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writes:im 24 an have a 2year old son with an ex,who was very violent towards me,i now have a new bf who iv beeen with for nearly a year now,his really good with my son,an we get on really well,im now pregnant again,an we both want to keep the baby,but im worried of been left on my own with two children with different dads,an that its too soon,also i no my parents will go mad,an im scared an stressed out about tellin them,i wish i could just relax an be happy. just want some opinions on if im doin the right thing??
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reader, To A New Life  +, writes (19 December 2009):
In general, for most, it is easy to get pregnant and have a baby. The hard part is: Do you have what it takes to provide the child with a nurturing environment, the money, time, and patience? If you are having doubts, chances are, you are not where you would like to be in life. Fear of abandonment at your age indicates past abandonment issues that has not yet resolved, and may be further complicated by financial challenges at the present. Unless you have a supportive family, a truely dedicated partner, and the financial means, it would be best you get an education and focus on a career first before having any more children. I am not for or against abortion, but I do believe that life is "never" fair. The kind of life a child will have, effects what kind of person they become as an adult, is determined at the moment of conception.( in whose womb is the fetus growing in). Every child deserves to be loved and have a good life, but reality dictates otherwise. "The hand that rocks the cradle rules the world". This can be possitive or negative, depending on the hands that's rocking the cradle, and the environment. The above is only food for thoughts. Only you can decide. Good luck and God Bless.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2009): He sounds like a good guy who wants to be with you and start a family with you. I know it's hard to stop thinking that history will repeat itself, but if you keep concentrating on a bad past instead of a good future, it will do.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (18 December 2009):
Your heart is telling you to keep the baby, and I think you're head is too. So yes, you are doing the right thing for you. You must trust your boyfriend. He's with you, he wants you to keep the baby so he's not looking to suddenly run away. Take time over yourself. You're the one the matters. If your parents are mad, remind them you are an adult. You need to just spend time with yourself and looking after yourself.
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