7 years and now this...
Q. The major problem i have in my relationship is TRUST and DEPENDABILITY. 2 major problems in my book. I've been with my love for 7 years and I love him. We have gone through some s*#t and we are still together. We have never cheated on one another, ...
A. 27 September 2009: Honest! I think you should put a little confidence in him. Tell him not to lie and at the same time when he tells you some true things that you don't like, relax and praise him for telling the truth. By doing this I am sure you can out in enoug... (read in full...)
I think husband's affair is still on after 2 years but he denies it!
Q. I have been married 11 years - was a passionate afair which lead to us getting married. husband is 2 yrs younger. he is still good looking muscular, I was a bomb but am now very fat around 100 kgs but still considered attractive and charming. my ...
A. 27 September 2009: I may be too young for suggesting you anything. I read through your questions carefully and all the answers so far. According to me, I think you should put 100% confidence in your husband, get your self so involved with him, like becoming his sec... (read in full...)
How can I tell whether married co-worker fancies me?
Q. Hello. This may seem a little arrogant but I'm increasingly starting to feel that this married woman at work may fancy me but is doing her best to try and convey that she doesn't. Is there any way of telling without being confrontational? I know ...
A. 26 September 2009: Wait..
Don't make a move now. I agree to ask_oldsister, don't tempt her now. Perhaps she may reconcile things with her husband and live with him happily.
Or may be (extreme thought), as you said her marriage is on the rocks, or whatever, the re... (read in full...)
How can I help him without giving in?
Q. so i just broke up with my boyfriend about about a week ago. i did it because i dont think im ready for the kind of relationship we were in, plus i just graduated hs and really want to figure everything out which i couldnt have done if i was with ...
A. 25 September 2009: relax. time flys really fast. dont bother yourself now. i am sure nothing will happen. he is old enough to care of himself. he is reacting like this because he is feeling bad about it and instead of telling it bluntly on your face, he is behaving ... (read in full...)
I dated a girl in the past that she really hates so she broke up with me. How do I get her back?
Q. hi people really hope u can help me out. there's this girl i have been dating for 2 months and she was the only girl that i had ever felt this way about. I loved her with my all and she loves me too. She said i was the greatest and the best boyfrien...
A. 22 September 2009: I see lots of people forget their self respect once they fall in love. My advice to you will be you will be contact and once and for all tell what u r feeling. After that give her time to decide what she wants to do. But dont degrade yourself ... (read in full...)
What do I do for the best? Keep the baby or terminate?
Q. Hello, I am 7 weeks pregnant, me and my partner were togther for about 4 years and now have been broken up for almost a year now but he now has a new girfriend of about 6 months. He wants to terminate, he feels as if he's not ready and that he is ...
A. 21 September 2009: Don't!
Otherwise you will guilty about this all your life.... (read in full...)
Married 3 years and lust for other men is driving me crazy!
Q. i have been married for 3 years. we have no children yet but will be soon. However, I am finding it increasingly hard to stop thinking about being with other men. I imagine having sex with them more than I want to with my husband. I love my husband ...
A. 21 September 2009: You don't love, if you loved him, you wouldn't think this way.... (read in full...)
I have a crush on him, what should I do (we are Muslims)?
Q. I have a crush on this guy. He is my best friend. He is always beside me. I know him since the time he's still dating his ex-girlfriend. But, now they are no longer together. We went to a vacation together and enjoy weekends together. We are Muslim, ...
A. 21 September 2009: Get out of it!
As touching, kissing and hugging is not allowed, so is having unlawful affairs!
He has had girlfriends in the past. So I am sure he is not the shy types, he must be fooling you. Or may be he wants to use you.
When your suppo... (read in full...)
Can I be his friend now I'm no longer his mistress?
Q. Hello I recently broke up with a married man with whom I was having an affair. Actually, he was the one who broke up with me saying that he didn't want to lead me on and he didn't want to hurt his wife and family. He got this wake-up cal...
A. 21 September 2009: I agree to the first answer. He's used you and if you continue like this he will use you again. Have some self respect and move on, stop all communication. Just stay away!... (read in full...)
I'm cheating on my wife while she is trying to make it work... how can I stop?
Q. Hello, I am a 41 years old and have been married for 25 years. My wife and I were High Schools sweethearts. We have two children on in college and one in high school. I love my wife but really haven't told her that enough over the years. Sex for m...
A. 21 September 2009: You are so mean! You should not do this with your wife, whose been with you for the last 25 years and gave birth to two children and raised them. How can you even think of one night stand? Will you like if your wife does that??? If she does... (read in full...)
I think I've really hurt him... what can I do?
Q. Okay... so here is the situation. I work in a small company and I am talking really small. I think we have about 30 employees total. So anyway I made friends with 3 guys, we all hang out together. This is the first time all my friends have bee...
A. 21 September 2009: I think the medal is a little too heavy for me, thanks :)! Well, I would first of all appreciate the stand you took. I am sure it is not easy for you to do this. I just want to tell you that theirs someone somewhere in this world who's actually s... (read in full...)
I've broken up with him so I don't get hurt.... but it hurts so much!!!
Q. I was seeing this guy for almost 11 months.. We stopped seeing each other about 2 weeks ago, because he was not ready for a serious relationship ( but we were exculsive ) I had to cut him loose cuz i wanted more. Yea it took me a while to let him ...
A. 21 September 2009: Put your energies in something interesting like work/study or hang out with friends. I think you need to exercise self control over yourself. I see you succumbing to your feelings. Hold on dear the world is real BIG.... (read in full...)
How can we compromise on our introvert/extrovert personality traits?
Q. Hi there, My boyfriend and I have an amazing relationship and have been together five months. I am 25 and was in a long-term relationship for three years before. There is a big problem - he is not interested in integrating with my friends a...
A. 20 September 2009: My experience suggest that no one changes in relationship and if at all change happens, it happens at its own pace. I mean real slow, because the effort you need to put in to change is immense.
And you won't change until and unless you believe ... (read in full...)
He makes me feel so insecure... do I stay with him? What do I do for the best?
Q. Hi my name is Preeti (24) dating a guy (28) for one and a half years. My boyfriend has a really close friend who's a girl and I just feel like I'm no one in his life.... I'm very insecure about him but I love him and he loves me too but I feel he's ...
A. 20 September 2009: Hi Preeti, First of all nice to see an Indian here :) I'm Indian too! The issue you describe above is very common among couples. I would advise you to- 1. As you say you are in this relationship for 1 1/2 years, I suppose you must be very cl... (read in full...)
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