. I have been posting asking for advice in relation to moving on a mutual attraction. I have been trying to get out of a relationship but find it hard as do not want to be totally alone. I feel b/f is seeing other peoplke as he has not been with me ...
A. 14 December 2009: It was great you send him away. It must have been very hard, but that shows you have the strength and courage.
As for being afraid of being alone, don't be. Don't think about that, but think about what you need to do to secure a future for your... (read in full...)
Why do I smell 'down there'?
Q. Why do I smell weirdly down "there"? Is this normal for me (I'm a 13 yr old girl who has already got her period)? If it's not normal what should I do? Help?? ...
A. 14 December 2009: Our body is covered with bacterias, and it is normal. The bacterias are divided into aerobic or anaerobic. The bacterias down there, in your mouth, or anywhere that's not exposed to air are anaerobic bacterias. They don't need oxygen to live, but ... (read in full...)
I feel guilty and can't decide!
Q. [Note: All names are changed for privacy.] My girlfriend, "Jane," wanted to take a break from our relationship, partly because she was weary of my uncertainty about whether I was committed to the relationship. During the break in our relati...
A. 14 December 2009: You are a good man with deep virtues, but you are still very young, and sometimes temptation is hard to resist. Don't beat yourself over "Nancy", learn from it, but don't make another mistake by choosing her due to guilt. That mistake will be ... (read in full...)
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