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writes:i have been married for 3 years. we have no children yet but will be soon. However, I am finding it increasingly hard to stop thinking about being with other men. I imagine having sex with them more than I want to with my husband. I love my husband so much and all his family but this lust for other men is driving me crazy. Its like I want to be single again really badly. I don't want to do something and hurt my husband but the passion between us is non existant practically. I really don't know what to do. Reply to this Question
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reader, thebeardedguy  +, writes (21 September 2009):
You don't love, if you loved him, you wouldn't think this way.
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reader, Entropy_Anarchy  +, writes (21 September 2009):
I'm wondering if having children is linked to the feelings of lust...you're becoming an adult, and with kids, comes added responsibility. Being single, sleeping around is the opposite of responsibility. I'd question if you are really, really ready to have children.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (21 September 2009):
Seems like your marriage has reached that point where it needs a boost. Don't give up on the marriage or have affairs or anything. Try putting some energy into it instead. Weekend away, something like that? You love your husband, so there's no reason why you can't jump start it again. Spend time together - a lot! Good luck. x
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