SITE NEWS: New features? What other sites do you use? .. and please tell a friend!
Q. Hi everyone Andrew, site guy here! I ask this periodically... 1. What new features would you like to see? 2. What other websites do you use regularly? 3. Where are you from? Thanks to all the agony aunts, moderators and of course...
A. 19 September 2006: Hi Andrew, I cannot express how much this site has helped me. I've started using this site less than a month ago, but I'm now a regular. I keep this page open while I'm at work. Constantly checking and reading updated entries. It's a nice way to r... (read in full...)
Do long distance relationships ever work ?
Q. hey i need help big style, im still not really over my ex and i need 2 b i think about him every day and we split up cause his lil boy died and went bk 2 his ex!! anyways i have met loads of new guys jus dont feel like goin out with them as i am ...
A. 19 September 2006: I think long distant relationship needs a lot of trust and understanding. Some people can do it, some can't. It also depends on the guy too. Does he want to be with you all the time but only separated because of circumstances? or He likes long ... (read in full...)
Kissing my bf's neck turns him on but when he does it to me...I feel nothing? Is this normal?
Q. Hello! Usually just kissing my boyfirend's neck turns him on, but when he kisses my neck I don't really feel anything. Should I be feeling something? I've only been going out with him about three months and he's my first boyfriend. This may seem...
A. 18 September 2006: Hey, ask your bf to nibble on your ears. It worked on me! To know what turns you on, I find it helpful to be playing on the bed. This way you're relaxed. It can be as silly as blowing air at each other or other childish things. You can have lots of ... (read in full...)
I'm 23 and my parents are chaining me down...Help!!!
Q. Hi i have a problem and need some advice to feel better. I have 2 older siblings than me, and I'm 23, however I am "at the moment" more finacially stable then they are. I am the youngest, and am the only kid at home and i live at home because ...
A. 12 September 2006: It's so strange that I'm in the same boat as you. I have parents who expect me live at home untill I get married. I'm 23 and have a wonderful boyfriend, but they still want me to date him for at least 4 yrs just to learn who he actually is. Yes, I ... (read in full...)
She played with my emotions twice and now she's angry when a I put my foot down...
Q. i don't know what on earth to do right now. my "best friend" and i have been friends for a while now. but back a few months ago, she confessed her feelings for me and told me she wanted to be with me and leave her partner. we wound up hooking up, ...
A. 12 September 2006: She is definitely selfish. Since I'm not exactly sure why, my guess is she wants you to be with her when she feels like it. For example, when her boyfriend treats her badly, maybe she's using you to make him jealous. Maybe she's using you so she ... (read in full...)
I like him - but he is gay!
Q. There is this one guy I was interested in dating, but I found out that he is gay. He and I have a lot in common, but I am worried about this....
A. 11 September 2006: I know it's hard to accept the fact he's gay. To make you feel better, I'll tell you my story. I've been friends with a guy for 10 years (since childhood). We are always like gf and bf, even in our parents' eyes. We hang out all the time and talk on ... (read in full...)
How do I approach girls???
Q. I'm looking for advice really... I am a 17 yo virgin, but i have never even kissed a girl, and all my friends have had sex and i REALLY want to but I dont know how to meet girls, like when im at college there is alot of girls i would like to me...
A. 11 September 2006: First of all, make sure you're ready to date and start a relationship. You also have to keep in mind what kind of girls will be a good match for you (mentally).
Easiest way to train yourself to be more talkative to girls is to try internet dati... (read in full...)
Is the word love used too loosely or is it me???
Q. Just a quick thought....Is it me or do any of you other agony aunts compelled to believe that the word love is loosely used a lot. I mean who knows the actual meaning but to say you are in love with someone who you have know for a matter of months ...
A. 11 September 2006: I thought I will put my two cents thought about this "love" question. Did you know the phrase "I Love You" is rarely use in a lot of asian culture? You don't say I love you even to your wife. The only place you see "I Love You" is in poetry and ... (read in full...)
Ive been with my guy for a year now, but its really odd that I dont know what he does for work!!?
Q. Iv been dating my bf for nearly a year... i feel as though i know him quite well except for ONE thing... i dont know where he works or what his occupation is. Is this strange? im 21 and at university and hes 26. Each time i mention it, he evades i...
A. 11 September 2006: I think you should have the right to know, as this was one of the first thing to I asked my boyfriend before I get to know him. However, I can see how your boyfriend can be intimatidated telling you because he's scare you view him as someone not ... (read in full...)
I didn't realise my BF could be so cold-hearted! Am I just a doormat?
Q. I'm a 20/f and i have been with mu bf for 2yrs. He cheated on me early on in our relationship and i didnt find out until 6 months later. We have moved in together and soon we overcame it but he seems to go in the internet alot and ends up with ...
A. 7 September 2006: I understand you really love him. But can you see yourself living with someone who you cannot trust, and who you're already having second thoughts about? If you still want to pursue a relationship with him, I advise you to be more independent. You ... (read in full...)
Am I wasting my time on him?
Q. internet thing. last month i met a guy on the net,got along very well, he gave me his mobile number, so we could text. I didn't at first but then i did, we sent texts even got steamy and sexual, and he'd send me a text during the day, but if i wa...
A. 5 September 2006: I would move on. I went on a few dates with this guy I met online, and I thought we were doing fine. Until one day I stop seeing him online and realized he's looking for other girls on the dating site. I know what's happening. I emailed him for the ... (read in full...)
Im being forced to choose.................. My girl or the bike!! Help I love both!
Q. My girlfriend says that i love my bike more than her, trouble is, i think shes right!? We've been together about 2 years now, we were fine to begin with, but when i got my new bike (HARLEY-DAVIDSON DYNA GLIDE FXDCI) last year i feel that i want...
A. 5 September 2006: well, you're the only one who will know best. If I'm your girlfriend, I'll be very mad if you spend all your time with your bike and not with her. However, as a girl, I know we often exaggerate things and get extremely emotional about how boyfriend ... (read in full...)
Going for a holiday in the South of France with a girl I've only been on one date with... !?
Q. Dear Cupid A couple of years back I went out on a date with a girl I met via a speed-dating event. We speed-dated then went on one date subsequently. I took her ice skating outdoors, it was Xmas, we had fun then went for a bite to eat. Both of us ...
A. 5 September 2006: I think it's not crazy to organize a date with her. I think both of you are old enough to actually show up for a date. Don't worry, I think she'll be there waiting for you at the airport. Just keep communicating. For example, gave her a call a day ... (read in full...)
I'm chinese..my bf is caucasian and my parent's have finally accepted him but how do we tell them, my bf's also divorced with a 6 year old child! Help needed.
Q. I was raised in a very traditional chinese family. My parents are not like my friends. I always had to respect their advice and input with anything I do. By respect, I really mean forced to do they want. I want to remain in good terms with my ...
A. 5 September 2006: Thank you for everyone's advice. I know staying with my boyfriend takes patiences and lots of understanding. Telling my parents about it will be as hard as anything I can imagine. But I know I've got to do it sometimes.
Just to clearify a few thin... (read in full...)
I was only messing on the net to see if I had the eye appeal.. my girl thinks I cheated..
Q. Two weeks ago my ex-girlfriend broke up with me for talking with females on the internet and for trying to hook up with them. But I was not trying to hook up with them, i was just seeing if i still had the eye appeal, because she does not have ...
A. 1 September 2006: uhm... as a girl, I have to say you really shouldn't have done the whole internet thing when you have a great girlfriend that you love dearly. If you are looking for other girls on the internet, and actually went out to meet them, I will do exactly ... (read in full...)
I am deeply in love with him, but feel that our relationship is eroding oh so quickly...
Q. I live with a man that I am deeply in love with. We have known one another for coming on a year. We became attracted to one another when we began to exchange emails. In the emails we shared intimate memories of childhood and our marraiges with i...
A. 1 September 2006: I feel really sorry for you. I think you have to do what's best for you. Love is great when you're in it, but it takes a lot from both parties to make it happen. You have to know what your limits are. If he is doing something that hurts your hea... (read in full...)
One way trust...What should I do???
Q. hiya, i asked for a male friends number so i could thank that person for looking after my friends at a party while i was busy and my boyfriend has blown it out of portion saying its weird that i should ask for this guys number to thank him for being ...
A. 1 September 2006: Yes, guys do get jealous about their girlfriend going out and spending time with another guy. But girls do the same thing as well. Therefore, we really can't blame them. I honestly think it's absolutely fine to have male friends. Although, spending ... (read in full...)
Im 21 and a virgin, can you give me some tips with the ladies please
Q. Hi, im a 21 almost 22 yr old guy who is a virgin, i have only ever kissed two girls. i dont know that many girls. i have recently started using an online dating service to try and get to know more girls. i was wondering if you could give me some ...
A. 1 September 2006: Remember there's nothing wrong being a virgin at age 21/22. There are 2 types of girls that you'll meet. First type is girls who think you still being a virgin must be a nerd, something who doesn't have the look or charm to get a girl (girls who ... (read in full...)
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