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I've broken up with him so I don't get hurt.... but it hurts so much!!!

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Question - (21 September 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 21 September 2009)
A female United States age 51-59, *pg90032 writes:

I was seeing this guy for almost 11 months.. We stopped seeing each other about 2 weeks ago, because he was not ready for a serious relationship ( but we were exculsive ) I had to cut him loose cuz i wanted more. Yea it took me a while to let him go.. I just could not do it cuz i was so in luv with him, but I said enough was enough and I had to move foward, well here is the thing, I miss him so much and i want to talk to him or text him but I hold back from doing so.. He texted me on thursday to say "hi and what are u doing today" but i didnt respond ( Although I wanted to respond so bad ) i want to talk to him so bad but I dont want him to think that I will give in easily to him.. What do you guys think?

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (21 September 2009):

Good girl for not giving into him! You want different things, so he isn't right for you. Stay strong and don't reply. Always delete his texts and his number so you don't have the chance to reply as well. There are other men out there and one will want what you want. Go and find him instead. Lots of luck. x

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A male reader, thebeardedguy India +, writes (21 September 2009):

Put your energies in something interesting like work/study or hang out with friends.

I think you need to exercise self control over yourself. I see you succumbing to your feelings. Hold on dear the world is real BIG.

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