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writes:hi people really hope u can help me out.there's this girl i have been dating for 2 months and she was the only girl that i had ever felt this way about. I loved her with my all and she loves me too. She said i was the greatest and the best boyfriend she ever had. I really want to spend my life with her. Everything was going great, then one day she asked me about my past and my ex's. She was cool at first but when I told her that I dated this girl she really hates, she broke up with me. I want her back in my life because she's the only one that i love with my heart,my soul and i love her with my everything. She told me not to call her any more and that she does not want to see me ever again. I told her that it happened in the past and it does not matter at all because she's the only one that i love and i told that i did not sleep with her. This is the only relationship i am being totally honest but it just seems that if i had lied it would have been better. I did not lie because i wanted to marry her and i wanted to be true to her. I thought that by being honest she would appreciate that but it seems to just screw up everything. I'm totally lost, all I do all day long is think of her, I am so in love with her. PLEASE HELP ME OUT AND TELL ME WHAT SHOULD I DO?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (22 September 2009):
This girl isn't ready for a relationship. If she's dumping you because of the past SHE asked you about and just because you went out with someone she didn't like, she's not worthy of one moment of your time. Move on and find a woman who is ready and can handle a relationship.
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reader, thebeardedguy +, writes (22 September 2009):
I see lots of people forget their self respect once they fall in love. My advice to you will be you will be contact and once and for all tell what u r feeling. After that give her time to decide what she wants to do. But dont degrade yourself further because if go a little ahead i mean beg for her forgiveness and cry and all other crap you will get her back but you will spoil her habits. As u said u wish to marry her express yourself to her and wait for her reply. If she calls u back good otherwise move out and make yourself believe that she is not worthy of your love.
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reader, pinktopaz  +, writes (22 September 2009):
I REALLY don't think you should do anything. What can you do? It seems to me that you've done what you could and she's being impossible. You didn't even do anything wrong. Were you supposed to be psychic and know that you would date the girl that you are dating now and purposely date someone that you KNEW she hated? No!
Your girlfriend is being ridiculous and immature. If anybody should do anything, it needs to be her. Let her simmer down and hopefully she'll realize how dumb (yes, dumb) she's being and she'll contact you. If you don't hear from her in a week or two try contacting her again, if she's still angry over something so minute from your past, then you really should consider if you really want to date someone who gets angry enough to dump you over something that is nothing.
Also, a possibility is that she's using this as an excuse as a way out. She really needs to grow up. Your honesty would be appreciated by someone else, no one should be punished about being honest, especially when it's something so minor.
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