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Q.   my first question is so me and this guy have been talking for awhile on facebook and texting and at school he always sayings hi to me and he smiles but when i asked him to hang out he stops talking but when i said happy birthday he replied but h...

A.   26 October 2009: I agree with Lexie.... (read in full...)

Should I forgive her and trust again?

Q.   Hi everyone, please any advice at all would be much appriciated!!, sorry this might be abit drawn out but I need serious help with my love life. I met a girl when I was 12, it was love a first sight for both of us and immediatley we hit it off, for...

A.   26 October 2009: Well... if she promised to stop, and continued to try to hide it behind your back, that could lead to future problems. I would decide whether she likes you as much as you like her also. If she doesn't, then I'd take a break from her. If she does, ... (read in full...)

He gone cold because I was ill and couldn't see him. What do I do?

Q.   Okay, Well Im 15, dating this 16 year old guy. My first time dating, hes been in previous relationships and I haven't. I had an accident and I wasn't able to leave the house for 6 weeks. Over those 6 weeks, things started getting a LITTLE w...

A.   22 July 2008: Don't break up with him!!! I have dont the same thing being stupid and scared. I have "walked on the other side of the street" because I was shy and too scared to come up to the girlfriend. It just sounds like you are new in a relationship... you ... (read in full...)

He gone cold because I was ill and couldn't see him. What do I do?

Q.   Okay, Well Im 15, dating this 16 year old guy. My first time dating, hes been in previous relationships and I haven't. I had an accident and I wasn't able to leave the house for 6 weeks. Over those 6 weeks, things started getting a LITTLE w...

A.   22 July 2008: I really disagree with Jen86, dont dump him. Like I said, most of why he was being off with you seems to be that he is just shy, afraid and dosn't know what to do.... (read in full...)

He gone cold because I was ill and couldn't see him. What do I do?

Q.   Okay, Well Im 15, dating this 16 year old guy. My first time dating, hes been in previous relationships and I haven't. I had an accident and I wasn't able to leave the house for 6 weeks. Over those 6 weeks, things started getting a LITTLE w...

A.   22 July 2008: losing communication with you during your six week ordeal isnt that big of a deal, if he hadn't seen you in six weeks it can be hard to keep calling and talking over that time, hard to explain but I've felt it before. me and my girtlfriend broke up ... (read in full...)

I've been a faithful girlfriend for years - why am I tempted by this new guy?

Q.   Im in a long term relationship and can honestly say Ive never even turned my head at another guy in the 5 years we have been together but recently a guy at work has caught my attention and Im confused. I have only known him since december but he ...

A.   22 July 2008: Well, it doesn't make you a bad person to want him, but being faithful to a guy is very hard at long distances and he may have felt the same way about another girl before. Just be careful.... (read in full...)

Anal sex hurts me too much but I want to make him happy. Why doesn't it hurt other girls as much?

Q.   me and my boyfriend have been together for about 2 years now. we have done pretty much everything in bed. except anal, he has asked to before, and says he wants to try it, so we tried. and i find it hurts way to bad.we have tried on more than one ...

A.   22 July 2008: I don't know anything about anal sex, but if you want it to stop... poo on him once and say you couldn't hold back. that will keep him from ever wanting to doing it again, then blame it on him for making a mess lol.... (read in full...)

I really like him, how do I tell him without him thinking I'm kidding?

Q.   This started this year, IV known him for like my whole life. He is one year older then me. I have no clue what to do I rally want to tell him how I feel but I don’t know how. He comes over to my house all the time and sleeps over. He is so ...

A.   22 July 2008: Pretty much any way that you say it will get the point across, he will understand, boys dont normally think you're kidding like that. I would just advise that you not go overboard with telling him how you feel. Start small, try "Hey, do you wanna go ... (read in full...)

I truly believe he is "the one". He said he doesn't believe in "the one". I feel used.

Q.   I'm 17 and have been with my boyfriend since march 07, last night i asked him does he believe in 'the one' which he replied 'no', however i do believe in one and truly believe he is it. I know he loves me but for some reason i know feel used and ...

A.   22 July 2008: I agree with tellulah, but personally I do believe in "the one" but since it is nearly impossible to find the one out of 3 billion of the opposite sex, I believe that it will never be found and might as well be untrue. ... (read in full...)

Will masturbating stop me from having kids when I grow up?

Q.   does masturabatng stop me from having kids when i grow up ...

A.   22 July 2008: yes... Just joking! You can masturbate as much as you want and still have the ability to have kids when you get older.... (read in full...)

Can a guy fake an orgasm? How does it work for men?

Q.   Hi there! How many times does a guy has to cum during sex? let say if we're doing it for an hour! Can they force it to cum just to plz u, to show dat they r happy or is it natural (a must kind of thing?)Thanks...

A.   21 July 2008: yea, u cum once only, normally every time, but a guy wouldn't last anywhere near an hour without having an orgasm, even if they just had sex within the last minute.... (read in full...)

I orgasm too easily! What can I do to stop it?

Q.   why is it that after just one, short orgasm I'm not horny at all and I'm super tired. and it doesn't take long at all to make me orgasm, its just not fun. the longest I can last is like 10 minutes with a 5-10 second orgasm. is this normal...

A.   21 July 2008: well, i'd be tired too after masturbating for 10 minutes, which may be why you arent horny afterward, you're too tired. I know it's different but since there's no other advice... guys dont orgasm for more than 5 seconds either (normally). When I ... (read in full...)

If he said "I don't love you and I just want to be friends", is there any hope?

Q.   hi, is there still any hope in pursuing a relationship when a guy says he dun love u and jz want to be friends? we act like a couple and does everything a couple does including sex. i do feel smtg towards him and it hurts to noe that he feels nt...

A.   21 July 2008: I hate to be a bit insensitive... but he just told you he dosent love you and wants to be friends but still wants to have sex? uuuh... wtf? leave him. find someone better.... (read in full...)

I want to be a teen dad, but how do I tll my parents?

Q.   How can I tell my parents that me and my partner are trying for baby and will get a flat when the baby is born? My dad is quite old fasioned, he will probably go mad what should I do, Im excited if my partner gets pregnant because I love her lots ...

A.   21 July 2008: I think Emily just owned that question. I agree 100 percent, think about your future. athough your reasons may be good for wanting a baby, there are far more against them.... (read in full...)

I have a bad feeling about my long distance love. How can I make it go away?

Q.   hi, i have a question i wondered if some girls or even guys could give me a little advice as ive never been through this before and would really like some advice... ive been with my bf for a while he is amazing i really do love him and i feel t...

A.   21 July 2008: Unless you can know he is not cheating and move in with him, move near him, or get him to get closer to you, the relationship is over. This is the one place though where you can break up and still be friends, but there will always be the temptaion ... (read in full...)

Should I meet this girl for sex? She thinks I'm 16 but I'm not!

Q.   ok im 14 and im dating or was dating a 16 yr old girl. we been talking over the internet. when we finally meet i took her to the movies. i like her she like me. we start kissing. it was dark because we where in a theater. she took of her bra and i ...

A.   21 July 2008: I am 16 and personally, I find that my virginity is a trophy I can flaunt over all my other friends who fell to temptation (yea, I know it sounds lame). I think you should not ever date a girl like what you did, sex can be tempting and you feel like ... (read in full...)

I'm having a hard time trying to figure out if he really cares.

Q.   Ok so I've been datin this guy 4 a few months now..and I really feel that I love him and I have expressed my feelins 2 him and he said 2 me.."don't say it if u don't really mean it" . So that had me thinkin maybe he feel the same way,of course ...

A.   21 July 2008: From a guy's point of view, when women express their feelings straight to a guy, it does not seem like they really mean it. Guys tend to take what you say a little bit differently than what you mean it. I can't quite think of an example but it is ... (read in full...)

Suspicious texts from another girl - is she teasing me or is there something to it?

Q.   Okay so I've been dating my boyfriend for about 2 months and a half. On june I went on a cruise for a week without him. After a few days of me being back home, i was with my boyfriend and he gets a text from some girl that he knows from school. ...

A.   21 July 2008: You really don't have enough evidence to prove he is a cheater. From what I have seen with women (which include my mom, my girlfriend, and my best friend's girlfriend) they tend to have quite a few fears of boyfriends or husbands cheating on them ... (read in full...)

I'm bi-curious, but the guy I like is in a relationship.

Q.   I recently started hanging out with a guy who is bi-sexual and open about it. I have always wondered myself whether or not i was gay/bi/whatever because i enjoy gay porn, however, i've never even gone as far as to hint to anyone the way i sometimes ...

A.   21 July 2008: Well first of all, as in any relationship, I believe personality is the most important thing, over any sexual attraction. I think you should really evaluate yourself and find out if you really like the guy for looks or his body or if you just like ... (read in full...)

3 months pregnant and discovered that partner is looking for sex online

Q.   I have been with my partner for just under two years. We live together, I love him and I am carrying his baby of 3 months. We just got back from a week getaway to reconcille our differences and took the laptop with us. On returning, one eve...

A.   21 July 2008: Abortion is definitely not the way to go. I am not saying this for the sake of religion but for the sake of a child's life. What I would do is confront him about talking to other women on adult finder; don't try to get him to stop, just find out if ... (read in full...)

I love my husband and would never want to hurt him, but I really fancy his brother. How do I stop thinking about him?

Q.   Hi, I'm a 23 year old woman, i'm married with a 2 year old daughter. i love my partner to bits and would never do anything to hurt him but i really fancy his brother, and i cant get him out of my head. I know this is wrong but i cant stop thinking ...

A.   21 July 2008: I dont know anything about the joys of marriage yet but if I were to give any advice, find something, or imagine something about him that is unnatractive and focus on that, wether it be personality or physical. It helps keep me from thinking of ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend wants to finger me, but I'm uncomfortable with my body.

Q.   well I've been dating this guy and we've been talking about the sexual things we wanna do, avoiding the actual sex. he wants to finger me but I'm overweight and uncomfortable with my body. and my guy is "normal," like skinny and attrac...

A.   21 July 2008: Personally I think you should abstain from any sexual contact to begin with, once fingering or having oral sex a guy would have a hard time restraining from going the whole way... but certainly there is no reason to be uncomfortable. If the guy ... (read in full...)

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